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I'm dreaming of finding the INFJ guy who looking for this happy, quirky, kind INTP woman. I'm 64 years into the journey ......Peace, Andrea

by Kind Strength on Saturday, October 28, 2017 - 5:17am | in INFJ, INTP

My I N and P are very strong.  my T and F very marginal difference. I agree with the sites match personality because I know from past love that INFJ is SOOOO the match for me. so I'm going for the long shot that the one infj that might be searching for me too wil see this.  Relationship is such a wonderful thing- I gotta try. Peace, Andrea


Last comment on 01/08/2018 - 1:51am


by Lakisha Jackson on Thursday, October 26, 2017 - 1:15am | in

Everything that my personality says about me are true. I don't try to make friends, I am distant from others, independent person I don't like no one to do for me or give me anything and I am only comfortable around people I know. My scores were Openness low 55% Conscientious moderate 65% Extraversion low 43% Agreeableness low 50% Neutroricism moderate 50%. It feels weid doing the test and it...


Last comment on 10/26/2017 - 1:15am

Big 5

by Michelle Wages on Wednesday, October 25, 2017 - 12:14pm | in ENFJ

I am a student at Halifax Community College and my instructor asked us to take the personality test.  So I took it and it said I was ESFJ and they could not be more correct.  I know all of people that knows me would say that they hit the nail on the head.  But that is just how I was brought up.  My parents would be proud.

I am a very caring person, I love to make people happy when they...


Last comment on 10/25/2017 - 12:14pm

Career Confusion INFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, October 25, 2017 - 11:52am | in INFJ

So I recently took the personality test and found out I'm an INFJ-T (Literally changed my whole world when I read the results). 

According to the outcome: I am 59% Introverted, 64% Intuitive, 58% Feeling, 69% Judging, 62% Turbulent

I'm in my final year of University and I'm studying Fashion (On the business/management side) so no physical design and patternmaking. I love fashion...


Last comment on 11/28/2017 - 2:54pm

They say infps have vivid imaginations and live within their core values but how do I live with hardly any.

by Guest on Tuesday, October 24, 2017 - 10:19pm | in INFP

I’m an infp college student studying animation and illustration and honestly i’ve lost all inspiration, self identity, I’m doubting the path I’m taking - and yet I can’t see myself doing much else. 

I used to be so imaginative before I started my “journey to self-improvement” a few years ago. When ever I got anxious, I could escape in whatever fantasy I could sprout out of nowhere or...


Last comment on 12/25/2017 - 12:59pm


by Guest on Monday, October 23, 2017 - 9:17pm | in ENTJ

Hello there!I just did the test about myself as a personality and found out that I am 100% an ENTJ. All the characteristical features typically matched me.Are there many women like me? I am trying to figure out what kind of a new career to start? Have no idea yet,cannot choose.Any suggestions? At the moment I work as a teacher but I am sick and tired of the disorganization and rule violation...


Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 7:44am

How I figured it out

by Johanna on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 - 3:38pm | in ENFP

I've taken the Myers-Briggs and the Keirsey assessments several times over the years and came up three different types all ending in J. Sometimes I was an introvert, sometimes an extrovert. This frustrated me. What am I? Then one day after realizing that I am the total opposite of my husband, a solid ISTJ, I decided to look up the description of an ENFP. BINGO!!

My problem in taking the...


Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 4:50pm

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am | in INFJ, ENFJ, INTJ, ENTJ

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...


Last comment on 12/05/2017 - 10:01pm


by Guest on Friday, October 13, 2017 - 3:39am | in ENTJ

I'm ENTJ and I just love being myself:) I don't think I would be happy to be anything else. Does that sound arrogant? I don't think so, I'm just being honest. 


Last comment on 10/15/2017 - 9:18pm

OCEAN.... This is me.How rightly accurate.

by OOO on Sunday, October 8, 2017 - 5:40pm | in ESFJ

Im happy and enlightened by this personality test. It was interesting.

