Why Peacemaker Type 9s Truly Are the Most Powerful Type in the Enneagram

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on January 26, 2021

When you think of powerful types within the Enneagram, it is tempting to focus on Type 8, the Leader or Type 3, the Achiever. These outwardly focused, action-oriented individuals easily garner the attention and often admiration of others. They are strong, high-achieving personalities that get things done. But did you know that the true powerbroker in the Enneagram is really Type 9, the Peacemaker?

The Superpowers of the Enneagram Type 9

Soothing, healing, and accepting, Enneagram Type 9s have a gift for understanding the position of others and making everyone feel heard. Got conflict? Add a Type 9 to the equation and watch it de-escalate. These special people have a way of finding common ground when there appears to be none.

Nines allow others to feel heard and understood, and their habit of attention allows them to quite literally step into the shoes of someone else. From this vantage point, they can find red lines not to be crossed, bargaining chips, and places of compromise. These are the master negotiators, the meditators, and the peacemakers of the world.

Type 9s have an immovable yet malleable strength. It’s hard to knock them off their center, yet they seem to fit in everywhere. Whereas a Type 3 or a Type 8 might be the unstoppable force, Type 9s are the immovable object. This fixed quality creates a space of calmness, healing, and safety for the rest of us.  

If they are so great, why is it hard to see Type 9s as the ultimate superhero of the Enneagram?

The Type Nine's Kryptonite

All superheroes have a weakness, and conflict is the kryptonite for Type 9s. 

“I feel like I vanish in the face of a conflict, even if it isn't my own. Being around conflict is extremely anxiety-provoking for me.” - Dieter, Type 9

The little known secret is that Type 9s feel conflict from both sides. Externally, they feel it in their environment and give up their priorities to avoid it, while internally, they spend a lot of their energy trying to convince themselves something that is a problem for them really isn’t. They get drained from externally maintaining peace and internally avoiding reality. This leaves them too tired and depleted to pursue their own priorities. Their extreme conflict avoidance cuts them off from their power, leaving them slothlike. They can literally sleep walk through their entire lives. 

From Sloth to Right Action

Types 9s need to wake up, and the growth path for them is from sloth to right action. Right action shouldn’t be confused with any action. Type 9s who are trapped in their fixation of conflict-avoidance often do one of two things: they fall into lethargy and get very little done or they fall into action and stay busy pursuing things that are not in line with their priorities. 

“One weekend when I had a long list of things to get done, I had 25 things on my list and stayed really focused. I got to the end of the weekend and looked at the six things I hadn’t gotten to. They were all things that were just for me, my own priorities, whereas all the things I had completed were for other people. That moment was a real wake up call for me…”  - Andrew, Type 9

The most powerful type in the Enneagram is famous for giving away their power. But why do they do that?


Young Type 9s often feel unimportant and invisible, and many report an early childhood incident of being forgotten or feeling overlooked. In this moment, they feel low-ranking, and this shapes their behavior. They imagine their irrelevance must be true and begin to believe that the best way to survive is to not make waves and to stay under the radar and behind the scenes.

Adaptability and agreeability become defense mechanisms as it would be too painful to feel important and still not get their needs met. Because they are so agreeable and ask for so little, this passive attitude becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy as their more demanding siblings, family members, co-workers and so forth often get preference.

Stepping into their Power

But watch out when Type 9s wake up and claim their power. They are unstoppable. Considered by many to be the best leaders, when Type 9s advocate for their own priorities while truly hearing and responding to the perspectives of others, they become powerful beyond comparison. From this position, Type 9s broker peace and can bring teams, families, countries together in a way that leaves everyone feeling heard and like they count. Famous Enneagram Type 9s include Ronald Regan, “No Drama” Barack Obama, and the Dalai Lama. 

Eleanor Roosevelt said it best: 

“It is not so much the powerful leaders that determine our destiny as the much more powerful influence of the combined voices of the people themselves.”

Bringing everyone to the table and letting others be heard is the superpower of Type 9s, which makes them the most powerful type in the Enneagram

Waking up

How does a Type 9 wake up and step into their power? Telling someone who is conflict-avoidant to engage in conflict isn’t realistic. The secret lies in a series of baby steps.

  1. Strengthen the nervous system

For any person who is trying to change their behavior, a strong nervous system is a foundational element. Your nervous system, the combination of your brain, your nerve endings and your spinal cord, influences how you experience the world. Strengthening your nervous system through specific physical exercises and breathwork designed for this purpose is key. For Type 9s, a strong nervous system means conflict will feel less anxiety-provoking.

  1. Recognize anger

As part of the Body/Instinctive triad in the Enneagram, Type 9s have a sensitive issue around anger. They subconsciously deny and under-express it, and it often comes as a surprise to Type 9s that they have unprocessed anger. They often don’t recognize this. Tuning into the energy of anger that is in their body is another important step. Recognizing and expressing anger is part of the growth path for Type 9s.

  1. Take the first small step

“I realized I was growing when my wife did something I didn’t like, and it only took me two days to tell her. Normally, it would have been weeks if I had even said anything at all.” Matt, Type 9

If you’ve spent your life avoiding conflict, engaging in conflict will feel uncomfortable, but that’s the way for Type 9s to become powerful. And if you’ve done your nervous system work and have tools to recognize and process your anger, taking the first small step becomes possible. Type 9s usually start with small issues and work up to engaging in conflict around big issues. Many report they love the freedom of finally speaking their mind.

If you’ve got Type 9s in your life, share this with them. It’s a turbulent moment in history, and we need more of our Peacemakers at their most powerful to help the rest of us come together. 

