Here’s How Your House Probably Looks Based on Your Enneagram Personality Type

Your Enneagram type influences your relationships, your career choices; it even influences your speaking style. But did you know it has a lot to do with the way your house looks? Here are the style predispositions of each type.

Type 1 - The Idealist

Type 1 personalities are rational, dignified, self-controlled, perfectionistic and responsible. They feel like their home environment is an extension of the state of their life and psyche on the most visceral level. It's not just about presenting a beautiful space, it's also about feeling in control on the inside and needing to see that reflected on the outside.

So for this reason, they tend toward spaces that are easy to keep clean - minimalist design with lots of black, white and grey (and the occasional pop of color for accent). Or they could go for pastels. Mainly though, it's about using a restricted color palette.

In line with the minimalist aesthetic, many 1's will opt for geometric shapes, angular lines and surfaces that are kept decluttered and clean.

Since ethical issues are of prime importance to the 1, they may also live by eco-conscious values. This could come with the trappings of modern eco-living: mats made from recycled materials, eco-friendly cleaning products, composting bins, solar panels, worm farms, decorative indoor and outdoor plants, and either furniture made from recycled wood or 'thrifted' goods from their local op shop. It all depends on the 1's personal values. Whatever those are, expect to see them reflected in the house design.

Type 2 - The Helper

Type 2 personalities are caring, emotionally demonstrative, possessive, giving and people pleasing. First and foremost, they want to create a 'home'. Somewhere with warm, loving energy. A place to retreat to, not only for themselves but also for those they love.

So in this sense, it is in many ways the antithesis of the minimalist house design - often being filled with 'sentimental clutter', objects that make their space feel lived in.

It's going to be filled with photographs of loved ones, objects to accommodate during visits (extra blankets, mattresses) and things to nurture (plants and/or animals).

Type 2's prefer rounder shapes in their furniture. Curtains and carpets to make the home feel cozier. There could be earth tones in the color palette, or more likely, lots of yellows, blues and pinks. Unpainted, wooden coffee and dining room tables. Whatever creates that 'cozy' feeling.

Type 3 - The Achiever

Type 3’s are ambitious, achievement-oriented, adaptable, energetic and competent. This type focuses on the interior design aesthetic which feels just like the one you'd see in a public space like an office or the waiting room of a prestigious law firm.

For others, their homes seem right out of an IKEA catalog or the latest edition of Vogue Living. Similar to the Type 1, everything is kept clean, but more so for the sake of regulating self-esteem ('this is who I am').

A good example of this is Patrick Bateman's apartment in American Psycho. Very tidy, empty surfaces, deliberately chosen decorations; very structured and organized and obviously expensive. His home is in many ways 'proof' of the persona he presents. Type 3's are likely to have status objects displayed in their homes, both for their own viewing and the viewing of visitors. A similarity between type 1 and the type 3's is that their preferred projected image of themselves is important.

Their desired public image is what dictates the arrangement of furnishings. For the modern minimalist YouTuber, this could mean having a Howea Forsteriana Plant in the living room, with several other low maintenance plants throughout the house. If they want to project a more spiritual image, they might furnish their home with crystals, flowers, and candles as well.

Type 3's are more likely to have a home furnished in the style that is accepted/or revered by the people working in their industry/sector.

Type 4 - The Artist

Type 4's are moody, inspired, introspective, self-aware and self-absorbed. They have an affinity for what is unique or vintage (being drawn towards melancholy and nostalgia). They want items that fit into a cohesive, fashion-forward or vintage style aesthetic.

Anything that is too conformist will make them uncomfortable. For instance, a type 4 who enjoys the minimalist aesthetic will still collect objects from a favorite hobby to decorate the space and put their own 'touch' on to the style.

However, more prevalently, type 4's are into vintage, bohemian styles. Decadent styles, super modern styles; aesthetics that are moody and emotionally expressive. Anything that has the 'wow' factor and makes a statement.

Type 5 - The Observer

Type 5’s are secretive, withdrawn, cerebral and perceptive -- the accidental minimalists of the Enneagram. This minimalism is reflected throughout their decor, with the only exception being objects that reflect one or more of their special interests.

Type 5’s have a different type of minimalism to the other types, though. They don’t do it to feel in control (type 1) or to create a certain aesthetic (type 3). No, they choose to live with little because it means less effort and because having “more” generally doesn't occur to them. They want to be constantly downsizing in all areas of their life. Less obligation, less to clean, less to deal with; ultimately less energy expended.

For this reason, a lot of their furniture are going to be items that seem to be the most convenient. Couches rescued off of roadside curbs; plates bought in bulk at their local Kmart. Their items will largely be void of any prestige, as they're looking for convenience. The less hassle in accumulating the items in their house, the better.

This could mean they completely buy their kitchen and most other homewares from the local Kmart or Home Depot. Even more likely, they order all these things online.

Type 5's don't believe in excess or indulgence in the senses and see that as dependence on the physical, sensory world (something they spend an awful lot of time fearfully avoiding). Thus, a Type 5's home tends to be furnished, clean, but also feel a bit cold and empty.

