INFJ

I love getting into deep conversations with the few people I let in, but then become somewhat embarrassed for disclosing too much such as my spirituality and high ambitions. I really want to open an art studio for people who need art therapy even though I'm not an artist. I would especially love to help give an alternative social outlet to people who are drug or alcohol dependent. I'm a bored pharmacist who wants to do more to help others. I'm pretty decent at a bunch of artistic skills but haven't committed to any of them enough to be an expert. I really just deeply love getting to know people and to help them learn to love their true selves. It's great to find like minded folks. Lately, I've become very aware of how different I am from others. Thanks you guys for sharing your insightful stories which have connected all of us. 🧡

Alright Folks!
We have a Whatsapp Group for INFJ now, Anyone interested can ping me on (+91) 7004249186

Hmm..i see alot of people asking for a whatsapp group! if thats the case ping me on whatsapp (+91)7004249186.

(Where +91 is country code)

I will make a group there..i am also not very active on Instagram. 

So those who DM me..please pardon me if i reply late.

Lets do it then,whatsapp group of all INFJs folks around the world.

Whoever is reading this, send a WhatsApp message with this in reference. 

I found this article is nice. 

I thought that people always have a different thought about me but it seems now I understand why. 

Finally, I met you all (INFJs), we are on the same page ^^

well... having group WhatsApp or zoom sounds good.

​INFJ Jackie of all trades, master of one... I've done construction, hydro-vac operating ((so I could save money to have/stay home w my child)), waitressing, running a poker room so that I could cook healthy for the players and rub their shoulders, and now I work in a chiropractic office.... I want a wellness center someday... a place dedicated to helping people learn how to be happy/whole/well mentally/emotionally/spiritually/physically... I love to write but hated trying to get my degree in English/Lit... need to finish my next degree in science/nursing. I'm now 40 and unmarried and beginning to feel a bit frustrated. I see bossy obnoxious lightly moraled women who barely love/respect their husbands and expect everything from them and I just don't understand it. Have any of you faced "the shoe drop effect?" Your mate is constantly in a state of waiting for you to be nuts or not sweet to the point that they push you away? I'm not their mom... I don't want to have to be nuts for people to care to listen. 

I finally feel understood

Hi fellow INFJ's I'm so happy to see the comments in here! I read that INFJ's can go a whole lifetime without ever meeting another INFJ. 

The link from animator led to art director.

Hello fellow INFJs!!

Just wanted to say I agree with a lot of the things mentioned on this page. What careers have you thought of pursuing/ are pursuing now? Did you enjoy it? Also, any careers you have tried and hated?

For me, I'm thinking of going into research but don't fancy a pure research career. Any thoughts?

Hello to all INFJ's!!!

I really want to talk with you and discuss about our personality. How about creating WhatsApp group? 

Reach me out in Instagram: @aideloona

I always wondered that why am I so different than people around me, our personality is the first layer of ourselves the interact with the outer world.
it is the cause of all harmony and conflict around you, neverthless it is not the core of who you are, if  you are willing you can craft your personality consciously also,
I am one of those few who comes under INFJ, and in many ways I am comfortable with most of my traits.
They are so unique, so I will keep them the way for they are now.
Remember that the persona should be the way the present situation demands, then only you can enjoy the surface of your life otherwise rigidity in your persona will only make you suffer and also people around you too.Well those who want to reach out can DM me on insta : Siddhartha4u. Would love to see other INFJ's
 

Thank you so very much!

This is a great piece am infj but I think also the environment and upbringing has changed how I respond,how I think and nature of my relating to people,I usually not feel like a loner I also worked on myself to the extend that I don't feel isolated.

I always give my contribution as welcomed and one principled that I have acquired in life is being assertive,firm yet warm,emathetic etc.

To be an infj you need to tell people or help them to understand you especially where you feel misunderstood.

My thinking though.

Thank you

Hello everyone, feeling much of the same as everyone (obvi). I have always wondered if I would meet anyone similar and didnt realise until now that statisitcally Im at a disadvantage. If anyone would like to chat over zoom I would be interested to meet my fellow advocates, perhaps see if we ask ourselves the same questions? Could be nice, let me know!

Isn't it beautiful how we are all expressing ourselves in here? We REALLY are not alone in this world.

We cannot solve all the problems of the world or our own, but we can try to change for the better, having deep connections is niiiiice.

How about we start a therapy group? LOL :)

Hello, random INFJ here.

i was wondering if any of you face the same difficulties in understanding who you are as I am. I am INFJ, but the last two characteristics are almost equally balanced. I share traits of INFP, INFJ, and INTJ, but most times I don't know which instinct to listen to. Notice that all of these personality types are introverts as well as intuitive, so basically, my intuition tells me to do three different things at once. My intuition is always right, but only if I choose the right side of me to listen to! 
what's also confusing to me is my path for the future. I have no idea what I will do or become, and the personality careers for my personality are so drastically different! I combine logical thinking with my imaginative world, my fear and love for people, my hate, fear, want, and love of social interaction, and so many other things it's so confusing!

i often over analyze every little bit of dialogue, thinking of what I could've done better. I focus on my various shortcomings rather than successes because of my rational and perfectionist nature. INFJs are supposed to cherish people and see the bright side, but I see their entire being. I have intuition about what kind of a person I see, and often I can guess what instrument they play (if any) I use my logic to succeed in academics, and avoid social interaction altogether. Of course, my humanity insists on trying. So which to suppress: the nature of personality, or the human nature? I am known for being weird, cool, and extremely logical. And yet, my imagination is completely overgrown! My stories in my head are the only place that I can truly live! This has led me to become pessimistic in nature and disappointed in reality.

why can't I just be one kind of person? Even a regular paradox of an INFJ would be nice.

anyone else have a problem like mine or is it just me? (also 100% antisocial)