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I have just discovered Im INFP

by Guest on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 2:19pm

My core concern is to find out what is the ideal job for me, after 3 years going to a psychoanalyst i am now granted to experience different issues to find out what should I turn to. I am 38, and would like to change my life toward flourishing

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/04/2016 - 2:54am

INFPs and the other idealist personalities - marital dissatisfaction

by Guest on Saturday, June 4, 2016 - 11:24pm

Hi all!
First a question. How is it that one source claims ESTJ's are our best bet while on another they are the type to be avoided?
OK being an idealist, has it made you pickier about whom you dated? Did you hold out for what qualities you knew the person had to have? Or did you choose 'good enough'? Has your idealism become a need for perfection (i.e. the laundry must be checked...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/08/2016 - 9:47pm

Living Alone

by Guest on Wednesday, June 1, 2016 - 9:40am


How many of you are single and living alone?
I'm finding it really tough to be alone.
I am thinking of getting a pet to keep me company.
I have a computer at least, but I also don't drive, so I can't just drive anywhere.
Any tips would be welcome, struggling right now.

Hayley x

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/04/2016 - 2:57am

What are you doing right now for a living?

by Guest on Wednesday, June 1, 2016 - 9:32am

Hi everyone,

Im an INFP, swing to an E, if around people!

I tend to get burn out very quickly, just left a nursery job, which was down to greedy management, but its a long story!

Im now finding it tough to know what i want, Ive moved alone into a new town, also feeling very lonely and isolated.

Would be good to hear to some ideas. I like to write, work with...

1 Comments | Last comment on 06/07/2016 - 8:00am

Extroverted Introvert?

by trayjaytucker on Friday, May 27, 2016 - 9:58am

I think an awful lot of us don't fall into distinct categories. I'm not an extrovert or an introvert, I'm an extroverted introvert. I'm not exclusively a feeler, I'm a thinking feeler! I think personality types are interesting up to a degree, as guidelines, but I think we generally exist on sliding scales, a smattering of this, a percentage of that, rather than exclusively inhabiting a...

5 Comments | Last comment on 06/05/2016 - 9:01am

INFP pitfalls in relationships

by Bard on Thursday, May 26, 2016 - 4:47am

I've read descriptions of our personality type that refer to difficulties in romantic relationships. Here on Truity, for example, the INFP profile includes the note, "Second highest of all types to report marital dissatisfaction." How can this be, when we're so lovable? ;-) Seriously, though, I can think of one trait that has big potential for causing problems.

Some writers have...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/12/2016 - 4:19am

How to get along with an ESFJ / ESTJ

by Johnwhiteartist on Wednesday, May 25, 2016 - 10:07am

Hi All,
My wife seems to be an:
Supervisor, Executive / Provider, Sentinel, Consul (& Turbulent).

- but with tendencies toward:

I'm an arty, slightly flaky, introverted, disorganised INFP who can't settle for 'work for work's sake'. I need a higher purpose. I'm also indecisive and look for the middle-ground with...

5 Comments | Last comment on 08/04/2016 - 7:36pm

Career Path

by Guest on Monday, May 23, 2016 - 12:08am

I am looking for a career path. I have been a teacher/ Nanny for the past 10 years. Thoughts?

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/26/2016 - 6:05pm

Newbie: Am I flattering myself with my answers?

by Johnwhiteartist on Wednesday, May 11, 2016 - 9:20am

Hi all, I'm a newbie.
I'm fascinated by these questionnaires and profiles. I got INFP. But I see that there are all sorts of nice things like I'm an Empath, a good listener, sympathetic, care for others etc.

My partner would possibly disagree with much of that. She feels that I don't care about or support her enough. I feel that I care so much about her but it's hard to get...

13 Comments | Last comment on 06/04/2016 - 11:36pm

Confuse in career path

by h_anindya on Sunday, May 8, 2016 - 1:23am

I read this forum a lot, and I feel grateful because it help me to figure out what kind of person I am.
I took a personality test a long time ago, and the result was INTP. But when I took the test a few days ago, my result was INFP.
After read the characteristic about INTP & INFP, I feel I 'm more like an INFP than INTP.
I'm 25 yo. And graduated from...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/22/2016 - 2:16am

Can Personalities Change?

by lyric.elle on Friday, March 25, 2016 - 4:12pm

I am an INFP with an opportunity to work in a position that would test every single one of my weaknesses - working in a high stress environment, making demanding phone calls to strangers, managing calendars and deadlines, searching for problems, and decisively estimating costs. On the one hand, it's a great paying job that may (eventually) lead to a more creative position. On the other, I...

