I am an ENFP female. My guy ( not yet) is an INTJ. We both are typical. He is younger than 25. We are basically the same age. My guy is EXTREMELY comfortable around me. I am , apparently, his comfort person. I love him dearly. And I know for a fact that he loves me and cares about me. However, he always mentions how there is a possibility of him meeting other girls. I am so scared that we are not on the same page. We have known each other for 3 months now. I usually take a lot of time trusting someone. To this person, I have been vulnerable. He has cried in fornt of me at the thought of us not kissing each other or making love to each other again. As old school as I am, I assumed that when the lovemaking came, we were expressing our love and devotion for each other. But, I guess this wasn't the case. But, I do not want to give up on us. He knows I grow jealous of other girls laying romantic claims on him. But, I am not really jealous. If he chooses to be with someone else, I will back off happily. But, I do not understand all the lovemaking and all the confessions of undying love for each other. I mean it. I don't think he does. I am going to put it out in black and white for him tonight and propose to him. Should I go ahead with it? Would you appreaciate it if the girl made the first move?
PLEASE HELP ASAP!