Openness 75%

Conscientious 85%

Extrovert (moderate) 52%

Agreeable 72%

Neuroticism (low) 23%

Interesting statistics and who I am at 41 and a 1/3rd. I just don't know about the acronyms are at the bottom. 

Mine is O.C.E.A.N ha ha I coul be doing it wrong. But numbers show. ...


Last comment on 10/08/2017 - 5:40pm

Finding myself

by Guest on Tuesday, October 3, 2017 - 8:21am | in INTP

Its just this year that I realised that I was an intp,im 21 and have been raised by a very extroverted family,so I automatically acted like one although that brought me alot of internal conflicts,anxiety,depression and lack of Identity,i used to really try to make friends and get approval from other people although everything inside me screamed no,its only after my fathers death last year is...


Last comment on 10/04/2017 - 12:47am

Struggling with interests

by Guest on Thursday, September 28, 2017 - 2:05am | in ISFJ

 Hi, I am a female ISFJ.  I have major depressive disorder and I struggle with knowing who I truly am and what I truly like. So, I recently started looking into my personality type. I'm learning a lot now that I know I am an ISFJ,  but I don't know what kinds of things I enjoy in life and like to do. What kind of things do you other ISFJs ( male or female )  like to do?  Careers? Hobbies?...


Last comment on 01/04/2018 - 11:50pm

Struggling to make a career decision post college.

by Guest on Wednesday, September 27, 2017 - 7:40pm | in INFP

Hi there, I'm an INFP who recently graduated in June this year, and I have been battling anxiety regarding choosing a career since high school probably. In my junior year of college, I honestly knew I was going to have this unsettled feeling post grad. I love art, photography, music, traveling, reading, and writing. I've pretty much only had jobs working with children and older people in care...


Last comment on 11/07/2017 - 9:15am

Question about ENTP

by Guest on Wednesday, September 27, 2017 - 12:25am | in ENTP

I'm an INTJ. My boyfriend is an ENTP. We usually get along like soul mates, but every once in a while, he loses his temper and snaps at me for no real reason. In 3 years, it's happened maybe 3 times. When he snaps, its vicious and incredibly hurtful. 

As an INTJ, my natural reaction is to recoil and lick my wounds. Even if he apologizes immediately, I need some time for the burn to stop...


Last comment on 12/05/2017 - 1:58am

INTJ with no friends

by Guest on Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 1:20am | in INTJ

I'm an 22 year old INTJ female. Right now I don't have any friends. I just graduated from college, and while there everyone around me seemed very shallow- just wanted to party and go on Facebook, etc. Could somebody please tell me where I can go to make friends? I've browsed through Meetup, and every event on that seems too general. I would say that my interests are very particular. I've also...


Last comment on 01/11/2018 - 7:37am

Type Unknown

by Riukkuyo on Saturday, September 9, 2017 - 7:57pm | in INFJ, INFP, INTP

So, I'm new here on this site. I don't know my MBTI type, I've tested for INFP a lot but it me also changed to INTP, I asked people on Reddit to typify me and it was either INFP or INFJ. 

I recently did the big five factor one:

Openness: 85%

Conscientiouness: 10% (I think I can thank ADHD for that)

Extraversion: 23%

Agreeableness: 58%

Neuroticism: 80...


Last comment on 10/01/2017 - 12:23am

is it possible to be introverted with some people and extroverted with others?

by MajesticBandicoot on Friday, September 8, 2017 - 11:47pm | in INFP, ENFP, ISFP, ESFP

well I usually conisder myself an ISFP but I also fit into INFP, ESFP, and ENFP which is why I added those i hope thats not bad but anyway

I'm really shy with new people and I like to have time by myself. Usually I don't like to draw attention to myself... but depending on who else is around I do?? I like to do weird and pretty stupid things to make my friends laugh but if I don't know...


Last comment on 12/21/2017 - 4:12am

Help a lost soul out.

by The Sundance Kid on Thursday, September 7, 2017 - 5:36pm | in ENTP

Well. Not too sure how to start this without it spiralling into a endless post. Here it goes, Im a 17 year old male living in the UK and I have recently left sixth form after one year. I have good academic knowledge and receieved good grades. The real question at hand here is what career to go into? After taking the tests on various sources I turn out to be a pretty certain ENTP. Whereas this...