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by Guest on Thursday, March 24, 2016 - 12:58pm

I did many jobs since 2007 after completing Masters degree in Econonomics. The 1st thing is after completing Economics since last last 7 to eight year I am confused. In my student life more then economics I did studied English Literature & our local Pakistani literature. Since last 5 to 6 years I am continuously studying Psychology, human behaviour & mind sciences. I'm a good singer...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/22/2016 - 2:18am

Any other INFP?

by nabeeha22 on Wednesday, March 23, 2016 - 5:49pm

Does any other INFP feel like they're always lost or in a different world, or like you don't know what's going on? I don't know how to explain it, but a lot of times I feel like that and my friends say that I'm always in a different world or that I always seem lost. Another INFP has said "I never know what's going on ever" Is this an INFP thing, or just me {and that one INFP I just talked...

9 Comments | Last comment on 10/11/2016 - 4:50am

further studies

by ayishrash on Tuesday, March 8, 2016 - 7:17pm

I m always worried about my future. My family dosnt trust me that i can success in future. They always think that i m not that clever one.Last month i just got my result of my exam.Before i got that result they said to me its okay if ur result is bad. They just making me down. At last the result was good as they dont belive it.

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/23/2016 - 5:56pm

Finding a career path that's rig get for me

by Guest on Monday, March 7, 2016 - 5:02am

I'm 20 years old and I am an Infp. I am currently in a job that is leaving me stuck in a boring day to day routing with no personal growth. I am very introvert when it comes to my ideals and creativity and I want to be able to have more courage to share them with the world one day. But as it stands I believe my job suppresses that as it is a straight forward job (only one way to do it or no...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/19/2016 - 4:51am

Write it

by caraya_99 on Thursday, March 3, 2016 - 5:45am

Remember, we are good at getting our thoughts down on paper. I'm slowly learning to convert that energy to typing instead of writing. Not easy! But we are needed now, our non-judgmental-ness...our openness to everyone. We are way-showers. It's easy to accept every one if you expect the same from them. You do your thing and I'll do mine...what ever happened to that?!? Except in the case of...

2 Comments | Last comment on 06/19/2016 - 10:34pm

I understand

by Guest on Thursday, March 3, 2016 - 5:03am

Some of us are feeling pretty down. I understand! There is a lot of negative energy floating around out there right now. We, the compassionate ones of the world, feel this very deeply. It's a hard time to be alive for sure...however, what an exciting time to be alive! We can come together like never before. I just found out I am a INFP. I discovered this knowledge on the internet. It fits...

4 Comments | Last comment on 05/22/2016 - 2:22am

Trying to make sense of my life.

by lien on Wednesday, March 2, 2016 - 11:17am

I am in a dark place in my life, and trying to make sense of it all. Fortunately I discovered this site, and after I did the test and read more about my personality type, (INFP), things are starting to make some sense. I took care of my late husband until he died of cancer in 2007. I also cared for my beautiful Down Syndrome daughter until she passed away in 2013, at age 22. She was my whole...

6 Comments | Last comment on 04/24/2016 - 11:35pm

Help fellow INFPers! I'm stuck in an INFP loop!

by Guest on Wednesday, February 24, 2016 - 9:35am

Has any creative INFPs, out there, broken through the intense self-doubt, procrasti..., fear of exposure, etc, etc, - and actually achieved a Creative career?

I have found myself stuck in what I've coined an "INFP loop" which consists of doing creative project after creative project, each project promising either a source of income or a possible creative career. I usually finish it, or...

3 Comments | Last comment on 05/14/2016 - 9:44am

Sharing my poems/ feeling

by panpp.loo on Thursday, February 11, 2016 - 10:48am

* Loneliness *

I don’t know her
I don’t see her
But in the mirror
Before the mirror
Coz I am Loneliness.

1 Comments | Last comment on 03/01/2016 - 8:31pm

Just here because of Luke Hmemings

by Guest on Wednesday, January 20, 2016 - 12:55pm

I am not an INFP but I am here because I heard that Luke Hemmings is a INFP and I am trash and came here during school. Fight me. Lolzor (Dan Howell) Okay I'll stop being ignorant and leave. Bye!

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/20/2016 - 12:58pm

Carrer path help for INFP

by Guest on Wednesday, December 23, 2015 - 7:23pm


Another INFP on board. I have one question: Are there any books/courses/whatever available which are dealing with how to truly fullfil our career paths and reach our potentials as INFPs?