Type 6 - The Loyalist

The type 6 is loyal, troubleshooting, suspicious, endearing, and anxiety-ridden. They spend their lives coping with their prevailing anxiety. For this reason, the home is seen as a place of refuge; a retreat from the scary, outer world.

Depending on how trusting they are of the people in their life (no easy feat for the suspicious 6), they may have photographs of fun times together or other objects that remind them of their friends and family.

The furniture is first and foremost comfortable. Plush couches in traditional shapes (as type 6's prefer the familiar). Coffee tables made of durable wood in classic designs. Carpets, lots of mugs (for the never-ending stream of coffee they're always drinking). Millennial 6's will probably have a blanket in frequent rotation on their couch for those moments when the world gets to be too much.

Type 7 - The Enthusiast

Type 7's are energetic, versatile, scattered, spontaneous, enthusiastic and distractible. Their house is often eclectic, which is a reflection of the frenzied way in which they collect different ideas, experiences, and aesthetics. They want it all, and so their homes are often a mishmash of everything they've considered interesting for five minutes.

If they have a personal library or movie collection, it's likely to be extremely diverse, with everything from trashy reality TV to obscure film noir pictures.

There'll be decorative items that are kitschy, fun or cool. They won't always be functional and they almost always will be impulse buys. Expect a lot of clashing, a lot of colors and many photographs of each of their 'life-changing' experiences.

Type 8 - The Challenger

Type 8's are expansive, assertive, confrontational, decisive, willful and self-confident. Their life motto is to 'go big or go home' and their home reflects that sentiment.

Since they believe in both working hard and playing hard, their abodes usually have the best of everything. They have the biggest TV's, the lushest furniture, homes that are either in the most sought after locations or that are physically huge.

A lot of what is in their homes are things they bought just because they wanted to. Items that are the biggest and best they could afford. They take tremendous pride in their objects, as they are a direct reflection of their hard work, perseverance, and independence.

Whatever it is they want, whether it be toys or creature comforts, they won't deny it for themselves.

Type 9 - The Peacemaker

Type 9's are easy going, self-forgetting, complacent, agreeable and accommodating -- the quintessential hippie bohemian types.

They could go the route of a more traditional hippie aesthetic style. A vintage Turkish carpet in the middle of the living room; curtains, blankets, and couches in earth tones. Random objects of magic and whimsy (since they are themselves so whimsical). Fabric-wise: linen, knitted rugs, lots of cotton and a questionable amount of plants (which they love just like their own children).

Another example is a more modern, zen version. This is somewhere you'd see an insta-famous yogi living; open spaces, huge windows, white painted wood or wood that has been lightly varnished. In the bedroom, a lot of white; white doonas, white bedsheets, and pillowcases. And again, a lot of plants to open up the living space and introduce positive energy.

No matter which aesthetic is chosen, though, the goal is to create a space filled with harmonious, clean, peaceful energies - since spiritual, energetic concerns are of the utmost importance to the type 9.

Comments

Cam1493 (not verified) says...

This is so accurate.  I'm an INFJ type 5 and I live in an apartment without a couch and I'm getting rid of my table since most of the eating is done by the computer desk.  The less to worry about the better.  My wife is an INFJ type 9 (I was lucky enough to meet another INFJ online) and she's very minimalistic as well.  Her being the peacemaker, she doesn't have many strong opinions on buying a big house or getting a couch.  She's just happy to have her 2 story guinea pig cage to her little pets can run around.  

Jara (not verified) says...

Interesting...

I've wanted to live alone all of my life, yet am always living with others who have authority over the decor. It's a form of self-sacrificial suffering for me to live in a space that's subject to others' style. So this article title caught my attention. When I first read this, I didn't know my enneagram type. Just by reading the descriptions, though, I would choose the type 2 description as my ideal home. So I took an enneagram test to see if that's my type. Allegedly, I am type 4. I don't identify with the description of a type 4's ideal home at all. I don't care about a "wow factor". I want my home to be a sanctuary. I'm learning to allow God to conform me to His preferences rather than be depressed that my external environment isn't matching my ideals or preferences. 
 

JESUS: “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who abide in Me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing.  

I have loved you even as the Father has loved Me. Abide in My love.  When you obey My commandments, you abide in My love, just as I obey My Father’s commandments and abide in His love." (John 15:5‭, ‬9‭-‬10)

1 Corinthians 6:19‭-‬20:

Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.

Denelle (not verified) says...

So encouraging to read! No matter what type we are, we are His image bearere and can be transformed into His likeness. I'm definitely a 6, but I'm learning to trust God (even as I work out the kinks of a highly suspicious nature). 

Sarah Smith-Tucker (not verified) says...

I am an enneagram 4. An something for you to explore is that when unhealthy, 4’s disintegrate to looking like an unhealthy 2. Similarly, 2’s integrate to look more like a healthy 4. We can look very different based on our levels of health, our dominate wing, and our instincts. 

Torisha (not verified) says...

