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ENTJs and Other Personality Types

Kindred Spirits

People of the following types are more likely than most to share the ENTJ's values, interests, and general approach to life. They won't necessarily agree on everything, and there's no guarantee they'll always get along, but they're more likely to feel an easy rapport and have plenty of things in common.

Intriguing Differences

People of the following types are likely to strike the ENTJ as similar in character, but with some key differences which may make them seem especially intriguing. The ENTJ may find people of these types particularly interesting and attractive to get to know. Relationships between ENTJs and these types should have a good balance of commonalities and opportunities to challenge one another.

Potential Complements

ENTJs may not feel an immediate connection with people of the following types, but on getting to know each other, they'll likely find they have some important things in common, as well as some things to teach one other. Although people of these types may not attract the ENTJ initially, their relationships present a lot of potential to complement and learn from one other.

Challenging Opposites

People of the following types present the most potential for personality clash and conflict with the ENTJ, but also the best opportunities for growth. Because people of these types have fundamentally different values and motivations from the ENTJ's, initially, it may seem impossible to relate. But because they are so different, their strengths are the ENTJ's weaknesses, and if they are able to develop a relationship, they can learn a tremendous amount from each other.

ENTJs in Love

In relationships, the ENTJ is a commanding and challenging partner. ENTJs have high expectations for themselves and for their partners, and want a mate who will put in the time and effort necessary to create a successful life together.

ENTJs prefer to have their homes and lives structured and organized, and may be domineering in imposing this structure on others. They tend to have a clear idea of how things should be done, and may feel that others should follow.

ENTJs are enthusiastic and analytical problem-solvers, and will approach conflict head-on. They are unemotional in sorting out issues, and weigh perspectives with a logical detachment. They may neglect to attend to their partner's feelings, preferring to arrive at conclusions with objective logic. They can also have trouble listening patiently, because of their strong desire to problem-solve.

ENTJs are typically ambitious and may spend a lot of time at work or otherwise pursuing career success. They often need a partner who is independent and supportive of their goals. ENTJs value a partner who respects and appreciates their competence, intelligence, and effectiveness.

ENTJs as Parents

As parents, ENTJs are in control of their children and their households. ENTJs set clear expectations and see that their rules are followed. They tend to be consistent and rational disciplinarians by setting clear consequences for misbehavior, and usually elicit obedience from their children.

ENTJs often have a strong focus on career, and so may spend limited time at home and with family. However, they place great importance on the task of being a competent and effective parent. They often ensure that what time they do spend with their children is well used, and allows them to instill values of hard work, productivity, and achievement.

For more information: Please Understand Me II

ENTJ Communication Style

ENTJs are direct and commanding communicators, often with a clear idea of what needs to be done and and a take-charge attitude toward organizing people and projects. ENTJs are organized and strategic in their thinking. They communicate their vision and their plan to implement it in a logical, task-oriented way. ENTJs see flaw in ideas and plans quickly and give critique freely. They enjoy analyzing ideas, but are ultimately oriented toward action; they want to integrate information, formulate a long-term plan, and then move forward.

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Mme (not verified) says...

this is so true, wow.

sf22 (not verified) says...

all the tests that i took said that i'm entj but i found it hard to believe ! they are not so percise they cannot define people by asking them a few questions !!

Voldemort (not verified) says...

OMG THIS IS MEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CeeLouise (not verified) says...

I am an ENTJ woman and proud to see we are only 1% of the population. This explains the poor reaction of some managers to my "commanding" style. I am not a rampant feminist but I am sure if a man had behaved as I did, the reaction would have been, "Promote him!". Instead, at two very different companies, two very different mangers basically told me to tone it down, that I didn't show enough respect to the executives, etc. Now that I am wiser I would better be able to manage my behavior than when I was young, but the crazy thing is that I chose to become a Stay at Home Mother six years ago. Being a SAHM is not naturally suited to an ENTJ, but ENTJ's may be some of the best SAHM's in the end. The most difficult part is the extrovert part, I think. While I am usually fine alone, since I am intuitive, and I worked fine on projects by myself, I liked to feel part of a team, a corporation, a big picture. Basically I never in my life was lonely, even traveling alone for six weeks at a time for work, but as a SAHM I now sometimes am lonely. Being a Thinker and a Judger also makes being an SAHM a little more difficult. In the end though ENTJ's can be wonderful SAHM's. I research and research and become an expert at parenting and homemaking. I do cook gourmet meals and keep an immaculate home and garden, and I'm not tired of it yet. My Catholic faith reminds me to be humble and not seek society's recognition for what I do, countering my natural ENTJ tendencies. Every day I try to remember to stretch myself to the opposite of my natural type - talk less and listen better (Introvert), be more present in the moment, for example, really taste my food (Sensor), be more connected to others' emotions and feelings, especially my daughter's (Feeling) and just relax! (Perceiving).

