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ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...

16 Comments | Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 1:58am

What do you do when you want to do it all?

by mindful.l on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 3:54am

I'm 35 years old and having trouble finding a career that will suit my personality type. I do not see myself working in one field, but working in many. Is there such a career?

You May Be an Introvert or an Extravert

You are an Intuitive

You May Be a Feeler or a Thinker

You Are a Perceiver

I have notebooks full of ideas but cannot get them from pen to reality...

13 Comments | Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 2:25pm

ENFP Searching for Help with ENTP Partner

by Guest on Wednesday, November 29, 2017 - 7:31pm

Hello there.

I am an ENFP female, seeking advice about my ENTP fiance. I am simply trying to better my understanding of him and the way he ticks.


When my fiance is angry, he is most defidently angry. He lashes out and explodes, espicailly when he is stressed. When he is angry, he exploded. He often uses my insecurities or knowledge of personal...

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/22/2018 - 11:59pm

How I figured it out

by Johanna on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 - 3:38pm

I've taken the Myers-Briggs and the Keirsey assessments several times over the years and came up three different types all ending in J. Sometimes I was an introvert, sometimes an extrovert. This frustrated me. What am I? Then one day after realizing that I am the total opposite of my husband, a solid ISTJ, I decided to look up the description of an ENFP. BINGO!!

My problem in taking the...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 4:50pm

is it possible to be introverted with some people and extroverted with others?

by MajesticBandicoot on Friday, September 8, 2017 - 11:47pm

well I usually conisder myself an ISFP but I also fit into INFP, ESFP, and ENFP which is why I added those i hope thats not bad but anyway

I'm really shy with new people and I like to have time by myself. Usually I don't like to draw attention to myself... but depending on who else is around I do?? I like to do weird and pretty stupid things to make my friends laugh but if I don't know...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/21/2017 - 4:12am

Can an ENFP make a good doctor?

by Guest on Wednesday, September 6, 2017 - 9:58pm

I'm pretty sure that I'm an ENFP. I am more artistic by nature and I love interacting with people. I am a very inquisitive person; I want to know how everything works. I tend to dabble in and out of things a lot, because it's like if I think about anything for long enough, I suddenly want to do it! I'm about to do a psychology degree but I'm really considering neurology or psychiatry. I know...

4 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 10:23am

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


10 Comments | Last comment on 02/24/2018 - 6:50pm

To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...

9 Comments | Last comment on 02/04/2018 - 12:56am

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...

11 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 9:31pm


by kvark on Wednesday, May 17, 2017 - 4:01pm

heck, does anybody know what this even means...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/10/2017 - 8:38pm

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

dating a ESFP

by SWaldman on Thursday, May 4, 2017 - 12:36pm

Im an ENFP - and I fell in love with the charisma and energy of a very spontaneous ESFP. That said, the T in me revolted and also the N. While Iloved being around him, I also found it hard to talk about all the things I love talking about, and would often wonder how we would be able to have friends in common, as a couple. As an ENFP (with some strong T), gathering people together for...

0 Comments | Last comment on 05/04/2017 - 12:36pm


by Guest on Saturday, April 22, 2017 - 3:00am

Hi I'm so drained from my over thinking. Getting off Facebook helped silence the inner monologue. I love being an ENFP! When I'm at my best it's a real treat. Although when I'm depressed and have to socialize every single person asks me what is wrong. PSTD is winning the battle the past couple months...July24th will be a full year of extremely high anxiety and depression. A rollercoaster...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 7:33pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Growing as an ENFP

by dugi on Tuesday, January 31, 2017 - 11:22pm

Quick question. I read about me as an ENFP and hits my life on the head. What i've encountered is that others are always thinking that I never grow myself or always ask where i'm headed for myself. I think I know but the big but in life happens... Its not lack of passion or procrastination. What i'm wondering is have you ever heard this as an ENFP? How would that type of personality...