Lynn Roulo

Lynn Roulo is an Enneagram instructor and Kundalini Yoga teacher who teaches a unique combination of the two systems, combining the physical benefits of Kundalini Yoga with the psychological growth tools of the Enneagram. She has written two books combining the two systems. Headstart for Happiness, her first book is an introduction to the systems. The Nine Keys, her second book, focuses on the two systems in intimate relationships. Learn more about Lynn and her work here at LynnRoulo.com.

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About the Clinical Reviewer

Steven Melendy, PsyD., is a Clinical Psychologist who received his doctorate from The Wright Institute in Berkeley, California. He specializes in using evidence-based approaches in his work with individuals and groups. Steve has worked with diverse populations and in variety of a settings, from community clinics to SF General Hospital. He believes strongly in the importance of self-care, good friendships, and humor whenever possible.


Greg Ondera (not verified) says...

I have often thought that the crux of repressed anger for the E-9 comes from the opposite forces of anger at the wings. E-1 has the superego or resentment form of anger going whereas E-8 has the Id power and blame form of anger going. These two forces are irreconciliable so anger in the E-9 goes subterranean and many 9s don't even know they are angry. Anger gets repressed in the deep nightime pools of the unconscious bog.

Guest (not verified) says...

Curious as to how an E-9 recoginizes anger and learns to express it.  

Guest (not verified) says...

As E-9 I am lucky to have a E-8 friend that always speaks up. I think the hardest part is not recognizing anger once it’s there because I think that most E-9 are humble people willing to accept themselves with self awareness. but the challenge is learning it. Once I learn it and acknowledge it, I don’t have to act upon it and can call people names in my head. I also do cardio. A lot of time the anger isn’t directed *at* people rather like other gut types how stupid people act while understanding it. ( including ourselves ) Sometimes though, I just want to throw bricks and that’s alright. Cuz I ain’t gonna do it. And if I really need to tell someone I will explain it in terms of I felt because so that the other person doesn’t get offended. But my 8 friend helped me learn it’s ok if people get offended sometimes, and you can’t always be friends with anyone. This is a long answer but I hope it helped. Depends on the 9 but I think a lot of our anger is labeled other feelings to pretend it isn’t there. Learning how to label it , you can harness it to go to -> 3 integration and get shit done. 

Smerriam says...

This is a great article! Hopefully I can work on becoming more assertive. 

Adam R (not verified) says...

Lynn, you gave zero statistics to back up your claim. Nor did you define "powerful." Therefore, this article doesn't say anything. The title could be "Why enneagram 9s are the most Q-LZ4 type." If we don't have a definition for Q-LZ4, then we don't know what you mean.


If you define powerful in terms of financial success, I would bet a lot that 9s aren't "powerful at all, because people who avoid conflict (high trait agreeableness in the big 5) are shown to have less career success, because they don't compete or have the necessary conflicts to get ahead (like fighting to get a promotion over their coworkers).


No statistics, no proof.

ATN (not verified) says...

Is it just me or are enneagram 5's the most difficult to deal with as a 9?

H9 (not verified) says...

I think 2's (the unhealthy-ish ones) are the most difficult for me to deal with. Their neediness, i.e. need for recognition for being so helpful is exhausting. Help because it's the right/good action, not to feed ego. 
My tritype (I believe that's the correct term) is 953, so perhaps that's why I appreciate a 5. I get them. 

SW (not verified) says...

9's who continue to avoid conflict won't reach their full potential, like anyone who doesn't deal with their weaknesses. Her whole point is that 9s will be powerful/experience success IF they learn to deal with conflict productively and not shy away from it. So sure, "a lot ... (of) 9s aren't "powerful" at all, because people who avoid conflict ...  are shown to have less career success, because they don't compete or have the necessary conflicts to get ahead".  This is her point. 

LynB (not verified) says...

Thinking of the 9s I know, I see what she means by powerful, or the sense in which the word is applicable. I see it as referring to their ability to get along with others (they are warm/pleasant even if not heart types), the capacity to get things done, whether projects or work related, to go after and get what they want, to be practical (as opposed to head types for example)... 

H9 (not verified) says...

I appreciate your desire for "proof" via statistics, yet; the authors credibility here is rooted in her stated years of work, general background, & obvious (to me as a 9) insight. Statics would vary on factors such as subtypes, if the 9 is coming from a place of fear (goes to 6 & worries/overthinks=inaction) or their power (goes to 3, but doesn't feed on recognition or glory), etc., etc.

A healthy 9 is plenty competitive and tenacious, but leans towards playing fairly & ethically. 

:) (not verified) says...

I think what this article is trying to say is that once ennegram 9's finally embrace conflict and work towards fixing their avoidant nature, then they will activate their true inner power. They finally begin to be self aware and are able to focus on themselves as well as other people, strengthening the group as a whole.

OrangeZiggy (not verified) says...

9's source of power that is yet to be untapped is their anger. Being an anger type, yet their anger is repressed, results in their energy levels and motivation to act being blocked. Just like a wrestler without anger, or a boxer who cant feel his own anger in the ring, the 9's 'power cord isnt plugged into the wall'.  Anger should be what creates motion in the 9. Start to recognize whenever you begin to feel slight 'twinges' of anger in your belly or 'hara'. Imagine it as a red ball of energy. But most importantly, realize that anger is a force for good- when directed at your goal it will give you power - unending amounts of power, since your anger is deep.

sunny malik (not verified) says...

I am enneagram 9 is it okay for me to be killed my self cause cannot make peace and shit with other any more

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