Guest (not verified) says...

We are unicorns! :) Spot on.

Guest (not verified) says...

this is me in every way possible

Guest (not verified) says...

I am an ENTJ woman, and god everyone's so different!!

Guest (not verified) says...

hmm... I am sure my nature is ENTJ but over the years I have learned to temper my arrogance and impatience. I have learned to listen more, be more thoughtful of other's opinions,and display more emotional intelligence in certain situations. It has made me more effective and more influential.

I definitely believe in a higher power that I call God. I love working and find a great deal of satisfaction in it. I was never very happy as a stay at home mom unless I was running the PTA or heading up the Library Foundation. I have owned my own business and now work as an internal consultant for a large organization doing what the CEO calls "breaking logjams" thoughout the organization. I'm good at it! Now I know why.

I think my daughter is an ENTJ too! I want her to take this test and let's see.

Guest (not verified) says...

Well, I took the test twice. The first time I got ENTP, and the second time I got ENTJ. Well, I don't mind being both.

Spikeygrrl (not verified) says...

ENTJ fits me like the proverbial glove. But: only 1% of women??? AND my IQ is also only 1% of women??? No wonder I am so often accused of not being "ladylike" and/or "thinking like a man"!

Turbo (not verified) says...

Omg me too!!! I don't know any other girls like me at all!!!

GuestGal (not verified) says...

I am an ENTJ women and work as an engineer and am very much working to climb the ranks in project management then executive management. I really enjoy strategizing my career climb even in a male dominated industry. The only leisure acitivities I find useful are golfing and other things that help my career or offer networking opportunities. I'm only 27 so I'm hoping the workplace culture will change....even if I have to change it myself. My relationship is difficult because I get accused of not listening and just stop and don't say anything when things get too emotional. I think there is a cultural expectation of women to be a certain way (i.e. feeling). I am happy with who I am though and am learning to embrace it. Was starting to think I was a weirdo but now I realize I am beautiful in my own way and it just takes the right person to appreciate my strengths.

LIFELONG ENTJ (not verified) says...

I feel like my career life path has been an ENTJ playbook or something - designer, art director, creative director to entrepreneur, back into the agency world, art director, senior art director, associate creative director and now on the verge of creative director again. All the while pursuing highly competitive activities on the side like sports and martial arts. My wife read the ENTJ profile spent a good time laughing in amazement because it described me from top to bottom. It's amazing to see your complete personality presented with such absolute exactness. It is almost eerie.

Guest (not verified) says...

I'm so blunt and never pick up on subtitles.... then I read this and don't even feel the least bit remorseful.

Woo being an ENTJ women!

marijabojcic1 says...

I am ENTJ, woman and small business owner. I should hire soon new workers in sales department. Which types are suitable for sales person, what do you think? Thanks for help!

Guest (not verified) says...

"Among the least likely of all types to believe in a higher spiritual power."

Looks like I have my work cut out for me.

TheHydraDildo (not verified) says...

very true, though i do enjoy a little variety...

Chrissy Root (not verified) says...

This has helped me immensely! It makes so much sense. Finally knowing this at 38, it's like the counseling I could never find! Thank You Jesus!

Arclight (not verified) says...

The fact that I am an ENTJ who is a close friend with another ENTJ, who is also among others of other personality types, there do tend to be a differentiation of opinions on what is the proper leading strategy and what we should do on a moment's notice. Just like with anything else, there are no two people of one personality type that will think exactly the same on everything.

There are often times where I am looked at and many consider me as a perfect leader, or the person nobody wants to follow. It is usually one end of the spectrum or the other, no real visible "middle ground" in this case. However, do come to realization that we are also human and make mistakes, but also like everyone else we make up for them and move on to do whatever it is we need to do.

It gets to the point where we become our own biggest critics, especially with how we present ourselves to others, and how we do things casually on an everyday basis. We are leaders, but we do lead more than just others around us. We lead ourselves to do the best we can and make ourselves look, and do, as best as we possibly can.

That is not based on obligation; That is all because it is in our blood to do so. It's in our genes, and it is our default setting to lead and to lead well.

bandgparrish says...

Kolberg's (spelling?) higher archery of reasoning teaches that less than 10% of us ever reach the highest rung on the ladder of moral reasoning, that be "objectivity in decision making". When studying human B.S. in development at Purdue U., I immediately recognized myself as having reached the top rung; no doubt about it I was the role model for objectivity. I was 35 years old at the time. (I was a late bloomer.) However, 90% of my classmates, average age of about 20 or so, also recognized themselves as being on the top rung. So much for self-identification.

