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infj since oct 2016

by Guest on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 8:07am | in INFJ

I understand that I´m an INFJ and got a "love match" to an INFJ. Is there anybody out there?



Last comment on 08/13/2017 - 4:45am

ENFJ Personality Struggles

by Lee on Friday, May 12, 2017 - 3:51pm | in ENFJ

I just tested as an ENFJ twice this week.  However, I previously tested as an INTJ for many years in the past.  Recently, I have been enthusiastic about my relationship with God and Christianity.  And I am wondering if this is the reason for the personality change.  I wonder if others have had this experience of a change in personality from another type to ENFJ.  

Also, I am interested...


Last comment on 09/21/2017 - 9:52pm

Yoga teacher training

by ganeshrao on Tuesday, May 9, 2017 - 10:03am | in ISTP

Classical courses from India Carefully Curated, Spiritual Education. The purpose of spiritual education is to realize and fulfill your divine potential in this human life. Patanjali Yoga Sutras In seven hours Dr. N Ganesh Rao gives you a firm grounding in the Yoga Sutras. Yoga teacher training


Last comment on 05/09/2017 - 10:03am

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?



Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Perfect match for an INTJ

by Guest on Friday, May 5, 2017 - 7:43pm | in INTJ

Which personality type would be a perfect match for an INTJ? Could it be more than one personality type?


Last comment on 08/15/2017 - 5:09pm

dating a ESFP

by SWaldman on Thursday, May 4, 2017 - 12:36pm | in ENFP

Im an ENFP - and I fell in love with the charisma and energy of a very spontaneous ESFP. That said, the T in me revolted and also the N. While Iloved being around him, I also found it hard to talk about all the things I love talking about, and would often wonder how we would be able to have friends in common, as a couple. As an ENFP (with some strong T), gathering people together for...


Last comment on 05/04/2017 - 12:36pm

Any ideas?

by childoftheuniverse on Monday, May 1, 2017 - 10:25pm | in INFJ

I am an INFJ who prides myself on giving people my advice. A couple weeks ago a friend came to me with a question and I gave him an honest answer. Later on that week he tells me that I ruined his relationship. It has been a while since I have spoken o him. Any idea what I should do? Any suggestions are welcome.


Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm


by Guest on Saturday, April 22, 2017 - 3:00am | in ENFP, INTJ

Hi I'm so drained from my over thinking. Getting off Facebook helped silence the inner monologue. I love being an ENFP! When I'm at my best it's a real treat. Although when I'm depressed and have to socialize every single person asks me what is wrong. PSTD is winning the battle the past couple months...July24th will be a full year of extremely high anxiety and depression. A rollercoaster...


Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 7:33pm

Career Planing

by Guest on Thursday, April 20, 2017 - 9:03am | in INFP

I am an computer science and engineering graduate.I passed out from the college In 2007.I didn't work as of now.I would like to enter into IT field now.I have learned few cources recently like Sql,dataware housing,ssis,ssas,tableau reporing tool.There is no time for me to revise the subject.I would also like to learn car driving .I am wishing to fulfill these two desires one is learing car...


Last comment on 05/23/2017 - 9:37am

Anybody had success with a dating site based on your Myers Briggs type?

by Guest on Monday, April 17, 2017 - 8:45pm | in INFJ

I'm a 59 male who just found out that I'm INFJ... One of only 1% of the population, and I am wondering if that might be part of the reason I've had so much difficulty finding a REALLY compatible partner. My marriage of 20 years just ended, and was really an excercise in futilty for a long time. We just could not connect on much of what I thought was important. This, disheartingly, is a...


Last comment on 01/02/2018 - 4:38pm

emotional maintenance

by Guest on Saturday, April 15, 2017 - 3:30am | in ESFJ

Would you invite your friends to sit with your group at your tables in a restaurant when they come over by your tables?  I'm an ESFJ, and would feel hurt if my friends didn't invite me to sit with them.


Last comment on 04/18/2017 - 10:06pm

ENTJ at work

by Guest on Thursday, April 13, 2017 - 3:50pm | in ENTJ

I'm liked and respected by my peers that are high-performers, but 'the rest' (I'm guessing that is an ENTJ indicator right there) find me difficult and demanding.

What tools/resources are out there to help me soften those rough edges for those who don't work well with my ENTJ personality? 


Last comment on 08/22/2017 - 11:46am


by Guest on Thursday, April 13, 2017 - 5:46am | in ESFJ

Does any one else want to be invited to sit with a group when entering a room where everyone is seated?



Last comment on 04/17/2017 - 8:40pm

um im infj and i recently found out i have mild autism. i think we might all have some given our traits

by Guest on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 - 12:42am | in INFJ

i found out that girls with autism go undiagnosed due to the fact that autistic girls feel more emotion and empathy than the typical autistic boy, but what gives us away is being prone to sensory overload and despite understanding others, feeling alienated and misunderstood, also personally i have a hard time maintaing idle chitchat and the like(i find it iritating), and i hate when people are...


Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 6:36pm

INTJ not getting tech Jobs.

by Albertece on Tuesday, April 11, 2017 - 8:16am | in INTJ

I am an Electronics Engineer from India. I completed Engineering with 79%. I have born technical skills. I had 7 year experience 5 year in India and 2 year in Dubai in which 3 year telecom 2 year electronics and current 2 year am working in oil field. I have high learning skill and I designed my own website, a good CV. I am very good at working with technical environments. but i am not getting...


Last comment on 05/24/2017 - 2:17pm

INFP, and cann't find the purpose of my life

by Guest on Sunday, April 9, 2017 - 3:36pm | in INFP

hello I am new here and I would like to hear your thoughts.

I'm 23 gay guy from KSA living in germany, shy, like to dress good, lazy, emotional take opnions personally sometime, I like to do my own stuff on my own way:like what I think and so on, I play online games like the game LOL waste time on it actually.

I have good eyes on colours, clothes and  rooms and  think moslty how...


Last comment on 06/27/2017 - 7:09am


by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:54am | in INFJ

16 year old, a junior in high school, and I feel as though I've already done this before. Not high school itself, but life. I don't feel my age, yes I look like my age and even a little older, but I act older and I feel older. Maybe you would describe me as an "old soul" or maybe not. I wonder if I'm the only one who feels like this, especially at my age, or if it's also because I'm an INFJ?...


Last comment on 05/11/2017 - 10:29am

Careers for INTPs

by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:25am | in INTP

Hi, I'm 18 and an INTP.

I've always been very confused and uncertain when it comes to career choices. I've always had a very wide choice of careers as I excel in anything I apply myself to (although I have problems with motivation) and I find that I'm naturally good at most things. As a result I've never had a clear path.

I've considered so many careers with the ones I've most...


Last comment on 08/12/2017 - 4:24am

Aussie 70 year old female INFJ

by silverslippers on Thursday, March 30, 2017 - 10:07pm | in INFJ

Just joined today so first post. This could be a real life line for me .. Wondering if there's anyone else out there who has found it difficult through 70 odd years of life in this Culture and found great relief in discovering there's others like us! Would love to share experiences.  Actually  .. anyone this age would be great but there's a particular difficulty with the Aussie Culture. Having...


Last comment on 09/11/2017 - 5:31am


by Guest on Thursday, March 23, 2017 - 8:35pm | in INTP

Do any fellow INTP have little to no interest in what is going on in society?


Last comment on 06/29/2017 - 5:46pm

Reality is what you decide it to be!

by TachyonDreams on Monday, March 20, 2017 - 7:50am | in INFJ

1% of the population!

Well, that explains a lot!  

Scorpio + Snake + INFJ = must be a Hell of a combination hahahahaha...

Proud to be INFJ - rare is always good, or not?

Curious seeing what type of jobs you guys/gals are in...

Also, if you could change one thing in your life, or change one thing on this tiny planet of ours, what would it be, and why?


Last comment on 12/08/2017 - 2:18pm

INFPs, what do you think is our worst fault, and what do we do about it?

by Bard on Thursday, March 16, 2017 - 5:21pm | in INFP

Worst fault or, if you prefer, trait most likely to cause problems.

I think, for me, it may be lack of self-confidence and mistrust of my inner voice. I have an INTJ friend who once said, "I always listen to myself." Not boasting, just objectively stating a fact, and puzzled that I don't do the same. Why wouldn't anyone? For my part I envy that quality so much--I so wish I had somehow...


Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 6:51pm

"Big 5"

by Guest on Thursday, March 16, 2017 - 4:37am | in

   By taking the  personality test, I discovered some interesting things about myself. First, was the "Big Five" Personailty test where I scored relatively high in Conscietiousness, Agreeableness, Extraverted, where in the other ones, I scored low in Neuroticism.In the book a high score on consicientiousness is an emotional stability were associated with high performace across all occupational...


Last comment on 03/16/2017 - 4:37am

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....


Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

ENTP And school.......urgh.

by Marcus.....? on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 - 6:43pm | in ENTP

As an ENTP, I find the school enviroment quite wird I would say?

I'm gonna have to sort my grievances into catagorys that I havent yet decide how many.


Authority Figures:

I think if you are an ENTP, you're probably gnna find authroity figures a bit of an issue. I constantly have run ins with teachers because of things I dont agree with, or dont understand (such...


Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 2:27am

Tell me what I'm like

by Guest on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 - 3:57am | in INFP, INTP

I pretty consistently test as right between intp and infp.  You might think that makes a small difference unless you know the kind of laughable machinations of the Myers-Briggs thing.  A test that asks you things about yourself and then spits out pretty much the same things about yourself.  Argh.  You might as well take some test somebody made up about what kind of kitties you like.  I wish...


