Anyone else in this situation? I love my wife a ton, and we have both grown so much from being together. At the same time, I often feel so wasted on and stultified by her. At the same time I know she often feels unsafe/destabilized and exhausted by my way of being. I think I just want to connect and co-empathize with others of my tribe who've married and love their polar opposites. Heck, I even wrote a song about this dynamic. I bet you'd like it. Anyone out there?