My husband is an INTJ and I'm an ENFP. Before I met him, I did not think I could really relate with guys past the initial couple dates. When we met, it was like a magnetic connection. I knew almost as soon as I met him that he was the one. We are so different, but the N brings us together, because we both love in depth intellectual conversations about ideas, theology, philosophy etc. Our differences keep our conversations engaging and interesting.