I'm a nine though when I first took the test I got two and 4. After doing some research, I realized that that nine really struck a cord in me. You say you've always wanted to live alone, but are sacrificial.  Sounds like you could be a nine too. I'm not so much into minimalism, I like things that remind me of the people in mymlife and that I'm not alone. So I do have knick knacks. But yes, a sanctuary like you say. A relaxing, calm peaceful place that encourages worship and prayer. 

Emma956782 (not verified) says...

So doesn’t relate... my mother was a hoarder & so honestly I’d just as happily have no house & go off on an adventure with my loved ones!!

Jessica Bz (not verified) says...

Am a 1 and absolutely can relate! So spot on. 

Sharayah (not verified) says...

I'm a 9 and I can say that this is spot on. I have way to many plants and people are always mocking me for it!

I have an open living space with all light furniture and everything in earth and nutral tones with a turkish rug.

 

I wish I could post a picture cause this made me laugh so hard. It's like spot on for what my house is like!!

Katita (not verified) says...

I am a 5, and for me, half of what you wrote was true. I tend to like having a room that is a little more trendy, but clean and without clutter. I buy things that will last, investing in what I love so that I won’t have to buy more in the future. That could be because home decor is something I’ve always loved. I am definitely a minimalist, but my motivation comes from wanting a clean and comforting place that lowers my stress and gives me more room to think, and like you said, uses as little of my energy as possible. If my room is messy, I can’t daydream or figure out how to fix the worlds problems. If everything isn’t cohesive, it bothers me and makes my stress level increase dramatically. I like my home feeling like a safe retreat from the rest of the world.

Rachel1234 (not verified) says...

I would agree. I am a five and a minimalist because it is easier. I definitely have a clearer mind when everything is tidy. However, I like having nice decor, being able to accommodate guests (family mostly), and having a home that feels like home. I’m a stay at home mom, so I don’t want it to feel cold and uninviting. Clean and tidy is very important though. A safe retreat is a good way to put it. 

paryswest says...

So I'm a 4w5 (even though I question it) but I would TOTALLY have the style house of a 9. Is that normal? Like I took the quiz and I always get the 4w5 but today I got the 9...and even some possibilities of a 6...but then I took the quiz with the wing type attached and I got the 4w5 and it sounds like 60% me....🤔🤔🤔🤔 I wonder .

Denelle (not verified) says...

This cracked me up. I'm a 6, and my house is all about comfort and useful, mostly traditional, not too expensive. But my teens's rooms! My #7 son is away at college, but his room is still an homage to his years of rotating obsessions (hello, framed Lord of the Rings poster and a bookshelf dedicated to his game card collection ;)  While my dreamy, sweet #9  daughter, a senior in high school, packs her room with whimsical things she picked up along the way -- the fluff and lack of order and funtion drives me crazy sometimes. But she just keeps adding to it. It's all about drawings, funny or thoughtful words, quirky pictures of friends. And I love who my kids are, so this article helped me not to be too frustrated by their rooms. But after they move out, all bets are off. :)

Nu (not verified) says...

In my theory a 6 would want a house with a strong safety system. They would build anti-earthquake house with CCTV on every corner of their house. The house is also bulletproof, including the doors and windows. They gonna make password-protected doors and windows. Every doors inside the house also password-protected and bulletproof, including the closet doors. They would put the fire alarm and fire extinguisher in case of their house burning down. They would search for a place far from the sea because "what if Tsunami happened if I live near the sea?" They would write down instructions about how to prevent your house from lightning and save the notes on every rooms so they have easy access to the note when the sky starts to get darker. They would build an anti-tornado room in the ground floor. But then they worry that their house isn't really safe.

Nu (not verified) says...

A 9 is completely different. They build a regular, fragile house without doors and windows on the earthqhake-prone and tsunami-prone area and they think their house is perfectly safe.

Daniel G (not verified) says...

I want to say, "this is a fun article but the writer really doesn't have a clear understanding of the 4w5 personality"

 

but I realize that just highlights my tendency to define myself based on feeling misunderstood.

 

My homes are consistently "accidentally minimalist" and always downsizing to minimize effort and obligation...but nothing ever comes from Kmart or yard sales. the few items I choose for my place are are high end and meant to really reveal something specific about my passions to anyone interested enough to ask.

NinaT (not verified) says...

Im a 6w5 and yes I totally see my house as a shelter. I remember I had a bad day out in the world and before opening the house door I kissed its wooden surface and was just thankful to have a place that could protect me from the world. A place that I can hide to think through problems (heavy w5). I don't want to have a minimalistic house (glad that my w5 hasn't affected me on this). I prefer someone of type 9 or 2 to bring the mentioned qualities in their description to the house. The mutual trait of both is having plants and I have always believed that a happy healthy family home has plants. 

AshleyR83 (not verified) says...

This is so not me! I'm a One, and this is NOT my decorating style, although I do go for a more minimilistic look, because it's easier to clean. I love the boho style, and I'm currently decorating my bathroom that way. Maybe it's my line to Four showing up? And my Nine wing? 

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