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ENFJs and Other Personality Types

Kindred Spirits

People of the following types are more likely than most to share the ENFJ's values, interests, and general approach to life. They won't necessarily agree on everything, and there's no guarantee they'll always get along, but they're more likely to feel an easy rapport and have plenty of things in common.

Intriguing Differences

People of the following types are likely to strike the ENFJ as similar in character, but with some key differences which may make them seem especially intriguing. The ENFJ may find people of these types particularly interesting and attractive to get to know. Relationships between ENFJs and these types should have a good balance of commonalities and opportunities to challenge one another.

Potential Complements

ENFJs may not feel an immediate connection with people of the following types, but on getting to know each other, they'll likely find they have some important things in common, as well as some things to teach one other. Although people of these types may not attract the ENFJ initially, their relationships present a lot of potential to complement and learn from one other.

Challenging Opposites

People of the following types present the most potential for personality clash and conflict with the ENFJ, but also the best opportunities for growth. Because people of these types have fundamentally different values and motivations from the ENFJ's, initially, it may seem impossible to relate. But because they are so different, their strengths are the ENFJ's weaknesses, and if they are able to develop a relationship, they can learn a tremendous amount from each other.

ENFJs in Love

In relationships, the ENFJ is helpful and enthusiastically supportive. They are motivated to understand their partners and to do what pleases them, and are sensitive the the emotions and reactions of their mates.

ENFJs make great cheerleaders, and will encourage their partners to develop and explore their potential. They are engaged and ready to help, and look for opportunities to support their mates in their accomplishments.

ENFJ partners want harmony above all else, sometimes at the expense of their own needs. Conflict is upsetting to ENFJs, and they often avoid it. ENFJs are very sensitive to criticism and can become highly emotional and even punishing when their feelings are hurt. However, they have great insight about people, emotions and motivations; they are often able to put this talent to use in resolving things.

The ideal mate for an ENFJ appreciates their compassion, support, and dedication to helping others, and makes an effort to understand the ENFJ's feelings and values.

ENFJs as Parents

As parents, ENFJs take an active and enthusiastic role in guiding the development of their children. They enjoy teaching their children the ways of the world, and set forth clear ideas of right and wrong in a warm and supportive way.

ENFJs have high expectations for their children, and often envision bright futures for them. They have an interest in their children's potential and want to inspire them to develop it. They can sometimes idealize their children, becoming disappointed when they don't live up to expectations. They may take their children's misbehavior personally, feeling that they have failed to instill their own strong values.

ENFJ Communication Style

ENFJs are warm, compassionate communicators who show enthusiasm for other people and their ideas. They want to understand what is important to others so that they can take action to improve the situation for all involved. ENFJs readily give affirmation and support, making sure that people know that their ideas are valued. They are good at connecting with a variety of people and creative in coming up with solutions that accommodate others’ needs. They are often natural teachers and mentors, showing others the way and helping them to improve themselves.

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Guest (not verified) says...

What do you do for a career because this is also spot on for me.
Dustin

Guest (not verified) says...

Same here guys, I though about becoming a teacher, editor, writer, librarian or journalist and they are all here

kiara (not verified) says...

I'd love to be a teacher because that is something that i wanted to do as a child.

Guest (not verified) says...

So what do you guys do? because i'm still in high school and i'm thinking about going into business but at the same time, i've always kinda wanted to be a teacher...i'm not sure D: help!

Guest (not verified) says...

Omg I have the same thing as you, I have thought about going into the teaching career, but I really want to take on a business career.

KKROB (not verified) says...

Look into becoming a trainer. There are trainers in all different career paths. This allows you to teach adults and also tap into motivational speaking.

sherelle (not verified) says...

Im studying business in university :D

Guest (not verified) says...

I'm a social worker !

Guest (not verified) says...

I just took this test on a whim because my son did it for a class at school. It described me to a T. High school student, you can major in business, but I bet you find yourself in a teaching role someday. It is in your core.

Guest (not verified) says...

