As an Intuitive Thinking type, you approach relationships a little differently than the average person. You have a lively mind and an appetite for ideas. More than any other type, you like to spend time with people who can keep up with you mentally and who expose you to new ideas and worldviews. Ultimately, what you are looking for in relationships is intellectual stimulation—although you also appreciate people who can draw out your softer side.
Are ENTJ and ESTP personality types compatible? See how ENTJs and ESTPs get along in this guide to ENTJ/ESTP relationships. If you're an ENTJ in a relationship with an ESTP, discover how you'll communicate, interact, and relate to each other in daily life.
How ENTJ and ESTP Get Along
ENTJs and ESTPs have some common themes that often arise when they get to know each other. As an ENTJ, you'll want to keep these issues in mind when you get to know an ESTP.
Your counterpart is a Sensing Perceiver type, which means their core focus is enjoying the moment. In relationships, this means that they look for people that they have an easy synergy with, and often prioritize one thing: FUN. As an SP type, your counterpart doesn't think too hard about whether they connect with other people on a deep level. They're simply looking for companions to keep them company on this crazy ride called life.
You're likely to be of two minds when you first meet this person. On the one hand, they may strike you as quite uncomplicated—which you don't necessarily see as a good thing. You may question if they are interesting enough to get to know. On the other hand, it doesn't escape you that this person seems to be enjoying life quite a bit, and you'll probably be curious to find out if they know something you don't. Although you have obvious differences, you may find yourself wanting to learn more.
You tend to be imaginative, unconventional, and interested in innovation. You think deeply and enjoy playing with ideas. You rarely take anything at face value, and enjoy analyzing and even arguing as an intellectual exercise. Because you are so forward-thinking, you sometimes you get caught up in your imagination and lose track of real life.
In contrast, your counterpart is all about action. They live in the moment, not in their head, and like to get things done. They have little interest in fantasy, and like to stay firmly grounded in reality. They spend very little time wondering how the world could be different; they're too busy enjoying it as it is.
As you may initially suspect, this person can bring an aspect to your life that is sorely needed. Your relationship with them might be just the thing to get you out of your imagination and into the present moment. If you struggle to stay grounded, this person can bring you down to earth.
You're also likely to find that you have more fun with this person than anyone else in your life. They tend to be spontaneous, hedonistic, and even a bit of a daredevil, and they may inspire you to take chances that you wouldn't otherwise risk.