When doing research on covert narcissistic parents, the Enneagram was referenced as a good tool for self-discovery. The QUEST (Quick Enneagram Sorting Test) provided in the book I was reading was outrageously bad, so I did a Google search and am very happy to have found Truity's Enneagram Test. This is much more than "a Cosmo personality test." If you respond to the statements as honestly as you can, I believe you will learn, or have confirmation of, intriguing aspects of your nature, drives, goals, strengths, and pitfalls.
The results are presented in thoughtful, accessible language, and I will benefit immensely from the pointers for growing out of One perfectionism to good enough and into more joy and playfulness. Here's what I really liked best, though: what I read was very affirming. I felt appreciated and "known" and accepted. That might sound strange ("I am accepting myself as strange" - smile), but if it doesn't sound strange to you, then you're someone who will enjoy having the full report. One helpful reviewer pointed out that there's a coupon for a discount, so do a Google search on Truity Test and the code will show up. I think it's a bargain for $9! I hope you do, too.
