This free quiz reveals how you prefer to give and receive love. The concept of love languages was created by couples counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, who observed that people differ in what sort of interactions make them feel loved. Dr. Chapman described 5 love languages, however our research on over 500,000 volunteers indicates there are actually seven distinct ways of showing love. This quiz measures your preference for all 7 of these modern love styles.

Your partner had a hard day at work. What will you do to support them?

Rank each action based on how likely you would be to do this for your partner after they had a hard day at work.

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Love Styles Test FAQ

Q. What is the Love Styles test?

A. The Love Styles test is a personal inventory that allows you to measure and understand how you like to give and receive love in romantic relationships. It measures a concept similar to the five love languages, which was developed in the 1990's by psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, but with some key improvements based on Truity's empirical research.

Dr. Chapman pioneered the idea that we each have individual styles in the way we show love, and that having a style that does not match your partner's can cause misunderstandings and dissatisfaction in relationships. Our 2022 research, using a dataset of over 500,000 volunteers, demonstrated that Dr. Chapman's idea of love languages was valid, however the specific ways we show love have shifted to a more equitable, relational focus. Thus, Truity developed the 7 Love Styles, to reflect the seven areas we discovered were most important in modern relationships.

Q. Where can I find more information about the 7 Love Styles?

A. Please visit our information page on the 7 Love Styles.

Q. Is this a compatibility test?

A. This test won't predict who you are compatible with, but it can help you to understand how to be a better partner to whoever you choose! The concept of love styles is not to pigeonhole people or limit the kinds of relationships they can be in. Rather, it is to create a shared understanding of how people may differ in the actions and gestures that are meaningful to them. Through this understanding, you will be better able to communicate with your partners, friends, and even family members about how you can better make each other feel connected, appreciated, and loved.

Q. How long is this test?

A. The Love Styles test consists of 50 multiple choice questions and takes about 10-15 minutes to complete.

Q. Is this love quiz really free?

A. You do not need to purchase or register to take this test and view a basic overview of your results. However, you can purchase a more comprehensive full report.

Q. Is the Love Styles personality test accurate?

A. This test has been researched extensively to ensure it is valid and reliable, using a variety of statistical methods. It is based on our original research, on over 500,000 participants, to discover the underlying themes in how we show and accept love.

Q. What will my results for the Love Styles test look like?

A. After completing the test, you will get a basic, free summary showing how you scored for each of the seven love styles. After reviewing your summary, you have the option to unlock your full, in-depth report for a fee.

Q. How can I access my Love Styles test results?

A. After you take a test, you will have the option to create an account by entering your email address. If you create an account, you can view your test results at any time by returning to Truity.com and logging into your account. We do not email your results to you.

Q. Do I need to complete this Love Styles test all at once?

A. If you’ve created an account and are logged in when you take the test, your responses will be saved as you go through the test. If you do not log in to a Truity account before starting the test, your progress will not be saved and you will need to complete the test all at once.

Q. Is this personality test appropriate for children?

A. None of our tests are appropriate for children under the age of 14. Some of our tests may have mature content, and anyone younger than 18 should only take the test with parental guidance.

Q. Are you going to sell my data?

A. We do not sell your email or other data to any third parties, and we have a zero-spam policy. We carefully comply with applicable privacy laws in handling your personal information. You can read more in our privacy policy.

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