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by Guest on Thursday, March 24, 2016 - 1:55am

What does it mean if you are both, an INTJ, and an INFJ?

Do I get to pick and choose what matches on both traits...? lol

2 Comments | Last comment on 04/04/2016 - 5:51pm

Coping as an INTJ teenager

by Guest on Tuesday, March 15, 2016 - 4:10pm

As I have begun to mature, I've developed emotional problems regarding myself and my environment. I am nearly sixteen years old, and recently I have begun to feel "displaced", as if I could just as easily be made of metal and circuits as I am of flesh and bone. Not only am I uncomfortable with who and where I am, I tend to feel uncomfortable in my own body. I would say that my current...

10 Comments | Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 12:12pm

Trouble at work

by Guest on Thursday, March 10, 2016 - 3:40am

Does anyone else have problems with roles that are not clearly defined and instructions that do not make sense or lack specificity?

1 Comments | Last comment on 03/17/2016 - 2:53pm

I have my INTJ life figured out - Ask me anything!

by rallyredevo on Wednesday, March 2, 2016 - 11:48am

I lead what I feel is a perfect life for my INTJ personality.

Ask me anything!

I've basically streamlined and distilled everything to its basics, and continually improve upon each.

5 Comments | Last comment on 11/13/2016 - 3:25pm

Did you know that ENTP and INTJ are a good match for relationships?

by dantelidium on Thursday, February 25, 2016 - 12:47am

Do you know why?

The common "NT" traits lead to deep conversations and meaningful connections.
Two intuitive thinkers.
A feeler and thinker may clash heads because the thinker can hurt the feelers feelings.
A intuitive and observant type may not get along because one likes to enjoy the mind and the other likes to enjoy the world.

The "EP" traits balance each...

0 Comments | Last comment on 02/25/2016 - 12:47am

INTJ female bad at relationshops

by jwav3814 on Friday, February 5, 2016 - 2:11am

I worry that things I say that are logical and rational are hurtful.

e.g. I'm an INTJ woman in a relationship with an ENTJ guy, who used to be my best friend - we were very close and then lost contact for 9 years and decided to give it a go. we did LDR (long distance relationship) for 2 years and then he's moved in for a year. for about that time, we've not been having much NSFW action...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/08/2016 - 3:30am

INTJs in Relationships - Too Critical or Just Being an INTJ?

by bakerbr on Tuesday, February 2, 2016 - 4:04pm

Hi there ... I'm a lifelong-tested-always-the-same-outcome INTJ female. I've been looking for some observations on whether INTJs are naturally perceived as being too critical in relationships or whether it's just me! After several failed relationships in the past and a lot of self-reflection, I thought perhaps I would be better (i.e. less critical) in the future. Almost three months into a new...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/31/2016 - 2:45am

What type am I?

by Guest on Sunday, January 17, 2016 - 8:40am

I took several online Myers Briggs tests online. The results I got were INTJ, INTP, INFP-A, and one result which said that I was intuitive but on the borderline of the other characteristics. I relate to almost all INTJ characteristics, such as being "insatiably curious" and pondering over the deeper meaning of existence, etc. Also I have several tendencies, such as to correct people even when...

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/04/2016 - 3:17am

Found my personality type!

by thollis1987 on Sunday, January 3, 2016 - 1:12pm

Hi, everyone. I just want to say I am a 28 year old woman who has finally found my EXACT personality type.

I have struggled for about year and a half out of extreme curiosity. I viewed and tested multiple personality tests

online, and every time I got different results. I was either ISTJ, ISFJ, INTJ, or INFJ. So, I got fed up and came to

this website to try to find out...

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/05/2016 - 11:13pm

Fellow INTJs, I need your help to guide me in the right direction

by Maria_kj on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 6:15pm


I'm a young INTJ with no idea what to do with my life. I have many interests, but few passions, and I don't know what to study..

I went to theater high school, and then on to become a petty officer in the Navy. My engagement ends in summer, and I don't think I want to prolong it..

My grades are good, so most doors are open to me, but deadlines to apply are creeping...

6 Comments | Last comment on 03/03/2016 - 5:14pm

Success without human connection.

by Guest on Sunday, December 13, 2015 - 8:30am

So apparently I am a INTJ; I've been extremely successful in everything I've ever put my mind to although human connection I seem to have trouble with.
I am relatively monotone when it comes to expressing my feelings towards others and that seems to be a problem for some people, especially when it comes to romantic type relationships and I've been told by multiple people that I am "cold...

2 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:53pm

INTJ (lack)

by sammydoh on Saturday, November 28, 2015 - 5:05am

So, apparently INTJs make up like 2% of the population. Anybody out there?

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by sammydoh on Wednesday, November 25, 2015 - 11:10pm

Can you explain the nuances of human connection to me? I am extremely confused. I just asked my friend if he had wiped his shoes and washed his clothes before coming into my room, followed by a blunt "what took you so long" and he just stormed out. Is this some kind of ESFP thing?


2 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 8:14pm


by sammydoh on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 8:29pm

OK, so in LA class I was assigned the question "Should Charlie Gordon from Flowers for Algernon have had the operation to increase his intelligence?"

Here is what I've got:

Please share your thoughts.

0 Comments | Last comment on 11/24/2015 - 8:29pm

What advice do you have for an INTJ thinking of retirement; other than financial?

by Guest on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 7:06pm

The subject states the question. When retiring one needs to think of three areas beyond the financial question, these include (1) Physical Activities, (2) Social Connections, and (3) Mental Stimulus. In my opinion, an INTJ will have no problem with #3 and #1, but I suspect an INTJ may have difficulties with #2. Any thoughts? Or suggestions?