Last comment on 06/02/2017 - 4:29pm

Torn between INFJ and INTJ

by Guest on Monday, March 6, 2017 - 4:45am | in INFJ, INTJ

Hey Truity community

Recently took the personality test and I was shelved as an INFJ (22,28,3,6) F is borderline 3% and this got me thinking that my indiciseveness and inability to act are due to being torn between emotion and thought. Generally I am a very intuititve and analytical person with the ability to find good ideas and combine them but I can also get many magnitudes emotional...


Last comment on 07/08/2017 - 8:27am

INTJ need help finding a career!

by Guest on Friday, March 3, 2017 - 7:58pm | in INTJ

I'm 17 years old girl and a junior in high school. Currently, I am in a class where I get to do rounds in a hospital. So far, I have really enjoyed the lab and CT. So, about me. I am an INTJ and I am very shy. I like quitness and order. With all of the characteristics as an INTJ would working in the lab be good for me? I am afraid that it might be too repetive for me, since I am a problem...


Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 10:51am

Careers advice

by Guest on Thursday, March 2, 2017 - 10:12pm | in ESTP

Hi guys, need advice, looking at further education and I'm kinda stuck with what I wanna do, any ideas plz 


Last comment on 03/02/2017 - 12:25pm

Accountancy job

by Guest on Thursday, February 23, 2017 - 4:04am | in ESFJ

Any ESFJ out there who is enjoying their accountancy career ? I am about to enroll in accountancy degree program, but just learn that it's not suitable for my ESFJ personality.


Last comment on 02/23/2017 - 4:04am

ESTPs and School

by Guest on Wednesday, February 22, 2017 - 5:48am | in ESTP

Hi! I'm an ESTP and lately I've really been struggling in school. It's not that the classes are hard, it's just hard for me to find any real motivation to strive to achieve other than the threat of flunking. What makes it worse is the fact I KNOW I'm capable of being the best in my classes or at least doing better.

I just don't have the motivation and wish my classes were more exciting...


Last comment on 11/25/2017 - 8:00pm

OMG! It"s me!

by genevieve on Tuesday, February 21, 2017 - 1:42am | in ESFJ

ESFJ - totally accurate.


Last comment on 02/28/2017 - 3:36pm

The Nutshell

by Guest on Monday, February 20, 2017 - 11:25am | in ESFJ

It was interesting to have just about all my personality put into a nutshell .. and have others there with me. 


Last comment on 02/20/2017 - 11:25am

Istj with Istp to supervisor

by Guest on Sunday, February 19, 2017 - 2:27am | in ISTJ, ISTP

I am a female Istj who has a male Istp supervisor. Any idea how to deal with his spontaneity vs my need for planning?


Last comment on 06/15/2017 - 11:49pm

College and Life Direction

by Guest on Friday, February 17, 2017 - 6:37am | in ISFP

I am an ISFP but I am in college to become an mechanical engineer. I feel like this is the perfect personality type for me but fear that knowing that I will lose interest in engineering since not all the time I will be allowed as much creative freedom as I believe I want there to be. I am not completely happy with my classes due to lack of long term interest once classes start even though at...


Last comment on 02/17/2017 - 6:37am

Can types change?

by Guest on Thursday, February 16, 2017 - 3:02am | in INFP, INTP, ISFP

I was thinking about this stuff a few days ago, and reading over some of the personality types. I'm not certain because I didn't test at the time, but I think a couple of years ago I was INTP, because it sounds just like I was. Overtime I became a more..kind person, I suppose? Working hard to be kinder and help others until it became natural. When I first tested, I got INFP, and at the time it...


Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:29pm

A 15 year old INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:35pm | in INFJ

I am a proud INFJ! 
I've always felt different than most people my age , you could call me an old soul. I've always felt wise beyond my years, I've Always had a completely dissimilar mindset and personality than most people my age.
 I initially felt streams of loneliness when I acknowledged who I really was because no one really understood me, neither my passions, my spiritual...


Last comment on 06/04/2017 - 1:42am

I'm not suprised I'm a INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:06pm | in INFJ

I've always felt different, I've always been attracted to books, art and poems. I love being alone, enjoying solitude really enhances my spiritual mindset and recharges my batteries. I often feel like I will never settle for anyone than a INFJ , I mean .. who would settle for inauthenticity ? I'm a proud INFJ but at the same time , it's sad that we only make less than 1% of the population,...


Last comment on 02/22/2017 - 10:07pm

help with school motivation

by Guest on Saturday, February 4, 2017 - 12:17am | in ISFP

hi I'm an ISFP student. So recently I've been having lots of trouble in my school. I feel like nothing I'm learning will actually matter once I'm an adult. I like learning but not useless stuff I don't have to know. I used to be really good at science and language arts but my grades have really plummeted. I just feel so unmotivated to do this work when it's never going to benefit me. My...


