I recently dumped my boyfriend of 3 years because I wasn't happy and I didn't like who I was becoming (naggy, over controlling, negative, very very stressed and anxious). However, he is a good guy! He has anger issues and is very reactive and let's his emotions get the best of him, however he loved me unconditionally. So it was very hard to let him go. I am very heart broken and I worry about him because he gets panic attacks and he was very attached to me. A lot of people in my life always thought he wasn't the right guy for me because he brought me down a lot and I love to go out, do new things and live life very open-mindedly. However, I was, and probably still am, blinded by his good qualities. I lost my best friend because she and him did not get along, and she always thought I should leave him, but I left him too late. How do I heal from this? I feel very very guilty and empty, even though, ultimately I know I made the best decision for both of us.
Are there any INFP's out there who has experienced a hard break up? I wish I could be one of those girls that just doesn't give a crap and could just easily go to the next guy, but I care too much and sometimes this gets the best of me. Any feedback or advice/guidance would be greatly appreciated :) :)