What's is the objective test used for determining one's personality type? Anybody?

Thanks, Glenn

Víctor says...

I have scored ENTJ in all the tests..Yes, I am insightful, quick of mind, dynamic, open minded, I am a natural born leader (or at least I think so). Despite I am quite young I can say, that if I want to achieve something I will..anyway, my point is, does anyone thinks that these tests are a bit of a kill-time? personality is too complex to define it with a few questions that are often easy to trick, or misread.

ENFJ (not verified) says...

Any ENFJ males with experience from a long term relationship with a female ENTJ?

guest (not verified) says...

When i make a decision, i want it to go through.By the time i make the decision, i have already thought everything through.

Guest (not verified) says...

How does an ENTJ woman ever find a man that won't wilt around her energy?

!!! (not verified) says...

Still wondering that myself. ;)

I've been told by men since I was a teenager that I am "intimidating". That's not exactly something you want to hear from a partner... 

Guest (not verified) says...

100% ENTJ male. This is so accurate

Lyss (not verified) says...

I definitely see myself as an ENTJ or occasionally an INTJ woman. The descriptions are uncannily accurate. And like many of the previous commenters, it is not impossible to find other female kindred spirits. I have few female friends and find it hard to relate to other women. I actually have far more male friends, as they are disproportionately represented among the personality types that ENTJ/INTJ individuals find compatible. The realization of my ENTJ/INTJ nature makes an enormous amount of sense on a professional level as well. I am a patent attorney by trade, which uses many of the qualities described above.

Guest (not verified) says...

Wow!It seems that there're a lot of girls like me!At first I thought this type of girl is quite rare.One of my former classmates said that he hadn't met any girl like me since we graduated.That's amazing!

Guest (not verified) says...

Never knew that I am one of that 1% Wow I feel kinda special

GuestAly (not verified) says...

Greetings ENTJ's.

I'm an INFJ/ISFJ married to an ENTJ (I think he used to be more P). MBTI helped me so much in understanding my husband :)
While they say these two are more challenging in relationships, they also have the greatest potential for mutual growth and respect.

My life would not be near as interesting or adventurous without him. He pushes me, in a good way, to try new things, and go new places.
Yes, I help smooth/calm some of his rough spots, but I love his earnestness and appreciate the gifts he has that are simply different than mine.
Yes,, I can get on his nerves sometimes with how I process things, but he also told me that he can now better articulate his feelings because of me.
I think we've made each other better people, and our lives are both the richer for it.

I will say that we have similar values and belief in G0d, and that is our foundation (when we first got married we thought we were so much alike, because at that level we were!)
Married 20 years and we both feel blessed.

Flower (not verified) says...

Spent 25 years as a corporate communications coach, with my own business.
Worked 95% of the time with CEO's and their executive teams. Direct, no nonsense communication skills.
Women executives were ALWAYS tangled up in their feelings, and especially fear!
Now I know why I had such affinity for CEO's- I'm a total female ENTJ!

ENTJmd (not verified) says...

Im a surgeon and female, 100% entj :)

Guest (not verified) says...

I fall under entj and intj

Guest (not verified) says...

As a entj woman,unless someone can hold a conversation that stimulates my intelligence level, I have no time for them. I am a successful buisness woman, I'm focused, driven to succeed and anything in my way is kicked to the curb. In a male dominated buisness world I feel that women need to be twice as good as any man to succeed.

Kate1959 (not verified) says...

Took the Myers Briggs test when in undergrad. ENTJ perfectly fits. Always has. And, I've always gotten the "B#t@h" word since I started my career many years ago in management. Several college degrees later, I'm still frequently told I'm blunt and aggressive. To me that is a good trait. But, I have lightened it some by telling people up front that I am.

Got turned down for a job a few years back; the interviewer told me it was because within 6 months I would have her job. For the past several years I've been in strategic cost accounting helping troubled companies get turned around and productive. It's where I do my best work. Although at times under appreciated when I get "a wanna be" who is really just a IST or ISF.

Guest (not verified) says...