Last comment on 11/03/2017 - 12:45pm

Can an ENFP make a good doctor?

by Guest on Wednesday, September 6, 2017 - 9:58pm | in ENFP

I'm pretty sure that I'm an ENFP. I am more artistic by nature and I love interacting with people. I am a very inquisitive person; I want to know how everything works. I tend to dabble in and out of things a lot, because it's like if I think about anything for long enough, I suddenly want to do it! I'm about to do a psychology degree but I'm really considering neurology or psychiatry. I know...


Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 10:23am

Career Crisis as an INFP

by Guest on Sunday, September 3, 2017 - 7:34pm | in INFP

I  am 25 and working as a sales executive in a technical field for the past 2years.I recently discovered that I am an INFP. (For so long I thought was an INFJ.Initially that was hard to accept but iv finally made peace with it ;)) Right now I am  going through a major career crisis  and feeling lost like a puppy with no direction.A phase where I dont know anymore which career to go for. Should...


Last comment on 11/02/2017 - 6:14pm

ENTP College Crisis

by Guest on Wednesday, August 30, 2017 - 12:04am | in ENTP

Hi I am a junior double majoring in Bio and French and need some ENTP guidance.

Ive been going on the premed track because Im very good with science and math and the job is dependable but, only recently have I finally accepted that I dont WANT to be a doctor. 

Being an ENTP, I am at the crossroad of "sucks to suck, your're this far into the undergraduate education process, it...


Last comment on 11/12/2017 - 8:38pm

Interested in conversing with intjs.

by Guest on Thursday, August 24, 2017 - 10:33am | in INTJ

I have found out not long ago that I was not weird and that I am not alone in thinking and being the way I am.

It is truly a joy to know that I am not the only one because I have never met anyone like me in my environment.



Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 9:04am

Can one's personality type change with age?

by kgomotso.pege on Wednesday, August 23, 2017 - 11:05am | in

Is it at all possible for a person to change from one personality type (entj) to another (istp) over a period of time?


Last comment on 11/16/2017 - 12:22pm

College Major/ Career Q

by Guest on Sunday, August 13, 2017 - 4:21pm | in INFP

I'm a senior in High School, and still trying to figure out what I mjght want to do in the future, and what I should major in for college. My question is, how did you other INFP's figure out what you wanted to do as a career? I know it's most difficult for our personality type to commit to a career. Did something just click, or how did you discover that passion for what you wanted to do? And...


Last comment on 10/29/2017 - 10:13am

How to distinguish between Ni and Si?

by caitx on Sunday, August 13, 2017 - 1:36pm | in INFJ, ISFJ

I've taken the MBTI test multiple times and my type keeps switching between INFJ and ISFJ. Is there a main difference between the two functions Ni and Si that might help me determine which is more suitable for me?


Last comment on 01/03/2018 - 2:30pm

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?



Last comment on 12/21/2017 - 11:01am

A very bored ENTJ in law school

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 8:58am | in ENTJ

So, I'm in law school now. And am bored for the longest time ever. Lectures are fine, but nothing really mentally simulating outside the academic realm. (if you get what I mean). Perhaps it's just the unfortunate law school that I'm in. But anyway, any ideas on what to do to boggle my brain while trudging through yet another boring year? Thanks!


Last comment on 12/20/2017 - 6:57pm

Empathy and anger

by Guest on Thursday, August 10, 2017 - 11:48pm | in ENFJ

J just found out that I am a ENFJ personality and my question is there anybody else out there with this personality type it appears my empathy is " off off the charts" compared to other ppeople around me.  My commpassion often clouding my judgment of people resulting in being used and taken advantage of.  I have been mad and even "passed off " many but true anger I never felt until I...


Last comment on 10/20/2017 - 5:32pm

The war has begun

by ThreeBlackSevens on Thursday, August 10, 2017 - 8:19pm | in

Make Truity Great Again!!!!


