About the Author

Elizabeth is a freelance writer and ghostwriter. She’s an anthropologist at heart and loves using social theory to get deeper into the topics she writes about. Born in the UK, Elizabeth has lived in Copenhagen, Frankfurt and Dubai before moving most recently to Budapest, Hungary. She’s an ENTJ with ENFJ leanings. Find out more about her work at bethharris.com

8 Things You Should Never Say to an ENTJ

When it comes to personality types, ENTJs have to be one of the most single-minded and rigid of them all. This personality type has strong opinions about a lot of things and saying the wrong thing can quickly turn them against you.

If you’re chatting to an ENTJ personality, bear in mind that they’re listening to everything you say and secretly making judgments about your character. Overly emotional, needy or authoritative chat is the fastest way to lose them as a friend, date, or employee. 

What Happens When You Defy Your Personality Type?

Personality testing can tell you a lot about yourself, including your strengths and the best path for you. But what happens when you defy your personality type? 

From finding new interests to risking your relationships, ignoring your personality type can have some unexpected outcomes – good and bad. You might feel lost or confused but you might also end up uncovering traits you didn’t know you have.

Here are 9 things that can happen when you defy your personality type.

Do This to Increase the Accuracy of your Personality Test Results

Whether you’re trying personality testing for the first time or you’re confused by your results, it’s a good idea to pay attention to the accuracy of your answers. 

While many of us try to be objective when we’re answering personality tests, sometimes ego, excitement and preconceived ideas can get in the way! To increase the accuracy of your personality test, make sure you start with an open mind and think about a range of scenarios and situations.

How to be a Great Parent by Understanding the Love Languages of Children

If you want to know how to be a better parent and foster closer relationships with your children, learning the five love languages can help. First proposed by Gary Chapman in 1992, the five love languages have expanded to include not just adults and couples but also children. 

Read on to find out more about the love languages of children, including how to recognize them and how to speak your child’s love language in different ways.

There Are 9 Types of Intelligence - Which One Fits Your Personality Type?

You’ve heard of the 16-type personality system, but what about the 9 types of intelligence? The multiple intelligence theory organizes people into different categories depending on where their skills lie. You might be a logician or have strong musical intelligence or anything in between.

If you want to know which type of intelligence fits your personality type, keep reading!

7 Unintended Consequences of Personality Testing

When you try personality testing for the first time, you might be surprised by the knock-on effect it can have in all aspects of your life. Knowing your personality type can open up new doors to understanding yourself and the people around you.

Curious to know more? Here are 7 unintended consequences of personality testing that you might not be prepared for…

What to Get Your Mom for Mother’s Day, By Personality Type

Mother’s Day is just around the corner, and if you are struggling to find the perfect gift for your mom, don’t worry! We are here to help. The secret to gift giving is to think about the person you’re buying for, not your own preferences. So whether your mom is a free-spirited artist or a loyal traditionalist, we have got you covered! 

Here’s what gift to get your mom this year, based on her personality type.


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