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I am not like Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 9:29pm


Iam not like Hillary Clinton.

She has low standards and no sense of morality or ethics

I have high standards and a sense of morality and I have eithics

0 Comments | Last comment on 01/27/2018 - 9:29pm

Truity are idiots

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 6:44pm

Could not even get past first few lines without stopping... Personality typing was NOT created by the mother and daughter. It was continued by them... Stop putting false information out... idiots?!!!!!

0 Comments | Last comment on 01/27/2018 - 6:44pm

INTJ Friendship/Romance

by Guest on Friday, January 26, 2018 - 4:24pm

Is it possible for an INTJ male to have a deep connection with someone, to the point of being able to know her thoughts and complete her sentences, but be able to walk away and not stay in touch? To disappear from her life completely as if he never existed? I know time heals everything, but I am haunted....Not a day goes by....

13 Comments | Last comment on 02/22/2018 - 1:32am

INTJ ready to debate!

by Elrond Half-Elven on Monday, January 22, 2018 - 5:37pm

Just let me know, I’m ready to engage anyone in a intellectual debate!

2 Comments | Last comment on 02/17/2018 - 4:58pm

Diseased movie

by LockheedSR71 on Saturday, January 20, 2018 - 8:33pm

Did anyone watch "The holy mountain"?

0 Comments | Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:33pm

INTJ man - issues with dating/intimacy

by lovewand on Saturday, January 6, 2018 - 1:58am

Hello folks, I'm a 25 yrs INTJ trying to find some light in this existence. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. I am at my ''best moment'' of my life (Financially independent, living in paradise, healthy, etc.. too subjective, but it will help to understand) However I have to hardly force myself to feel happy/grateful. Thinking by myself, it makes me wonder that...

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/09/2018 - 2:02pm


by Guest on Tuesday, January 2, 2018 - 5:13am

INTJ's version of Netflix and chill ..
Deep, intellectual, intelligent debate and mind stimulating conversation?

Really though, serious inquiry lol - if anyone would like to be destroyed by an extremely intelligent female debating virtually any topic you'd like to, I'm dying for some good conversation. And you won't be disappointed, I can promise you that.

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/21/2018 - 6:47pm

Am I the only one?

by Guest on Thursday, December 14, 2017 - 2:19pm

I am a highly intelligent 21 year old male INTJ and have started to wish sometimes that I was hit on the head with a rock when I was younger.

 I am often highly misunderstood and have begun building an exterior conformist image because people just don't get me. I excel at my work but am excluded from the team. I have some solid friends spread over the country but now that I am older and...

6 Comments | Last comment on 02/19/2018 - 7:15pm

intj guy

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 4:31am

im really bored and would appriciate someone to talk to. i dont really care who

6 Comments | Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:17pm

INTJ girl

by Guest on Friday, November 24, 2017 - 3:10pm

I'm an INTJ woman (19 years old) and i have always felt so different from everyone else (other girls especially) and sometimes it bothers me but usually i don't mind at all. I have just recently found out i'm an INTJ and just the fact that there are other girls out there , just like me makes me so happy and proud to be a rare type. My boyfiend is an ENFP and he is my best friend and soulmate,...

10 Comments | Last comment on 02/04/2018 - 6:33pm

Where to find INTJ guy?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 5:31am

Ok so obviosuly there's no tried and true way or place to find an INTJ, but I'm so irked by the idea that it's the only personality type I can be in a successful relationship with! Especially being the rarest type.. My last boyfriend was an INTJ, and our connection was nothing short of a fantasy for years. We didn't work out for reasons I've only recently come to understand. But he's long gone...

9 Comments | Last comment on 02/14/2018 - 9:10pm

Pizzagate from an INTJ perspective

by Guest on Tuesday, November 14, 2017 - 4:54am

I'm curious to know other INTJs perspective on pizzagate! 

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/01/2017 - 2:10am

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/05/2017 - 10:01pm

INTJ with no friends

by Guest on Tuesday, September 12, 2017 - 1:20am

I'm an 22 year old INTJ female. Right now I don't have any friends. I just graduated from college, and while there everyone around me seemed very shallow- just wanted to party and go on Facebook, etc. Could somebody please tell me where I can go to make friends? I've browsed through Meetup, and every event on that seems too general. I would say that my interests are very particular. I've also...