1 Comments | Last comment on 04/13/2017 - 4:29am

ENFP Man + ISTJ Woman = deeply challenging love

by HumanLiberty on Friday, January 27, 2017 - 6:25am

Anyone else in this situation? I love my wife a ton, and we have both grown so much from being together. At the same time, I often feel so wasted on and stultified by her. At the same time I know she often feels unsafe/destabilized and exhausted by my way of being. I think I just want to connect and co-empathize with others of my tribe who've married and love their polar opposites. Heck, I...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/26/2017 - 11:36pm

compatibility chart of the 16 types

by dmtcbu on Friday, December 23, 2016 - 12:00am

hi there,

wondering if there is an existing compatibility chart where to see how good the types interact with each other..
like in numerology some numbers go well together while some others do not. and its different for the 3 areas Love, Friendship and Work

this could be very handy to avoid risking dissapointments and waste of time with the wrong partner or friend.


2 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2017 - 1:49pm


by Guest on Saturday, November 19, 2016 - 8:41pm

I am dating a guy that is an INTJ we dont get along at all!!!! He calls me names and is very insensitive and always judging...What should I do?!

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/10/2018 - 1:36am

I'd like to clarify Some things about the way i see mbti

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:59am

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...

0 Comments | Last comment on 08/29/2016 - 12:59am

How to discipline, decisiveness, results

by Guest on Wednesday, May 4, 2016 - 12:54pm

I feel bad about my relationship to work and therefore money.

It feels like I have to make it work, and that it doesn't. I feel like I'm floating around in Limbo, stuck between an idea and the action to manifest. I want to be thouroughly grounded, to follow through with ease, to be able to vigorously take bold action and create results that shake the ground. In stead I feel handicapted...

7 Comments | Last comment on 01/20/2017 - 11:26pm

16 Shades of Love

by Guest on Friday, April 8, 2016 - 2:30pm

16 Shades of Love! 

Has anyone noticed that we represent the 16 sides of GOD's Love in; 1 Corinthians 13:4-8? 

1. Long Suffering - ISFJ 
2. Kind - ISFP
3. Envieth Not - ESTP
4. Vaunteth Not Itself - ISTP 
5. Not Puffed Up - INTP
6. Doesn't Behave Itself Unseemly - ISTJ
7. Seeketh Not Her Own - ENFJ
8. Not Easily Provoked - ESFP

4 Comments | Last comment on 11/25/2016 - 4:21pm

New Career needed.

by Guest on Monday, January 18, 2016 - 10:58pm

I am labeled an ENFP. Artist by nature. Formally trained, too. But now I need to make real money but also do something that will fulfill my need to have a meaningful relationship with the world. Anyone have a job like that? If so, share. BIG Thanks!!!!

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/16/2016 - 1:12am

Please help me with my enfp husband!

by Guest on Saturday, January 2, 2016 - 8:55pm

Okay, there's so many things my husband is Great at ( maintaining relationships, dealing with awkward situations, etc), but I'm having a really hard time with his inability to follow through. I'm not one of those types that makes him guess at what I want (I'm an int/fj female, with a fairly well developed fi), but baby number 4 is due in two weeks, and I'm getting no help. We have a three...

8 Comments | Last comment on 10/16/2016 - 10:34pm

Lets make a movement!

by Guest on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 4:08am

Trying to start a facebook group for ENFPs so 'we have a virtual space to connect with people who understand us (when we often feel like weirdos in every day society), to understand ourselves more by talking to one another (when our actions can so often feel infuriatingly...

1 Comments | Last comment on 02/12/2016 - 6:50pm

Is there a ENFP club

by Guest on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 8:02am

Is there like a club where ENFPs can meet up in the UK ?

1 Comments | Last comment on 06/17/2016 - 3:53pm


by gelpii on Wednesday, October 21, 2015 - 4:18pm

Hello, new to this blog. What's happening on this site? So we are very similar in nature. So we should all get along? If share my feelings and experiences you won't judge me or slam me right? Because if you guys are like me, that's something I dislike. Let's chat. Israel

0 Comments | Last comment on 10/21/2015 - 4:18pm

Dreamer gets practical-Help! I need advice from NFP's on new career

by attnaugustinefine on Sunday, September 20, 2015 - 7:35pm

This is long so thanks for your patience and help. I am needing a new career. One that makes more money and that I enjoy and I am running out of time. I have a son to send to college. I think I will be covering his costs mostly on my own. I want him to go to the college of his choice. I also want to retire very comfortably. I am not in a good situation financially, so I have a lot of catching...

