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Should I propose to my INTJ male? HELP ASAP!!!!

by ENFP_Female on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 - 11:58am

I am an ENFP female. My guy  ( not yet) is an INTJ. We both are typical. He is younger than 25.  We are basically the same age. My guy is EXTREMELY comfortable around me. I am , apparently, his comfort person. I love him dearly. And I know for a fact that he loves me and cares about me. However, he always mentions how there is a possibility of him meeting other girls. I am so scared that we...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/21/2019 - 4:03am

ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...

22 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 1:34am

What do you do when you want to do it all?

by mindful.l on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 3:54am

I'm 35 years old and having trouble finding a career that will suit my personality type. I do not see myself working in one field, but working in many. Is there such a career?

You May Be an Introvert or an Extravert

You are an Intuitive

You May Be a Feeler or a Thinker

You Are a Perceiver

I have notebooks full of ideas but cannot get them from pen to reality...

21 Comments | Last comment on 06/25/2019 - 8:59pm

ENFP Searching for Help with ENTP Partner

by Guest on Wednesday, November 29, 2017 - 7:31pm

Hello there.

I am an ENFP female, seeking advice about my ENTP fiance. I am simply trying to better my understanding of him and the way he ticks.


When my fiance is angry, he is most defidently angry. He lashes out and explodes, espicailly when he is stressed. When he is angry, he exploded. He often uses my insecurities or knowledge of personal...

15 Comments | Last comment on 06/25/2019 - 8:56pm

How I figured it out

by Johanna on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 - 3:38pm

I've taken the Myers-Briggs and the Keirsey assessments several times over the years and came up three different types all ending in J. Sometimes I was an introvert, sometimes an extrovert. This frustrated me. What am I? Then one day after realizing that I am the total opposite of my husband, a solid ISTJ, I decided to look up the description of an ENFP. BINGO!!

My problem in taking the...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 4:50pm

is it possible to be introverted with some people and extroverted with others?

by MajesticBandicoot on Friday, September 8, 2017 - 11:47pm

well I usually conisder myself an ISFP but I also fit into INFP, ESFP, and ENFP which is why I added those i hope thats not bad but anyway

I'm really shy with new people and I like to have time by myself. Usually I don't like to draw attention to myself... but depending on who else is around I do?? I like to do weird and pretty stupid things to make my friends laugh but if I don't know...

6 Comments | Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 3:28pm

Can an ENFP make a good doctor?

by Guest on Wednesday, September 6, 2017 - 9:58pm

I'm pretty sure that I'm an ENFP. I am more artistic by nature and I love interacting with people. I am a very inquisitive person; I want to know how everything works. I tend to dabble in and out of things a lot, because it's like if I think about anything for long enough, I suddenly want to do it! I'm about to do a psychology degree but I'm really considering neurology or psychiatry. I know...

7 Comments | Last comment on 12/25/2018 - 12:56pm

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


17 Comments | Last comment on 04/15/2019 - 1:32pm

To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...

16 Comments | Last comment on 06/15/2019 - 4:00pm

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...

14 Comments | Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 3:47pm


by kvark on Wednesday, May 17, 2017 - 4:01pm

heck, does anybody know what this even means...

4 Comments | Last comment on 07/09/2019 - 7:03am

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

dating a ESFP

by SWaldman on Thursday, May 4, 2017 - 12:36pm

Im an ENFP - and I fell in love with the charisma and energy of a very spontaneous ESFP. That said, the T in me revolted and also the N. While Iloved being around him, I also found it hard to talk about all the things I love talking about, and would often wonder how we would be able to have friends in common, as a couple. As an ENFP (with some strong T), gathering people together for...

0 Comments | Last comment on 05/04/2017 - 12:36pm


by Guest on Saturday, April 22, 2017 - 3:00am

Hi I'm so drained from my over thinking. Getting off Facebook helped silence the inner monologue. I love being an ENFP! When I'm at my best it's a real treat. Although when I'm depressed and have to socialize every single person asks me what is wrong. PSTD is winning the battle the past couple months...July24th will be a full year of extremely high anxiety and depression. A rollercoaster...

4 Comments | Last comment on 04/19/2019 - 6:34pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Growing as an ENFP

by dugi on Tuesday, January 31, 2017 - 11:22pm

Quick question. I read about me as an ENFP and hits my life on the head. What i've encountered is that others are always thinking that I never grow myself or always ask where i'm headed for myself. I think I know but the big but in life happens... Its not lack of passion or procrastination. What i'm wondering is have you ever heard this as an ENFP? How would that type of personality...

1 Comments | Last comment on 04/13/2017 - 4:29am

ENFP Man + ISTJ Woman = deeply challenging love

by HumanLiberty on Friday, January 27, 2017 - 6:25am

Anyone else in this situation? I love my wife a ton, and we have both grown so much from being together. At the same time, I often feel so wasted on and stultified by her. At the same time I know she often feels unsafe/destabilized and exhausted by my way of being. I think I just want to connect and co-empathize with others of my tribe who've married and love their polar opposites. Heck, I...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/09/2018 - 2:58am

compatibility chart of the 16 types

by dmtcbu on Friday, December 23, 2016 - 12:00am

hi there,

wondering if there is an existing compatibility chart where to see how good the types interact with each other..
like in numerology some numbers go well together while some others do not. and its different for the 3 areas Love, Friendship and Work

this could be very handy to avoid risking dissapointments and waste of time with the wrong partner or friend.


2 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2017 - 1:49pm


by Guest on Saturday, November 19, 2016 - 8:41pm

I am dating a guy that is an INTJ we dont get along at all!!!! He calls me names and is very insensitive and always judging...What should I do?!

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/10/2018 - 1:36am

I'd like to clarify Some things about the way i see mbti

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:59am

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...

0 Comments | Last comment on 08/29/2016 - 12:59am