24 Comments | Last comment on 01/11/2018 - 7:37am

Interested in conversing with intjs.

by Guest on Thursday, August 24, 2017 - 10:33am

I have found out not long ago that I was not weird and that I am not alone in thinking and being the way I am.

It is truly a joy to know that I am not the only one because I have never met anyone like me in my environment.


6 Comments | Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 9:04am

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


9 Comments | Last comment on 02/20/2018 - 8:02am

INTJ dating ISFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, August 2, 2017 - 2:24pm

I'm an INTJ female, dating ISFJ male off and on for a year. 

My concern is that I've read that ISFJs have real difficulty dealing with emotional or mental stress and in fact my ISFJ will out-right DENY that he has any problems at all. However, I recently read that although they will deny these things, it tends to take a physical tole on their body. That's what I feel is happening with...

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/17/2017 - 11:29am

My MBTI personality falls bewteen INTP and INTJ

by 100db on Wednesday, July 26, 2017 - 5:53pm

My question is have taken the MBTI Test many times before and the results that got were INTP and INTJ. Most of the time I fall in the range of the INTP family but once in a while i will test into the INTJ group. My question is that since i can do both, can those types fuse together to work with each another or I am able to switch between gears for both those personalities. Because when u break...

6 Comments | Last comment on 10/21/2017 - 6:15am


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Depression and INTJ

by Guest on Saturday, July 1, 2017 - 2:37am

Hey all...

32 year old female INTJ.  Diagnosed with Major Depression Disorder, and I feel trapped in my head constantly.  Not a big people person and I feel as if I'm a cynic about everything. Do these feelings ever go away? I'm constantly searching for meaning in life, and can't stand American society and the monotony of every day. I'm bored constantly. Is this normal for us, or am I...

26 Comments | Last comment on 02/02/2018 - 6:49pm

Falling in love- the WORST thing that can happen to an INTJ

by Guest on Thursday, June 29, 2017 - 7:42pm

Everything was right, as expected. I was on the path of achieving my goals, my plan was excellent (as always). Boom! Love happened. Saw this girl plenty of times and from her looks i could sense that she liked me. But she was playing the coquette (those who read the art of seduction will understand better). I knew i was fucked, i continued to go thru my plan for a few more weeks but eventually...

6 Comments | Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 1:20pm

INTJ with ISFJ... Do you guys think that this could be a good match? (I'm really confused!)

by Guest on Thursday, June 22, 2017 - 12:55am

I'm a ISFJ male and I'm starting to like a INTJ female... She's kinda giving me more freedom than normal, like little touches (hugs, touches in the arm etc). She makes me feel really comfortable around her. When I'm around her... I really feel that she likes me, but she seems to be holding back, and when I try texting her, it seems that she doesn't have interest. Like, I see her online, but...

8 Comments | Last comment on 02/17/2018 - 11:21am

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...

11 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 9:31pm

INFJ Love Match

by Guest on Monday, May 29, 2017 - 4:03pm

I'm 19 and female INTP and got an INFJ for my love match, and I feel like...'the biggest challenge in my life', that's due to the fact that INFJ is the rarest personality  if possible,I would love to chat with INFJ.

6 Comments | Last comment on 07/17/2017 - 6:38am

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Perfect match for an INTJ

by Guest on Friday, May 5, 2017 - 7:43pm

Which personality type would be a perfect match for an INTJ? Could it be more than one personality type?

8 Comments | Last comment on 02/12/2018 - 3:22pm


by Guest on Saturday, April 22, 2017 - 3:00am

Hi I'm so drained from my over thinking. Getting off Facebook helped silence the inner monologue. I love being an ENFP! When I'm at my best it's a real treat. Although when I'm depressed and have to socialize every single person asks me what is wrong. PSTD is winning the battle the past couple months...July24th will be a full year of extremely high anxiety and depression. A rollercoaster...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 7:33pm

INTJ not getting tech Jobs.

by Albertece on Tuesday, April 11, 2017 - 8:16am

I am an Electronics Engineer from India. I completed Engineering with 79%. I have born technical skills. I had 7 year experience 5 year in India and 2 year in Dubai in which 3 year telecom 2 year electronics and current 2 year am working in oil field. I have high learning skill and I designed my own website, a good CV. I am very good at working with technical environments. but i am not getting...