And let us pray to the glory that is the lack of Angela. 


Last comment on 08/10/2017 - 8:24pm

Awkward INFJ

by Guest on Tuesday, August 8, 2017 - 8:05am | in INFJ

I am very awkward for my age. I really enjoy volunteering, going to parks, drinking tea, and reading, but I haven't recently because I'm so afraid I'm going to run into someone I know. Everyone in my grade is so developed and mature, and I can never seem to keep up with them. I rarely know what they're talking about, and don't try to join in because I hate embarrassing myself, so I constantly...


Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 11:53pm

INFP who have hard time keeping a jobs .

by cronu4 on Monday, August 7, 2017 - 11:28pm | in INFP

I always wonder, am I the only one  who gets fired from medical offices working as a receptionist after a month, or are there people INFP who have the same problem as me?

Honestly, I think all my job's have given me phobias of working. I am sure there is a name for that phobia. I try hard to keep a job, but for some reason all my managers told me that I make to much small stupid...


Last comment on 10/03/2017 - 1:17am

INTJ dating ISFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, August 2, 2017 - 2:24pm | in INTJ, ISFJ

I'm an INTJ female, dating ISFJ male off and on for a year. 

My concern is that I've read that ISFJs have real difficulty dealing with emotional or mental stress and in fact my ISFJ will out-right DENY that he has any problems at all. However, I recently read that although they will deny these things, it tends to take a physical tole on their body. That's what I feel is happening with...


Last comment on 10/17/2017 - 11:29am


by Guest on Wednesday, August 2, 2017 - 8:15am | in



I'm Sachi and I'm a certified INTP and also a certified introvert but I have a friend that has both introverted and extraverted tendencies i.e. ambivert so where would he be in the MBTI spectrum and he never took the test ....


Last comment on 08/07/2017 - 6:05am

My MBTI personality falls bewteen INTP and INTJ

by 100db on Wednesday, July 26, 2017 - 5:53pm | in INTJ, INTP

My question is have taken the MBTI Test many times before and the results that got were INTP and INTJ. Most of the time I fall in the range of the INTP family but once in a while i will test into the INTJ group. My question is that since i can do both, can those types fuse together to work with each another or I am able to switch between gears for both those personalities. Because when u break...


Last comment on 10/21/2017 - 6:15am

difficult relationship with daughter

by Guest on Saturday, July 22, 2017 - 12:02pm | in INFP

My 23 yr old daughter is in counseling...ours has been a difficult relationship for many yrs.  I finally divorced her ISTP dad when she went to college.  Anyway, he never had my back...let her say anything to me...basic message was "It's fine for u to be incredibly disrespectful to ur mom".  

So, being an INFP, I dig my heels in when my core values are being challenged.  She says she...


Last comment on 08/31/2017 - 12:19pm


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Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:23pm

Letting go

by Guest on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 4:54pm | in ENFJ

What if after trying her best to regain harmony, ENFJ has to give up on a person? It certainly is the worst feeling as this type puts her ideals into action and don't give up on people. How to deal when you have finally come to this point of sadness and hopelessness about a relationship?


Last comment on 11/26/2017 - 11:02pm

Outcast INFJs

by Jemima on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 4:03am | in INFJ

FYI-  I am in my last year of highschool. I am female. I have 3 super best friends I have known since I was very young, but they don't go to my school. I do want to make new close friends.. but I feel as though I have particular needs and standards with people that often aren't met.

When meeting someone new as an INFJ, I can often immediatley predict where the...


Last comment on 11/08/2017 - 6:47am

Is it not the most liberating feeling to find out your personality type and to realize that there's nothing wrong with you?

by Guest on Friday, July 7, 2017 - 2:45am | in INFJ

For years and years and years I thought I was on another planet. I now know that there are more out there, and it's the most satisfying and liberating feeling. Wish I'd come across this sooner!