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/01/2016 - 8:34pm

I scored INFP and ENFP. Seems like a weird combo.

by Guest on Friday, October 30, 2015 - 1:23pm

Well, first off, the test was unable to determine if I am an Introvert or an Extrovert. That is fair since I am not sure either. I guess it just depends on what day of the week it is. What I thought was strange, though, was that I scored as an INFP (healer) and ENFP (champion). Those seem like weird combos to me. I feel like I am certainly more of a Healer. Did anybody else get that score?...

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/14/2016 - 10:01am

Forever a lone wanderer

by declan_thom on Thursday, October 15, 2015 - 9:10pm

Forever preordained to be a lone wanderer. Constantly I crave a deeper connection with someone. Friends and strangers open up to me. They bring me all of their problems. Big, small, deep, shallow. I listen, I care, I do whatever I can to help. They feel understood, and the satisfaction I feel when I see that brief connection in their eyes, when they realize that I do understand what they're...

8 Comments | Last comment on 05/02/2016 - 3:30pm

DOING things

by nabeeha22 on Monday, October 12, 2015 - 3:05pm

Hi everyone I'm an INFP, sixteen years old, and a junior in high school. I take harder classes and I know I'm capable of being excellent. HOWEVER, I plan on getting things done asap, and as I plan to start, I distract myself for a second and end up trying to get things done at the last minute because I waited for so long. Being productive and managing my time wisely can be a big problem for me...

6 Comments | Last comment on 05/22/2016 - 6:05am


by Guest on Saturday, October 3, 2015 - 6:31am

I scored borderline on everything but Introvert, but the types I identify with the most are INFP and ISTP. I find this interesting because it seems like they are clashing personality types but I relate to both of them. So I was wondering if there are any other INFP-ISTPs, or anyone else who identifies with what they think are opposing personality types.

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/15/2015 - 7:01pm

Dreamer gets practical-Help! I need advice from NFP's on new career

by attnaugustinefine on Sunday, September 20, 2015 - 7:41pm

This is long so thanks for your patience and help. I am needing a new career. One that makes more money and that I enjoy and I am running out of time. I have a son to send to college. I think I will be covering his costs mostly on my own. I want him to go to the college of his choice. I also want to retire very comfortably. I am not in a good situation financially, so I have a lot of catching...

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/17/2016 - 3:17pm

how for INFP to be successful in life?

by Guest on Saturday, September 19, 2015 - 4:38pm

I'm 30 year-old I'm a medical graduate. I'm very excited with being INFP, everything i read was applied to me. I love music, i Play guitar, piano and arabian wood. but during medical school it was difficult to reach for higher levels. i always find that I'm not understood by others.
the big problem is that i get bored easily and i find it difficult to manage my time.Also being too...

4 Comments | Last comment on 11/01/2015 - 9:54pm

a few questions

by Guest on Wednesday, September 16, 2015 - 5:46pm

Olla i'am a infp. And first i am dutch so i am really sorry if my english is not so good.
I really love animals, so i was wondering does more infp have this? Is it a infp thing?
I hate school, like hate hate. Al the rules and routine and everybody is telling what you should do, ugh i dislike everything about school. And i have a few good friends so it's not that i am lonely or...

3 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2016 - 10:00am

INFP's and breakups

by Guest on Wednesday, September 9, 2015 - 10:04pm

I recently dumped my boyfriend of 3 years because I wasn't happy and I didn't like who I was becoming (naggy, over controlling, negative, very very stressed and anxious). However, he is a good guy! He has anger issues and is very reactive and let's his emotions get the best of him, however he loved me unconditionally. So it was very hard to let him go. I am very heart broken and I worry about...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/16/2016 - 12:38am

INFPs out there, what jobs do you have that make you happy?

by Guest on Tuesday, September 8, 2015 - 10:12pm

I've been struggling the past few years on finding direction in my life, especially when it comes to a career. I'm a musician and a teacher, though I do not wanna work in public schools. So I've been trying to find alternative paths, and was curious what other INFPs had to say.

2 Comments | Last comment on 02/20/2016 - 1:42am

Are We Okay With This

by Guest on Saturday, September 5, 2015 - 5:54pm

Hi! I've taken the myers briggs test countless times and 72% of the time I get INFP
Other times I've gotten ISFP or (when I've been feeling particularly annoyed or let down by people) I've gotten ISTP. On rare occasions I get INFJ but of all the descriptions I say I mostly identify with INFP.
My only hesitation to confidently identify as one is because of the irrational thinking...