This is pretty close to my story. I didn't know what I wanted to do until I was a Junior in high school. I was stuck between two professions: owning a daycare or becoming a teacher. I went to college set on getting a degree in teaching and changed my mind at the last second during orientation. So I started college aiming for a business degree to own my own daycare in the future. The first semester I was SO unhappy and decided I wanted to change my major immediately to Early Childhood Education. Now I'm in my senior year and about to start teaching 2nd grade and I don't have any second guesses. Annie is right, follow your gut feeling! No regrets... :D

Guest (not verified) says...

I don't see a date on this thread so I am not sure where you are in your life. The easiest way to look at this is that the name "the teacher" does not indicate someone must be in the education industry. If you decide to go into business, you may want to look for roles that allow you to lead and develop a group of people towards a come goal. You can be "the teacher" in every part of your life, as you probably already notice. Occupation is irrelevant as long as you bring your complete self and have the ability to do so into your work setting. I assume that's why Truity will outline some sample careers for the personality type. Those roles will allow you to cover most areas of your personality.
I really enjoyed this personality test and think that it helps you to best apply your talents wherever you are, and helps to give direction if you are not yet sure where you'd like to go.
Best of luck,
from a fellow ENFJ

Dalis Dobrota (not verified) says...

It may not be directly a schoolteacher, but enfjs work with people in leadership positions where it is in training, Breaks, lead, educate.

Annie (not verified) says...

Of course I don't know you! But here are my thoughts: If you can find a business/company that you are able to authentically support and feel that it provides an adequate, flourishing, creative work environment you could be very happy doing that... but if you feel an extremely strong pull toward teaching, you should not ignore that feeling. Maybe talk to friends who have gone done either path / go on forums online if you can to explore what people who have had some diverse experiences have to say about the respective spheres, teaching or maybe advertising/marketing/start-up's - and this could range from internships to years of experience. I think it could help to understand more to help create a clearer vision for yourself
^_^

Guest (not verified) says...

thanks so much! you helped a lot :)

Guest (not verified) says...

This is me in a nutshell.

Guest (not verified) says...

Spot on, wow.

Guest (not verified) says...

cool

 

Thato (not verified) says...

This was accurate. I actually realised the careers you suggest won't suit me I actually hated (the subjects) in school. This could have cost me a fortune if I had to go see a specialist. Thank you very much.

Ollie L. Demps (not verified) says...

well, I really do not have much to say no more than doing this test i found out more about myself then i realized.
I guess I will wait and see what else to know.

Mouse838 (not verified) says...

I agree with almost all of it!! Amazing! But one thing, I love computers and programming... and it says that ENFJ's rarely go into fields as such. Is this wrong, or do I just see computing as "furthering humanity."

Kenna (not verified) says...

You may be entj. 

Are you very close or look up to a sibling?

Do have a high self importance and are typically in touch with your feelings and sense of self? 

Do you think you have great business ideas and think your opinion on certain business concepts to be better than anyone else's? 

Are you fascinated by multimedia and the ever changing dynamic of the Internet?

Do you get a lot of energy from being around people who are apart of a computer/internet business realm? 

Do you feel you can impact the world via social media outlets, streams and business structures? 

Are you always thinking about how to create cash flow/s? 

Do you get pissed when people don't follow your coaching idea in either relationship or business? 

Do other people problems drain and make you feel like you've ran of patience while listening? 

Do you have a crazy accurate sixth sense /intuition that many people do not realize about you?

If you answered yes to at least 5 of these then you're possibly an ENTJ. 

Though no one is completely linear, and all people are a beautiful blend of dynamical forces of how we were nurtured, our energy as well as our life experiences - personality testing systems gives us a basis in which we can observe ourselves in the big wide and often lonely world with positions to hold that is comforting when we learn that we are unique enough but at the same time not alone in it. All personality type serves one main purpose - goal in which to contribute that purpose here on earth.

The Entjs type energy is here to create, manage, and or organize enterprises and flow within the business sector. An Entj who have found their purpose knows they are here to make things happen in the business world. 

