Okay, there's so many things my husband is Great at ( maintaining relationships, dealing with awkward situations, etc), but I'm having a really hard time with his inability to follow through. I'm not one of those types that makes him guess at what I want (I'm an int/fj female, with a fairly well developed fi), but baby number 4 is due in two weeks, and I'm getting no help. We have a three year old and two 1 year old twins that I can barely keep up with as it is,, and anything handyman that needs done around the house, as well as the bills, laundry, and other household chores. I'm not being able to do much right now, & I will be completely out of commission after baby comes. Is there anything I can do to get my ENFP to help more? My car doesn't even have heat right now, and it's an easy fix, but I can't get him to even do that. I try really hard to be upbeat and positive, because I know he needs it emotionally, but its really hard when I'm constantly disappointed when he says he's going to do something but doesn't do it.