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/05/2015 - 11:12pm

professional organizing

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 2:20am

Which personality type is suitable for becoming a certified professional organizer? Would it be good for an INTJ?

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:58pm

please help with a new career

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 1:39am

I am a 42 year old INTJ woman who needs a new career. I stupidly got a BA in Anthropology and then a Muliple Subjects teaching credential. Teaching elementary school was too stressful in terms of being around tons of kids and having to control their behavior. I was constantly sick, and not from their germs. I want to do something appropriate for my personality type now, but I'm so old!...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/28/2015 - 4:59pm

Being an INTJ parent

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 2:15pm

When I gave birth to my son eleven years ago, little did I know how illogical and yet wonderfully imperfect my life would become. (Don't be fooled it's still quite organized and efficient as possible ;) )
I was scared that I had to take care of this little life that would not be able to verbalize his needs, play games I really didn't get but played along anyway. Many a nights of " I...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 2:52am

Existential Depression

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 7:30am

Seeking feedback about this obstacle from INTJ's (it is interfering with my projects).

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 3:17am


by Guest on Saturday, October 24, 2015 - 9:51am

Im an INTJ
Im an enterpreuner
10 years ago, i was a poor boy, from a poor family, trying to survive, looking for a job.
I looked at the market , i believe that everything is possible.
Today i have 600 employees , and i create my own brand, known worldwide.

5 Comments | Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 2:39am

Achievement Matters

by Guest on Friday, September 11, 2015 - 5:59pm

Hello, I enjoy very much to read about personality types. Being frank i want to read how to decrease INTJ weekness and to change the world concept. I would also like to talk to other INTJ profile people that has both achieve something great and that is not that successful in the worldly jargon.

Lets share the Idea to do Something Great Once Again :)

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/11/2015 - 6:58pm

Could there be another Personality Type? INTJ/INFJ mix

by zkorot on Sunday, August 30, 2015 - 12:29pm


Made this Peronality Type test more times that I can remember.
Most hitting INTJ, about 99%.

But got also a tie between INTJ and INFJ. Some things acctually do fit into INFJ such as reading people's emotions and being complex.

(The Counselor has a unique ability to intuit others' emotions and will often know how someone else is feeling before that person knows it...

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by j_adriaans on Tuesday, August 25, 2015 - 1:47pm

I'm very interested in reading a lot more about INTJ and INFJ types. Can anyone recommend an author

5 Comments | Last comment on 11/23/2015 - 5:12am

My sister is nearly my polar opposite and is always bugging me.

by Guest on Thursday, August 13, 2015 - 5:32am

I'm an INTJ. She's an ENFP. I mean, I love and all, but lately it's becoming harder to tolerate her. She always want to play with me even when I'm busy. When I'm randomly standing somewhere she'd leap from behind and surprise hug me. I just want some space. Have any of you had difficulty dealing with different personality types? I tell her to stop all the time but she she keeps forgetting....

6 Comments | Last comment on 08/16/2016 - 7:57pm

Should I change myself? And if so, how should I do it?

by Guest on Friday, August 7, 2015 - 3:45am

Okay, I am looking for INTJs who have been able to change their ways. I need to be more emotionally expressive, and less opinionated. My personality is a constant problem in my life, but I keep reverting back to my natural personality. It takes a lot of effort to try to be different, and I have to be "on" all the time to accomplish that. Here are problems that are damaging my life: 1-I tend to...

5 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 7:13pm

How many intj's are there?

by Guest on Tuesday, August 4, 2015 - 10:28am

How many intj do you know? I've read there are about 2% of us out there.
But in my class 2 of my three absolut best friends are intj's the third is istj.
Are we that good friends because we all are pretty smart or is it just a coincidence. We have been friends sins we were 6years old

14 Comments | Last comment on 08/16/2017 - 5:44pm

So, INTJs... What are Your Thoughts on INFPs?

by Guest on Monday, August 3, 2015 - 1:12pm

Hello INTJs!

I'm an INFP, and I am so curious to know your opinions on INFPs! I assume you're somewhat annoyed with our random, bubbly, seemingly illogical minds... :) Who knows? Maybe some of you have different opinions! Also, how do you think s relationship with an INTJ would play out? (I'm a girl, btw)


7 Comments | Last comment on 05/23/2016 - 6:24am

INTJ Revolution

by Guest on Tuesday, July 28, 2015 - 11:01pm

OK GUYS AND GALS. We MUST take control of the world to make it a better place. The two percentage of the population that are all like-minded INTJ's can do ANYTHING. Why not make the world a better place by making it ours? I know you've thought about it. You've thought about how simple life could be if everyone else followed your standards. I'm not saying we should brainwash everyone (but who's...

2 Comments | Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 7:18pm

Remember This

by Guest on Monday, May 11, 2015 - 7:28am

Remember this, fellow INTJ's, that this test is not definitive. Personality is much more fluid than 16 set points and we aren't at all constrained by the category of INTJ. As objective and rational people, I hope you all will understand this the same way I do. It is quite possible for us to be extroverted in certain respects and introverted in others. We also aren't cold and calculating...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/07/2015 - 3:51am

Intj - very accurate

by Guest on Wednesday, September 17, 2014 - 4:15pm

This is very interesting how accurate this theory is about describing my self.

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Welcome INTJs!

by Truity on Wednesday, July 2, 2014 - 10:39pm

Looking forward to the discussion!

11 Comments | Last comment on 08/16/2016 - 5:35pm

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