Learn the cognitive functions because based on what we're feeling the day we take the test, it may not give us accurate results. So I suggest taking time out to study the mbtis and their functions and dive deeper into who truly are. It will also lead to exploration of other avenues that will help to transform your life as you know it.

Kenna enfj/p

Kelvin (not verified) says...

Yes, found the same, have spent years in IT and love it, it's order, and opportunities to create through it both logically and artistically, but also love people, happiness and harmony for all. Done many tests and am ENFJ.

n3v375 (not verified) says...

I have taken several personality tests and I am ENFJ. However, I enjoy software engineering & electrical engineering. I feel these fields require a certain artistic approach. When writing code or designing functional schematics, I hear myself say "This is ugly looking, I feel like there is a better way." It is also my understanding that ENFJ's have the potential to excel in almost any field. The career choices listed here show how ENFJ's gravitate towards certain career paths; I don't think it is meant to be taken as gospel. On the other hand, being a technically inclined ENFJ means you are truly a rare and unique individual. 

ILYNN says...

You.  know, I'm 74 years old and I find that at different times in my life the results would be different.. Had I taken it while going to college and started on my career. I would have been the most cold-hearted Bitch in the world. I was the center of my universe and would kick anyone aside that got in my way. I didn’t just step over someone who was in my way: I would annihilate them. However, my company sent all it manager to behavioral training before we entered an executive tract. 

In 1995 I became a Born-again Christian. Over the years I became more extraverted. My focus changed from one of taking, to one of giving.  As an evangelist I cared more about the helping people (children) as I taught Bible school to them. My focus slowly shifted from me to others. So, seeing my personality traits  as “teacher” does not surprise me,

I’m 74 years old and I can see a little of the new me, shifting from the old me.  Yes, age does mellow a person

David Jones says...

Amen brother 

stevenm (not verified) says...

I am an ENFJ that retired from the military as a Radar Repairman and I loved every minute of it. If you do what you love, you never work a day in your life.

Adiyanna (not verified) says...

Took many test and am an ENFJ and I served in the military as a Drill Sergeant and loved every minute of it as I was part of a larger cause a part of a team I got to manage a team stand in front of large groups of soldiers and because I got to teach them how to become great soldiers and even greater people and because I inspired and instilled morals in them

AaOne (not verified) says...

Hi you are not alone, I am an ENFJ even tried with different website's test, I loved computer programming and did it very well became an analyst and consultant.

Breathingisforwimps says...

Oh good! I'm not the only ENFJ in a supposedly uncompatible technical field! I'm an engineer with a mining company and I've found ways to work the ENFJ tendencies into my job. I'm the one and only materials engineer, so I'm like an in-house consultant on a specific area of knowledge. Altruism is very important to me and thankfully I have the freedom to "flit around and be helpful", as I call it, supporting several different work groups. I get deep satisfaction from finding solutions and answers for others, and in explaining complex concepts in an easy to understand way to those who are interested. Also, the longer I'm in a technical field, the more I realize human reasons will *always* trump even the most sound technical advice. My empathy and intuitition is VERY useful, espeically when I'm trying to improve the collaboration and understanding between different groups in my work place. I describe myself as "squishy engineer" and so far, it's been to my advantage!

Guest (not verified) says...

Hi, I just thought I'd say hello because I used to be in computing and am now an interior designer. Whilst in computing I worked my way up to be a senior manager which I suppose shows I'm driven to be a catalyst for human growth and to implement my vision. I loved computing because I worked for large companies and had a team of many people, who of course I could help develop their own careers (that's the teacher in me). There's loads of human interaction within computing because you have to understand the business needs in order to cut code and you're developing a product that will ultimately help improve people's lives. I'm fortunate that computing is heavily used within interior design so I have the best of both worlds. Wishing you loads of fun creating new code that will help me and the rest of the world live a smarter, faster and more creative life.

Josiema (not verified) says...

This pretty much describes me. I'm a mic between INFJ and ENFJ. I think I really am INFJ because even though I talk to people, I don't enjoy it and it doesn't energize me.

Kenna (not verified) says...