0 Comments | Last comment on 09/20/2015 - 7:35pm


by conarphillips on Friday, July 17, 2015 - 1:39am

Hello! My names Conar, I have this small issue where I tend to float on the border between INFP and ENFP. Because when I had first taken the test my I and E score were exactly the same. So just wondering what i'm supposed to do with this information, just pick the one that relates the most to me? I genuinely align myself with ENFP, but am just curious of some answers to this.

3 Comments | Last comment on 05/27/2016 - 7:34pm

Best part about us?????

by Guest on Friday, May 15, 2015 - 1:14pm

I love being ENFP!!!!!!!!! What do you guys think is the best part about having such an awesome personality???

5 Comments | Last comment on 06/18/2017 - 8:23pm

im a enfp too guys

by Guest on Friday, May 1, 2015 - 7:08pm

so hows life

2 Comments | Last comment on 01/12/2016 - 8:25pm

ENFP Robin Williams

by Guest on Thursday, April 30, 2015 - 5:40pm

We have Robin Willams with us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

0 Comments | Last comment on 04/30/2015 - 5:40pm

ENFP soulmate seems to be INTJ

by Guest on Tuesday, April 14, 2015 - 5:21pm

My husband is an INTJ and I'm an ENFP. Before I met him, I did not think I could really relate with guys past the initial couple dates. When we met, it was like a magnetic connection. I knew almost as soon as I met him that he was the one. We are so different, but the N brings us together, because we both love in depth intellectual conversations about ideas, theology, philosophy etc. Our...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/17/2017 - 3:58pm

Am I an ENFP?

by Guest on Friday, November 21, 2014 - 4:47pm

ok so I constantly have taken the personality test and always seem to come out with ENFP. But my friends seem to think I am an ENFJ. I know there is a possibility of being mistyped. I do find a lot in common in with ENFJ. But every time I read the description of an ENFP I feel like it fits me to a T. How can I be sure?

7 Comments | Last comment on 01/08/2016 - 8:58pm


by Guest on Friday, November 14, 2014 - 2:19pm

hello. i have just found out that i can be hotel manager or something dumb like that. we aint gonna make any money doing crap like that. i want a job where i can make.

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/14/2014 - 2:22pm

For you ENFPs

by Guest on Thursday, October 23, 2014 - 3:52am

Hey all,
I'm an ENFP and I was wondering what some of your creative outlets are?

22 Comments | Last comment on 03/24/2017 - 9:57pm

ENFP romantic

by Guest on Wednesday, October 22, 2014 - 1:26am

I'm just a hopeless romantic

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/15/2016 - 9:30am


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1 Comments | Last comment on 08/13/2015 - 5:38am

Is This Common Among ENFP's?

by Guest on Sunday, October 5, 2014 - 3:07pm

- I very rarely tell my emotions, in fear that people will judge me so I bottle up my feelings
- I cannot tell the truth as I do not want to hurt someone's feelings
- I often question what my purpose is in life and why I am even existing
- I struggle with school very much and often feel stupid and worthless causing me emotional pain

please reply as I am very curious to...

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/12/2016 - 7:06pm

i am a enfp

by Guest on Monday, September 29, 2014 - 12:52pm

wooo enfps rool

0 Comments | Last comment on 09/29/2014 - 12:52pm


by Guest on Friday, September 12, 2014 - 12:46am

Hi everybody. I'm Madison and I'm an ENFP. I have been recently fascinated by Myers-Briggs typology and I would love to learn more about my type. I bought a book on this and I've really wrapped my head around typology to figure out myself and figure out others. I am friendly and I don't bite so everyone is welcome to talk to me at any time. :)

0 Comments | Last comment on 09/12/2014 - 12:46am

Welcome ENFPs!

by Truity on Wednesday, July 2, 2014 - 10:39pm

Looking forward to chatting with you all!

2 Comments | Last comment on 12/27/2014 - 8:40pm

Truity up to date