6 Comments | Last comment on 05/24/2017 - 2:17pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Torn between INFJ and INTJ

by Guest on Monday, March 6, 2017 - 4:45am

Hey Truity community

Recently took the personality test and I was shelved as an INFJ (22,28,3,6) F is borderline 3% and this got me thinking that my indiciseveness and inability to act are due to being torn between emotion and thought. Generally I am a very intuititve and analytical person with the ability to find good ideas and combine them but I can also get many magnitudes emotional...

7 Comments | Last comment on 07/08/2017 - 8:27am

INTJ need help finding a career!

by Guest on Friday, March 3, 2017 - 7:58pm

I'm 17 years old girl and a junior in high school. Currently, I am in a class where I get to do rounds in a hospital. So far, I have really enjoyed the lab and CT. So, about me. I am an INTJ and I am very shy. I like quitness and order. With all of the characteristics as an INTJ would working in the lab be good for me? I am afraid that it might be too repetive for me, since I am a problem...

4 Comments | Last comment on 10/27/2017 - 10:51am

INTJ INFP Relationships?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 28, 2016 - 11:12pm

I am a female INTJ in my late teens. Several years ago, I got into a relationship with a male INFP who is slightly older than myself. He had moved away for much of that time, but recently moved back for college, and I want to know as much as I can about INTJ INFP relationships. There doesn't seem to be much information regarding the INTJ/INFP dynamic, especially in romantic relationships. From...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/08/2018 - 7:45pm

Strange result feedback - INTJ measured as ISFJ

by darwin.ranzone on Friday, December 16, 2016 - 3:39pm

I was surprised as
this test seems to be very sophisticated

So i was very curious to check the results and i read them through and it is definitely not my personality

I was a previously identified as INTJ

I will make the test some time in the future, but i usually dont answer very different in these kind of tests and i have done other tests at different times and i...

2 Comments | Last comment on 12/20/2016 - 2:02pm

Help with my son

by Guest on Monday, November 14, 2016 - 5:09pm

My son says he is INTJ and after reading several articles I think he is right. My problem is dealing with him. He is now 20 and has always been a lonely child. Recently he was in the hospital because he had threatened to kill himself. He is back home on medication. We try talking to him but he always has this attitude of 'mind your own business', says we don't know him and never have. A couple...

20 Comments | Last comment on 11/12/2017 - 2:17am

INTJ looking for a good career path

by Guest on Thursday, November 3, 2016 - 7:54am

I'm high school and is looking for a good career path. I'm an introvert(obviously) and thought about several factors in looking for a career because I was anxious about my disadvantages of being one. I've realized that I've been critical about choosing. It was one of the priorities these past months. I had been suggested by my parent's to think about accounting-which I later found was the...

3 Comments | Last comment on 11/30/2016 - 7:28pm


by Guest on Wednesday, November 2, 2016 - 3:46am

Anyone else INTJ w/ADHD?
I'm a mid-level professional and recently came into a realization a career change is in order. Corporate redundancy is dricinf me crazy. Would like to open a thread with others experiencing the same crisis..

6 Comments | Last comment on 12/23/2017 - 1:10pm


by Guest on Thursday, October 20, 2016 - 1:36pm

I suppose I'm a bit confused, because I do believe in a higher power & actively participate in that role. There are few people that I love, but if I love you, it is with intensity.

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/27/2017 - 8:18pm

Need advice on my relationship with an INTJ

by Guest on Wednesday, October 19, 2016 - 6:50pm

So I've been dating an INTJ for a few months. We started off as friends and it never occured to me that he liked me. I have many insecurities and have been let down a lot in the past. Although I know I shouldn't let my past dictate my future I am still quite wary and a little insecure. I'm giving the guy a chance and for thr past ten months he messages me everyday even though I've said he...

11 Comments | Last comment on 09/15/2017 - 9:07am

INTJ and Board Games

by Guest on Saturday, October 1, 2016 - 6:59pm

Hey guys,
I am an INTJ and I really love playing board games, which I would assume is a common hobby among us (?). For those of you who do love playing board games, do you often find that people eventually gang up on you? Not to be mean or anything like that, but because everyone thinks you're really good at the game (though you might just be mediocre), so they attack you out of fear?...

3 Comments | Last comment on 01/02/2017 - 10:57pm


by Guest on Friday, September 23, 2016 - 7:05pm

Where can the INTJ meet the ENFP? What types of locations, activities, interests?