Kenna Enfj/p k

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Talking to people doesn't deflate an infj's energy. People talking to them and being around too many people for too long will. They enjoy people but can only handle crowd in fragmenting time periods. Infj loves company but prefer one on one interactions over groups opposing the Enfj who enjoys the dynamics of what a group brings to them energetically. Enfjs will often get drained if they are not sharing to the group for the most part. Enfj will gain more energy sharing their topic of nterest rather than listening to the mundane.. They detest small talk which Infj is more comfortable with. They both enjoy deeper conververstions about concepts and the mystical aspects of life or impacting change in the world spiritually or physically  on humanistic level.

Both types are indeed similar but understanding how they navigate code# 1/temperament - introvert over extrovert makes this a bit more clearer as well as the differences within their main/dominant functions, Feelings & Intuition. Infj are more chosey & reserved with their expression of thought, whereas the enfj will be openly expressive with most thoughts and are true to this function more than most traits. In that, an Enfj will act on their feelings first as it pertains to emotions over intuition unlike the Infj who tends to do this primarily based on intuition first.

Infj's uses intuition dominantly and at times is known for overusining their intuition function at times. Intuitions is their leading function which makes them very skeptical people first - judging all aspects before making a decision while the Enfjs are open and accepting into action before skepticism. Feelings being a dominant function for the Enfj causes them to be a bit more reactive and  impulsive in situations that may not warrant it. As these two types grows older, both Infj and Enfj often finds maturity and growth in their first function - feelings and intuition which will allow them to live a more balanced life as a result.

Infj and the Enfj are not mirrored types and do not make the perfect pairing but can however, make great friends who are willing to learn and grow from each other.

Type Mirrors make the perfect pairing because the work in the relationship is far less than with any other type which subsequently allows them to spend more time enjoying what each other has to offer with lots more flow. Mirrors also accept each other's flaws far more easier than they would any other type. 

Infj mirrors Enfp

Enfj mirrors Infp 

Nusrat (not verified) says...

Omg! Same! 

RICKY RICARDO (not verified) says...

Well, hello ENFJ mates!! This New Era revolution really has the potential for changing the world into more positive, productive, and fruitful communities by collaborating together. Kind regards to all from Mexico City.

smished1 says...

I agree 110% this explains why I long to be a motivational speaker

Guest (not verified) says...

Oh my gosh! Yes! I've always imagined doing that <3
We're all in this together ENFJ buddy!

Guest (not verified) says...

I can't help but say this...110% IS NOT A THING!

Another INTP (not verified) says...

Well hello there, INTP!

Xiter IsNotAKnowItAll (not verified) says...

Do you only comment when you find an INTP related comment?

Just wondering...

jjjames (not verified) says...

Yeah, you're right there!

Nicole Breanne (not verified) says...

SAME! I want to inspire and change the world... but how? What degree should I get?

Enfj (not verified) says...

I think political science is great major for an ENFJ or maybe psychology, socialwork, or teaching.  The world needs brave and compassionate politicians.  I am a massage therapist and it is great for me, because I like the exercise and I like helping people.

Isabella Strow (not verified) says...

I ask myself the same question, yo XD

guest (not verified) says...

all of them

Andre Is Zaddy (not verified) says...

you too the words right out of my mouth.

Juliet Henderson (not verified) says...

Les Brown says don't worry about the how.  Worrying about the how will make you waste precious time.  Jump and grow your wings on the way down. Listen to him on YouTube and follow him on FB.  It will change your life. 

Adelina (not verified) says...

You could also try studying Pedagogy and do a master in Corporate training. There you will get to motivate and inspire other people. Hope it helps. :)

Guest (not verified) says...

im the same way i want to change the world! People just call me crazy because im so passionate about humanity and im very open with my emotions

Francis Michael G. Diorico (not verified) says...

I know how you feel... it is said that, "If people do not laugh at your dreams, your dreams aren't BIG enough." I feel you man..

Allan-Dexter Racca (not verified) says...

Those individuals should be your fuel.  Prove them wrong.  Failure, rejection, and doubt are some motivational tactics of getting to where you want to be.  It's tough to hear but proving them wrong feels so much better.

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