...coming to this party 'late'. I am ENTJ-A female. Fist obtained this score a few years ago. Amused at its accuracy, puzzled by comment like 'thankfully small percentage of pipulation...'
On a personal note, the ENTJ characteristics consistently noted are not new to me at all... I have been critiqued by friends, lovers and even (ongoing) my own mother as being insensitive (I call it logical, or less-common sense), brutal (when I thought I was insightful or honest), dispassionate (when I took time to prepare the most honest or enlightening response)... On the flip side I have worked very hard and enjoyed career success... Not instantly because I found most jobs limiting, slow or filled with inefficient, time consuming, non-productive processes.... But I worked my way up, and eventually started my own business. Yes, stimulating conversations are VERY hard to find... I no longer have that expectation, going out most days armed with a selection of banal banter to amuse myself. Age and experience have lowered my expectations, but I do try to be a better listener than I was in my youth. It is easier to listen, than it was to initiate great conversations and watch eyes glaze over as they struggled to relate, -or listen to eager responses that clearly misunderstood my point or story... Or (the worst) they lean in, so intent, and say 'Wow, you really know a lot...". There are some really great aspects about ENTJ personality types! We don't just think we are right, we 'know' - a combination of observation, education, intuition and - ideally - experience positions us to be confident and excited to share, for the purpose of improving 'whatever' we have set out to improve. Others not on board? That's okay, they will be later when they 'see' (since we have not succeeded with clear description, we will niw show what we mean)... This is usually well received by employers or clients... Seldom by friends or family. No friends? That's okay, we like our own company and are more than able to challenge and entertain ourselves.
1% of the population, you say? Well, that expains a lot of the conversations I have endured that began with, "Why are you so..." or "Nirmal people would..." or "Why do you always..." or "Why can't you be...". Believe me, I spent years delving into self-improvment and introspective dissection to try to answer those questions. After the pain, the hearache, the hurt... I woke up older and wiser... Took a good look at my critics... and realized I was a talented, emotionally balanced, content, successful, happier, fulfilled person. Those who can't see that in me are missing out!

Guest (not verified) says...

omg...I am a female ENTJ and I have FEW female friends. I was never really part of a huge group of girls that just like to hang out all the time - i just don't get along as well with them as guys!!! wow!

Sobhan.eslami says...

I am really ENTJ 100%
thanks for your test

wisteria07arcane says...

At last, I finally found the right personality that describes me most! Before I was INTJ and now ENTJ, wow! I changed BIG...

Neil Mangan (not verified) says...

I'm 42 and considering a new career. I have always been headstrong and ambitious, and forward thinking. Since thinking about a career change (currently I have my construction company and had enough of dealing with idiots on a daily basis) I took 5 separate personality tests - 4 out of 5 came back ENTJ, which is great and about right in summing me up. The thing is, coming from a building background I have little idea of what to step into (despite the corporate world and computer softrware industry ) appealing to me. What I'm trying to say is I would like to hear from anyone in a similar position and what they have done/are considering to do???

Thanks

Guest (not verified) says...

i don't see myself as entj maybe on my part only.

Julianna Antonio (not verified) says...

I'm a true ENTJ to the fullest. Thank you for the information Truity.com.

AllyR (not verified) says...

I am ENTJ woman and often find it difficult to connect with other women. (Although I am in a relationship with one currently). I don't think of myself as masculine or 'like a man' due to my personality, I do see myself as different to most women, but to be honest I don't know many men like me either. I think lots of people assume men to be more driven, which generally just means they get away with doing less. (My ENTJ personality doesn't miss these things ;))

For the past year, I have been having an identity crisis - because I changed jobs and don't feel like I really connect with anyone here, which is unusual for me, as I always have at least one person I am very close to at work - usually someone I don't work directly with. Anyway, I now understand why, because I do instantly judge people and decide whether they are 'my kind of person' and I literally can't bear anyone who isn't driven, and women who talk about diets and dating - just aren't for me. I have also realised that I have the tendency to literally ignore anyone I find uninteresting or 'stupid'... I should work on that!

V. interesting to hear from like-minded people, though, and it has taught me to embrace who I am because it is who I am and there are some great strengths that come with my sometimes difficult self.

Guest (not verified) says...

Wanna know the real entj? Look at the comment. The one who shouting "OMG, so true!" Ordered "its so me!" are likely wannabe. The real one will analyze, making harsh comment or probably leaving without read the comment. So for all the wannabes, go off, be true to yourself, find out who you really are.aand i was being polite

Amen (not verified) says...

This guy's so right. Not sure why he wasted his time telling the rest of you a**holes

Guest (not verified) says...

Just want to point out that the list of suggested books -for- the ENTJ should be corrected to "Recommended reading -about- ENTJs." These are skills, habits, and information we as ENTJs are already very familiar with as they speak to and build the foundation of our "personality type"

e-pig (not verified) says...

I need to meet some of these entj women...
But where?

Guest (not verified) says...

Please do keep in mind that personality test have flaws. Though, they do help you get an idea on how you generally act but personality is fluid so therefore there is no way to accurately determine personality.

Serena Wong (not verified) says...

Spot on! I'm 100 percent ENTJ and embracing it now. Only 1 percent of women. Wow! Now I understand....

Jhon (not verified) says...

I am an entj . And it is 100 accurate . 

I do like talking politics .

I do like  competitive sports or fights 

is anyone like me 

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