Last comment on 10/05/2017 - 5:52am

Do people of the same personality type usually get along?

by Ash10422 on Thursday, July 6, 2017 - 3:19am | in



Last comment on 07/28/2017 - 4:33am

INFP dating a ENTP boyfriend..

by Guest on Tuesday, July 4, 2017 - 6:33am | in INFP, ENTP

Many similar questions may have been discussed on the forum before but I just feel the need to post mine regardless..

I have been dating with my ENTP boyfriend for half year - I know not typically long. We pretty much have been staying together in the same flat for most of the time with no problems at all. Two months ago he told me he has to move to a big city soon for his new career...


Last comment on 10/08/2017 - 8:42pm

ENTJ: Do They Need To Be In Charge?

by Guest on Monday, July 3, 2017 - 1:22am | in ENTJ

So I happen to know an ENTJ (I know him very well, actually) who is pretty much everything I've heard about them, the tendency toward leadership and management, the ambition, the utter frustration that encompasses him whenever he's saying something and no one is listening... There's more, I can't even remember it all. The point is, I think that most ENTJs out there could understand him pretty...


Last comment on 10/11/2017 - 9:20pm

Depression and INTJ

by Guest on Saturday, July 1, 2017 - 2:37am | in INTJ

Hey all...

32 year old female INTJ.  Diagnosed with Major Depression Disorder, and I feel trapped in my head constantly.  Not a big people person and I feel as if I'm a cynic about everything. Do these feelings ever go away? I'm constantly searching for meaning in life, and can't stand American society and the monotony of every day. I'm bored constantly. Is this normal for us, or am I...


Last comment on 12/03/2017 - 8:08pm

Falling in love- the WORST thing that can happen to an INTJ

by Guest on Thursday, June 29, 2017 - 7:42pm | in INTJ

Everything was right, as expected. I was on the path of achieving my goals, my plan was excellent (as always). Boom! Love happened. Saw this girl plenty of times and from her looks i could sense that she liked me. But she was playing the coquette (those who read the art of seduction will understand better). I knew i was fucked, i continued to go thru my plan for a few more weeks but eventually...


Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 1:20pm

Senior INTPs?

by SpiritBear on Thursday, June 29, 2017 - 5:55pm | in INTP

Just wondering if there are any other older personality type fans on this particular site? I suspect the mean age here to be fairly young. I am 64 and would be interested to know if anyone else is grey and aged? :)


Last comment on 12/24/2017 - 6:08am

Career crossroad - life major decision

by Guest on Saturday, June 24, 2017 - 9:32am | in ENTJ


I feel very happy that i have the chance to share my thoughts to you. Most of the time i feel that i talk only to the wall because the majority of my friends do not understand me.

I am an entepreneur, married with a wonderfull wife and a small son. They are my life. But i make them feel ok, close to me, if only my job is going well. I am a workaholic person striving to do...


Last comment on 06/24/2017 - 9:32am

INFJ, All the Way. Hello my fellow INFJ'ers :-)

by Going the Distance on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 6:14am | in INFJ

Hi Everyone, 

Just came across this site and love it. I've been taking the Myers-Briggs test for many years, and it always comes back to me as INFJ. 

 I find this comfortably reassuring, and it explains so much about my personality and how I think and act. 

Professionally, I'm a youth worker, trainer and Life Coach, and I also write, so very alligend with the preferred/...


Last comment on 07/01/2017 - 10:35pm

To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am | in INFP, ENFP

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...


Last comment on 01/12/2018 - 9:07pm

INTJ with ISFJ... Do you guys think that this could be a good match? (I'm really confused!)

by Guest on Thursday, June 22, 2017 - 12:55am | in INTJ, ISFJ

I'm a ISFJ male and I'm starting to like a INTJ female... She's kinda giving me more freedom than normal, like little touches (hugs, touches in the arm etc). She makes me feel really comfortable around her. When I'm around her... I really feel that she likes me, but she seems to be holding back, and when I try texting her, it seems that she doesn't have interest. Like, I see her online, but...


Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 11:22pm

what is the best personality for a spouse to have with someone who is an ESFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, June 21, 2017 - 11:28pm | in ESFJ

see subject



Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 12:17am

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