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by guest on Saturday, June 1, 2019 - 11:52pm

I am an intern and am extremely uncomfortable with having my photo taken for the company website. I missed the chance to let my boss know this and he expects that I will join the staff to take photos. He has carefully planned a day for when everyone (firm of 12) will be in the office (all interns and new staff hires). In the past my boss has mentioned my shyness/quietness as a flaw so I have...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/26/2019 - 6:13pm

INTJ doesn't and does want to date?

by Inbox on Saturday, June 1, 2019 - 4:58pm

Long story short, I fell in love with an INTJ female in our grad program (I'm an ENTJ) - she basically only wants to sleep with me, and verbally stated that "I'm not looking to date." It hurt like hell, but I came to accept that she's not looking to date ME. To be fair, she just got out of a marriage/relationship that lasted 5 - 10 years, has 2 kids with the guy, and her former man cheated on...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/25/2019 - 11:11pm

Why do I dislike everyone around me? (INTJ female)

by QUEEN on Sunday, May 12, 2019 - 5:11am

I'm still in school, and I feel like everyone around me has no thought proccess, they just do the first thing that comes to their minds. Is this really the case? I have no idea. They all act like idiots, all the time. It makes me so angry that they won't just shut up. They have to values, no morals, it seems like they're all just zombies, teachers and students alike. When I start to talk about...

6 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 5:46pm

Should I propose to my INTJ male? HELP ASAP!!!!

by ENFP_Female on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 - 11:58am

I am an ENFP female. My guy  ( not yet) is an INTJ. We both are typical. He is younger than 25.  We are basically the same age. My guy is EXTREMELY comfortable around me. I am , apparently, his comfort person. I love him dearly. And I know for a fact that he loves me and cares about me. However, he always mentions how there is a possibility of him meeting other girls. I am so scared that we...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/21/2019 - 4:03am

What to do When Lack Freedom Threatens a Mental Breakdown (INTJ)

by Thuna on Tuesday, December 25, 2018 - 10:56pm

I am a 15 yo INTJ (I believe), and while I realize that it is too early to be sure, I believe I have set my thought process properly and actually am an INTJ. For the past year however, with me starting to go to a 'good' school, I have felt that the system is not only lacking but also selfish (I live in Turkey, 8/5 school and extra 26 hours a week lessons, due to specific...

3 Comments | Last comment on 05/06/2019 - 1:39pm

Surrounded by illogical women (who I otherwise love and admire)

by Guest on Monday, October 15, 2018 - 3:40am

I'm surrounded by extroverted feelers (some more logical than others) who struggle constantly with their thoughts (either constantly repeating themsleves or probing for reasons to be hurt). They say thier thoughts out  loud so I can not to hear what isn't being said LOL. It's exhausting. I'd LOVE to know someone capable of long, knowing smiles -male or female -this isn't a romantical type...

4 Comments | Last comment on 06/26/2019 - 3:08pm

I am not like Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 9:29pm


Iam not like Hillary Clinton.

She has low standards and no sense of morality or ethics

I have high standards and a sense of morality and I have eithics

18 Comments | Last comment on 06/03/2019 - 5:02pm

INTJ Friendship/Romance

by Guest on Friday, January 26, 2018 - 4:24pm

Is it possible for an INTJ male to have a deep connection with someone, to the point of being able to know her thoughts and complete her sentences, but be able to walk away and not stay in touch? To disappear from her life completely as if he never existed? I know time heals everything, but I am haunted....Not a day goes by....

33 Comments | Last comment on 05/22/2019 - 8:22pm

INTJ ready to debate!

by Elrond Half-Elven on Monday, January 22, 2018 - 5:37pm

Just let me know, I’m ready to engage anyone in a intellectual debate!

11 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 3:42pm

Diseased movie

by LockheedSR71 on Saturday, January 20, 2018 - 8:33pm

Did anyone watch "The holy mountain"?

1 Comments | Last comment on 03/17/2019 - 12:46am

INTJ man - issues with dating/intimacy

by lovewand on Saturday, January 6, 2018 - 1:58am

Hello folks, I'm a 25 yrs INTJ trying to find some light in this existence. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. I am at my ''best moment'' of my life (Financially independent, living in paradise, healthy, etc.. too subjective, but it will help to understand) However I have to hardly force myself to feel happy/grateful. Thinking by myself, it makes me wonder that...

12 Comments | Last comment on 12/19/2018 - 5:18pm


by Guest on Tuesday, January 2, 2018 - 5:13am

INTJ's version of Netflix and chill ..
Deep, intellectual, intelligent debate and mind stimulating conversation?

Really though, serious inquiry lol - if anyone would like to be destroyed by an extremely intelligent female debating virtually any topic you'd like to, I'm dying for some good conversation. And you won't be disappointed, I can promise you that.

13 Comments | Last comment on 07/28/2018 - 11:25pm

Am I the only one?

by Guest on Thursday, December 14, 2017 - 2:19pm

I am a highly intelligent 21 year old male INTJ and have started to wish sometimes that I was hit on the head with a rock when I was younger.

 I am often highly misunderstood and have begun building an exterior conformist image because people just don't get me. I excel at my work but am excluded from the team. I have some solid friends spread over the country but now that I am older and...

7 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 4:39pm

intj guy

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 4:31am

im really bored and would appriciate someone to talk to. i dont really care who

9 Comments | Last comment on 07/14/2019 - 10:08am

INTJ girl

by Guest on Friday, November 24, 2017 - 3:10pm

I'm an INTJ woman (19 years old) and i have always felt so different from everyone else (other girls especially) and sometimes it bothers me but usually i don't mind at all. I have just recently found out i'm an INTJ and just the fact that there are other girls out there , just like me makes me so happy and proud to be a rare type. My boyfiend is an ENFP and he is my best friend and soulmate,...

19 Comments | Last comment on 03/19/2019 - 8:47pm

Where to find INTJ guy?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 5:31am

Ok so obviosuly there's no tried and true way or place to find an INTJ, but I'm so irked by the idea that it's the only personality type I can be in a successful relationship with! Especially being the rarest type.. My last boyfriend was an INTJ, and our connection was nothing short of a fantasy for years. We didn't work out for reasons I've only recently come to understand. But he's long gone...

15 Comments | Last comment on 06/19/2019 - 3:37am

Pizzagate from an INTJ perspective

by Guest on Tuesday, November 14, 2017 - 4:54am

I'm curious to know other INTJs perspective on pizzagate! 

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/01/2017 - 2:10am

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...

7 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 2:16am

INTJ with no friends

by Guest on Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 1:20am

I'm an 22 year old INTJ female. Right now I don't have any friends. I just graduated from college, and while there everyone around me seemed very shallow- just wanted to party and go on Facebook, etc. Could somebody please tell me where I can go to make friends? I've browsed through Meetup, and every event on that seems too general. I would say that my interests are very particular. I've also...

28 Comments | Last comment on 06/07/2019 - 3:35pm

Interested in conversing with intjs.

by Guest on Thursday, August 24, 2017 - 10:33am

I have found out not long ago that I was not weird and that I am not alone in thinking and being the way I am.

It is truly a joy to know that I am not the only one because I have never met anyone like me in my environment.


7 Comments | Last comment on 03/03/2019 - 4:18am