Last comment on 02/16/2017 - 12:54am

help with school motivation

by Guest on Saturday, February 4, 2017 - 12:17am | in ISFP

hi I'm an ISFP student. So recently I've been having lots of trouble in my school. I feel like nothing I'm learning will actually matter once I'm an adult. I like learning but not useless stuff I don't have to know. I used to be really good at science and language arts but my grades have really plummeted. I just feel so unmotivated to do this work when it's never going to benefit me. My...


Last comment on 02/04/2017 - 12:17am

Growing as an ENFP

by dugi on Tuesday, January 31, 2017 - 11:22pm | in ENFP

Quick question. I read about me as an ENFP and hits my life on the head. What i've encountered is that others are always thinking that I never grow myself or always ask where i'm headed for myself. I think I know but the big but in life happens... Its not lack of passion or procrastination. What i'm wondering is have you ever heard this as an ENFP? How would that type of personality...


Last comment on 04/13/2017 - 4:29am


by Guest on Monday, January 30, 2017 - 11:43pm | in INFJ

I love being an INFJ and I've seen lots of INFJ pride on here. But I see a lot of us on here talk about loneliness! So, my question is how all of you feel is the best way for us to communicate? I'll try to explain more of how I feel about it. There are many times where I feel like I would be better off by just not sharing my life with others. There are personal feelings and experiences I have...


Last comment on 03/30/2017 - 1:53pm


by Guest on Sunday, January 29, 2017 - 9:14pm | in ESTJ

I have finally hard a full description of my personality type and I feel good that I am part of the 8% of women who describe them selves as ESTJ. I see myself as a leader and someone who is organized but the jobs for a ESTJ were not one that I am. I am a teacher and I am surprised that "TEACHER" roles are not described as leadership roles.To be a teacher you have to be efficient...


Last comment on 07/20/2017 - 4:12pm

I found my type :)

by Nathan on Sunday, January 29, 2017 - 7:04pm | in INFJ

After years of thinking I was different and alone, I found out that I wasn't weird at all! I just had a unique personality type. Learning this and exploring what it means has made all the difference in the world :)


Last comment on 01/29/2017 - 7:04pm

ENFP Man + ISTJ Woman = deeply challenging love

by HumanLiberty on Friday, January 27, 2017 - 6:25am | in ENFP

Anyone else in this situation? I love my wife a ton, and we have both grown so much from being together. At the same time, I often feel so wasted on and stultified by her. At the same time I know she often feels unsafe/destabilized and exhausted by my way of being. I think I just want to connect and co-empathize with others of my tribe who've married and love their polar opposites. Heck, I...


Last comment on 08/26/2017 - 11:36pm

INFJ and just found out...

by Karen on Monday, January 23, 2017 - 2:55pm | in INFJ

...after 71 years of wondering why I loved people but chose not to interact much at all. Heard of the Myers Briggs test 4 days ago and I'm still reeling! I've been reading all I can on INFJ, most of it's clinical/scientific. I would really love to hear some real life experiences. A huge weight was lifted when I found out I'm still odd, but now "explainable". I am about 48% extrovert, per...


Last comment on 03/31/2017 - 9:59pm


by Razis on Saturday, January 21, 2017 - 8:23pm | in ESTP

I have took the Big Five personality test. I have some questions to clarify from Truity or any forumers here.
1 - How is the personality test ( Big Five ) measure the test?

2- Who is the test constructor?

3- Whether the test has been validated?

4- What is the objective the test constructed?

5 - How are the scores tabulated ?

6 - How can the results...


Last comment on 01/21/2017 - 8:23pm

Complicated life

by ABI on Saturday, January 21, 2017 - 11:21am | in INFP

OK so I recently took all the personality tests (besides the one that cost money) and I can't find my type. For the results it said I was borderline for all the different types. It could not place me so it put me in all...... Could anyone help me to narrow the types down.?all help is appreciated


Last comment on 01/28/2017 - 1:44pm

INFP and Masculinity

by Guest on Wednesday, January 18, 2017 - 7:42am | in INFP

Hey guys,

Always been skeptical about MBTI until just recently a friend of mine explained to me the 8 cognitive functions that explained each of the different types, and I found out that I was indeed, a Fi dominant person (i.e. I make decisions based on my personal value system / emotions rather than objective facts and data).

Anyways, as a male INFP, I find it quite hard to...


Last comment on 06/02/2017 - 4:10pm

The best major for ISTJ.

by Guest on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 8:42am | in ISTJ

Hi, my personality is ISTJ and I want someone to help to choose the best college major for ISTJ or to tell me his/her experience.


Last comment on 06/09/2017 - 5:17am

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