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What to do When Lack Freedom Threatens a Mental Breakdown (INTJ)

by Thuna on Tuesday, December 25, 2018 - 10:56pm

I am a 15 yo INTJ (I believe), and while I realize that it is too early to be sure, I believe I have set my thought process properly and actually am an INTJ. For the past year however, with me starting to go to a 'good' school, I have felt that the system is not only lacking but also selfish (I live in Turkey, 8/5 school and extra 26 hours a week lessons, due to specific...

2 Comments | Last comment on 02/21/2019 - 6:05am

Surrounded by illogical women (who I otherwise love and admire)

by Guest on Monday, October 15, 2018 - 3:40am

I'm surrounded by extroverted feelers (some more logical than others) who struggle constantly with their thoughts (either constantly repeating themsleves or probing for reasons to be hurt). They say thier thoughts out  loud so I can not to hear what isn't being said LOL. It's exhausting. I'd LOVE to know someone capable of long, knowing smiles -male or female -this isn't a romantical type...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/01/2018 - 4:59am

I am not like Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 9:29pm


Iam not like Hillary Clinton.

She has low standards and no sense of morality or ethics

I have high standards and a sense of morality and I have eithics

15 Comments | Last comment on 02/27/2019 - 2:20pm

INTJ Friendship/Romance

by Guest on Friday, January 26, 2018 - 4:24pm

Is it possible for an INTJ male to have a deep connection with someone, to the point of being able to know her thoughts and complete her sentences, but be able to walk away and not stay in touch? To disappear from her life completely as if he never existed? I know time heals everything, but I am haunted....Not a day goes by....

27 Comments | Last comment on 12/11/2018 - 11:20pm

INTJ ready to debate!

by Elrond Half-Elven on Monday, January 22, 2018 - 5:37pm

Just let me know, I’m ready to engage anyone in a intellectual debate!

10 Comments | Last comment on 10/26/2018 - 1:03pm

Diseased movie

by LockheedSR71 on Saturday, January 20, 2018 - 8:33pm

Did anyone watch "The holy mountain"?

1 Comments | Last comment on 03/17/2019 - 12:46am

INTJ man - issues with dating/intimacy

by lovewand on Saturday, January 6, 2018 - 1:58am

Hello folks, I'm a 25 yrs INTJ trying to find some light in this existence. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. I am at my ''best moment'' of my life (Financially independent, living in paradise, healthy, etc.. too subjective, but it will help to understand) However I have to hardly force myself to feel happy/grateful. Thinking by myself, it makes me wonder that...

12 Comments | Last comment on 12/19/2018 - 5:18pm


by Guest on Tuesday, January 2, 2018 - 5:13am

INTJ's version of Netflix and chill ..
Deep, intellectual, intelligent debate and mind stimulating conversation?

Really though, serious inquiry lol - if anyone would like to be destroyed by an extremely intelligent female debating virtually any topic you'd like to, I'm dying for some good conversation. And you won't be disappointed, I can promise you that.

13 Comments | Last comment on 07/28/2018 - 11:25pm

Am I the only one?

by Guest on Thursday, December 14, 2017 - 2:19pm

I am a highly intelligent 21 year old male INTJ and have started to wish sometimes that I was hit on the head with a rock when I was younger.

 I am often highly misunderstood and have begun building an exterior conformist image because people just don't get me. I excel at my work but am excluded from the team. I have some solid friends spread over the country but now that I am older and...

6 Comments | Last comment on 02/19/2018 - 7:15pm

intj guy

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 4:31am

im really bored and would appriciate someone to talk to. i dont really care who

8 Comments | Last comment on 04/29/2018 - 12:18am

INTJ girl

by Guest on Friday, November 24, 2017 - 3:10pm

I'm an INTJ woman (19 years old) and i have always felt so different from everyone else (other girls especially) and sometimes it bothers me but usually i don't mind at all. I have just recently found out i'm an INTJ and just the fact that there are other girls out there , just like me makes me so happy and proud to be a rare type. My boyfiend is an ENFP and he is my best friend and soulmate,...

17 Comments | Last comment on 11/09/2018 - 9:10pm

Where to find INTJ guy?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 5:31am

Ok so obviosuly there's no tried and true way or place to find an INTJ, but I'm so irked by the idea that it's the only personality type I can be in a successful relationship with! Especially being the rarest type.. My last boyfriend was an INTJ, and our connection was nothing short of a fantasy for years. We didn't work out for reasons I've only recently come to understand. But he's long gone...

13 Comments | Last comment on 11/12/2018 - 3:35am

Pizzagate from an INTJ perspective

by Guest on Tuesday, November 14, 2017 - 4:54am

I'm curious to know other INTJs perspective on pizzagate! 

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/01/2017 - 2:10am

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...

6 Comments | Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:20pm

INTJ with no friends

by Guest on Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 1:20am

I'm an 22 year old INTJ female. Right now I don't have any friends. I just graduated from college, and while there everyone around me seemed very shallow- just wanted to party and go on Facebook, etc. Could somebody please tell me where I can go to make friends? I've browsed through Meetup, and every event on that seems too general. I would say that my interests are very particular. I've also...

27 Comments | Last comment on 12/27/2018 - 2:57pm

Interested in conversing with intjs.

by Guest on Thursday, August 24, 2017 - 10:33am

I have found out not long ago that I was not weird and that I am not alone in thinking and being the way I am.

It is truly a joy to know that I am not the only one because I have never met anyone like me in my environment.


7 Comments | Last comment on 03/03/2019 - 4:18am

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


15 Comments | Last comment on 03/05/2019 - 12:19pm

INTJ dating ISFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, August 2, 2017 - 2:24pm

I'm an INTJ female, dating ISFJ male off and on for a year. 

My concern is that I've read that ISFJs have real difficulty dealing with emotional or mental stress and in fact my ISFJ will out-right DENY that he has any problems at all. However, I recently read that although they will deny these things, it tends to take a physical tole on their body. That's what I feel is happening with...

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/17/2017 - 11:29am

My MBTI personality falls bewteen INTP and INTJ

by 100db on Wednesday, July 26, 2017 - 5:53pm

My question is have taken the MBTI Test many times before and the results that got were INTP and INTJ. Most of the time I fall in the range of the INTP family but once in a while i will test into the INTJ group. My question is that since i can do both, can those types fuse together to work with each another or I am able to switch between gears for both those personalities. Because when u break...

10 Comments | Last comment on 07/03/2018 - 6:52pm


by PassionFruitK on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 8:46pm


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