1 Comments | Last comment on 09/29/2016 - 5:10pm

An INTJ working for a ESFJ

by jes.sokolowski on Sunday, September 11, 2016 - 5:47am

I'm an INTJ. I have a pretty imaginative, research oriented, data-driven, creative, and risk-taking approach to problem solving. Which is awesome and exciting because my ideas have so much potential backed by so much research. Unfortunately, I work for two ESFJs and I feel like I'm being idea-blocked at every turn. They rely on tradition and experience (which could be beneficial if their past...

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/17/2016 - 5:41am

Relationship epiphany at midlife

by Guest on Wednesday, August 24, 2016 - 7:04pm

Stumbled on this forum by chance today. I'm an INTJ woman in my early 50s and have been pondering the whole relationship thing for many days now. Was married for a while earlier in life, for all the wrong reasons, and I have chalked that up to a disaster I won't repeat. This summer I met a man who is absolutely everything I could want: we enjoy the same outdoor pursuits, have a compatible...

3 Comments | Last comment on 11/10/2016 - 11:30am

INTJs in a relationship with INFPs

by Amylee.beck on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 - 3:13pm

I'm going to post this topic in both the INFP and INTJ forums.

I'm an INFP woman and recently just started dating an INTJ man. I've read mixed things regarding the success of these two personality types together in a relationship and after recently ending a long and not so joyous marriage with an ESTJ I'm cautiously selecting my next partner based on, hopefully, better compatibility....

6 Comments | Last comment on 12/22/2017 - 9:47pm

Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Sunday, July 31, 2016 - 1:27am not an INTJ. I don't believe that she is so all-knowing and deep thinking. She may be an ENTJ or something else, but a scientist or mastermind she is not.

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/18/2016 - 4:57pm

INTJ FAQ Question #5: How can INTJs achieve happiness in a largely banal, shallow society?

by Guest on Tuesday, June 28, 2016 - 5:45pm

I strongly disagree with your statement "It’s just that you need to be right. Like, all the time." Wrong - I want to be disproven so I can learn from my mistakes and to be shown where I was in error; assuming I was in error. Or at least discover another view point for consideration. I want to learn. I find myself the happiest when I'm learning; not being right all of the time. Being right all...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/30/2017 - 4:40pm

Multiple personality results

by shirleysolderer on Monday, June 6, 2016 - 5:10pm

I really do not know what personality type this about!!

I know someone (a man) who took the test and the result was very confusing and somewhat concerning. He has 8 different personality types to choose from. Does anyone know why this would happen?????

He said he took the test seriously and was not joking around.

I would really appreciate some answers. Thank you.

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/06/2017 - 8:49pm


by Guest on Thursday, June 2, 2016 - 9:22pm

Hi fellow intj, nt long I got out of a relationship and well I am vry focused, breaking out relationship I thought was a relief bt I still have lots of relationship issues around. I'd like to jus work on m ryt nw plus I got school to work with, do u think nt havin much to do with the opposite sex is a good choice?

1 Comments | Last comment on 07/03/2016 - 3:36am

Struggling with School and Priorities

by legojack88 on Tuesday, April 12, 2016 - 2:25am

Basically, I (a very near sixteen year old INTJ teenager) am somewhat depressed, and I'm not doing so great in school. I am oftentimes distracted from my work, instead attempting to put off things in favor of vain means of entertainment. Though it seems false to accuse myself of such a thing, I would say that I am in a state of emotional distress. Every day, I become stressed by things such as...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/13/2016 - 7:29pm

Questioning the actual validity of the MBTI.

by Guest on Thursday, April 7, 2016 - 4:20pm

Hello fellow INTJ's,
Lately I have been questioning the validity of the Myers Briggs Personality Test. This questioning was due to the fact that, I noticed that almost all websites with descriptions of personalities never had much negativity to be said. The closest thing to a flaw was when a website said that, "INTJ's tend to be arrogant and condensending..." This was immediately...

4 Comments | Last comment on 07/09/2016 - 5:43pm

The 'Thinking' Trait.

by ananyamishra.kkm on Wednesday, March 30, 2016 - 6:07pm

Most tests for finding one's MBTI personality type contain questions regarding the 'Thinking' (T) trait that I find somewhat unsatisfactory. To me, being the 'T' type rather than 'F' indicates my affinity towards logic, which is objective, rather than emotions, which are biased, and incorporating such logic in taking decisions. Also, such decisions must portray an application of undaunted...

1 Comments | Last comment on 04/04/2016 - 11:21pm

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