12 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Reveal If They’re a Personality Fit

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on April 26, 2023

First dates can be exciting and fun, but they can also feel awkward if you aren’t sure what you’re looking for or how to break the ice. Since personality types vary, each individual will have unique struggles, but commonalities also exist in the dating realm. The main one? Finding a potential connection that leads you to a second date.

To help you on your dating journey, here are some first date conversation starters (applicable to everyone) to help you suss out your compatibility while keeping your own personality type in mind.

6 Healthy Habits That Every INFP Should Cultivate

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on April 19, 2023

Like with every personality type, INFPs have unique gifts – and challenges. Even a strength can become a liability if it’s not used properly. The trick is learning how to lean into your authentic traits and developing those that don’t come as easily, while being careful not to lean so far that you topple forward. 

How do you find that balance? 

What Personality Types are the Members of BTS?

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on March 22, 2023

The most famous celebrities may often share some similar characteristics — but there is no single personality type when it comes to being a pop star, and BTS personality type results prove it! 

All seven members of the K-Pop group sat down to take the Myers and Briggs test, and the results are a bit surprising. Despite their superstar status, five out of the seven tested as Introverts, meaning that they are more energized by alone time than time in the company of others. 

10 Signs You're an Intuitive Personality Type

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on February 01, 2023

The world can be a beautiful and slightly overwhelming place for an Intuitive person. Sure, we may not go around looking at a crystal ball or reading fortunes in coffee cups, but we’re always collecting and processing data from our surroundings, and that can look a lot like "magic" from an outside perspective. Though everyone has a sixth sense ability within them, Intuitives tend to be much more in tune with their instincts. 

If you identify with some of the traits below, chances are you’re an Intuitive type.

“I Still Miss Them”: What INFPs Can Do When They Can’t Let Go

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on January 13, 2023

When a relationship ends, whatever the reason, it can be hard to let go and move forward. It might even be tempting to minimize what went wrong and idealize the other person. This could cause you to drown in regret, to resist getting on with your life, or even be tempted to revive the relationship, even if that wouldn’t be good for you or isn’t possible. 

“Show Don’t Tell” Self-Promotion for Introverts

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on January 04, 2023

As a marketing coach who made no secret of being an Introvert, I had many business-owner clients confide to me their distaste for self-promotion. 

“It’s not in me to brag,” said Len, a former corporate training company head now offering web development advice to firms in that industry.  

“Marketing gurus tell us we need to show off and be in-your-face. To me that’s icky and not my personality,” said Donna, who specialized in family photography. 

What is the Pisces Personality Type?

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on January 20, 2023

Born between February 19th and March 20th, Pisces signs tend to possess wisdom beyond their years. You’re selfless and full of creative spirit, and your love for the whimsical makes you a little bit mysterious to those around you. 

Some say that Pisces is the most sensitive sign of the zodiac, but there’s more to this water sign than empathy. Here’s everything you need to know about the Pisces personality type.

How the 8 Introverted Personalities Show Their Extraverted Side

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on December 02, 2022

Introversion and extraversion are opposite ends of the personality spectrum. Few people sit right at the edges of the spectrum, however, and this means that extraverted personality types will show introverted tendencies when they need to and, likewise, Introverts will tap into their less-dominant extraverted side in certain environments and situations. 

10 Ways Introverts are Quietly Succeeding at Work

Clinically Reviewed by Steven Melendy, PsyD. on November 23, 2022

Introverts are gaining more appreciation in recent years but they may still be misunderstood and undervalued, especially in the workplace. Yet, in their quiet way they’re probably making meaningful efforts which aid in their own success, that of the company, and even of their coworkers.

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