3 Comments | Last comment on 09/14/2015 - 9:52pm

Is any other INFP a chronic quitter?

by sarra1833 on Friday, August 21, 2015 - 7:18pm

I'm 42, female, and find my self getting amazing jobs, but quitting them within 8 months. I always do top notch work, and enjoy the job but I always come to a point where I either get bored or most of all, need more time off for me. I'll wake up ready to go and at the last second, call off or just not go in. Once I get lots of write ups, I just quit or end up terminated. I have moved a lot,...

6 Comments | Last comment on 09/30/2016 - 6:46am

INFP Artistic Careers for a Male

by Guest on Thursday, August 6, 2015 - 9:43pm

My names Aaron and have read many of the wonderful articles in Truity.

For many years I’ve had recurring interests in certain careers that have interested me. Although it seems I show an interest and start doing research and making plans, but with all this energy and excitement involved, I suddenly find something else of interest to look into.

The careers that I keep revolving...

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/01/2016 - 4:12am

Infp vs estj dating

by Guest on Tuesday, August 4, 2015 - 7:12pm

Hi guys! i am going crazy with my beloved estj boyfriend... it´s being difficult to share our time together and now he is abroad in an other continent , feeling the same as he is in the moon, i don´t know how to get to him with the rigth words so he can understand how meaningful (and decisive to our relationship) is that we can keep the communication, even is like 3 min or just to say hello...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/07/2015 - 6:52am

Personality Mixed?

by christhegreat2012 on Saturday, August 1, 2015 - 7:15pm

All four areas of my test were borderlined scores. So what am I? Am I just a mix of all personality traits?

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2015 - 9:59pm

Fictional Typing

by lexie.white on Sunday, July 26, 2015 - 6:50pm

Does anybody else here love typing fictional characters from books, TV shows, movies, and video games? I am a complete freak for it, and it's gotten to a point where I can't get into some sort of fiction without obsessively trying to type all my favourite characters.

If anyone else is interested in fictional typing, leave a comment! I'll leave a list of my fandoms below so if anyone...

5 Comments | Last comment on 10/12/2015 - 4:33pm

I need to stop making decisions out of fear.

by Guest on Wednesday, July 22, 2015 - 6:37pm

Do any of my fellow infp's have a HUGE tendency to do this as well?
If so yes, I'd love to hear how you fight this.

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/02/2016 - 4:00am

The whole thing!!!

by Guest on Saturday, July 11, 2015 - 3:10pm

Hey there everybody, I'm a very young INFP person who always wants to meet knew people indirectly. I'm kind of shy around those I admire. I always want to learn about my friends but I want to learn about those who rub people the wrong way to see why they do and if they can change their motives. I'm happy to know that there are others out there but I don't like that I haven't noticed any my age...

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by Guest on Thursday, July 9, 2015 - 7:30am

Just want to know more about INFP people, how can they deal with the problems in life.

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2016 - 5:11am

INFP practical career vs suggested career

by Guest on Saturday, May 30, 2015 - 5:48am

so i am an INFP, and its suggest that INFP's are great with artistic career or design. but i am an IT student. all i know are programming and coding languages. but honestly i don't like them that much now , may be if i am learning a new thing, i would get interested then lost it. so what should i do? learn design or remain in it development?

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I'm glad there's someone like me

by Guest on Wednesday, May 20, 2015 - 6:20pm

I'm glad there's a place where I can Relate to other INFP's. Now, I have a qyestion. Does any other INFP feel like they never want to be alone? Like, if you are with a friend and then they have to turn away to go to a different place, you feel....worried? Not in the sense of something might happened to you, buy feel like you ate closed up? or that they left because of something you did?

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2015 - 10:09pm

Story Writing.

by aaronmuse198 on Tuesday, May 12, 2015 - 8:40pm

Hey! Wouldn't mind asking you for a bit of your time! (If anyone's here that is) I just wanted to rant for a bit and see if anyone would care and take a seat. I'm still young at the age of 13 and I'm a "Story Writer". The thing with my stories though seems to be that I don't feel like they're good enough. I write them at school when I have free time and at home. They have my characters that I...

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2015 - 10:31pm

How did other Introverted intuitive types behave as babies

by nokomis33567 on Monday, May 11, 2015 - 8:37pm

INFJ trying to figure out her child's type and was curious about how other introverted intuitive were as babies? I'm curious bc I want to parent him the way he understands the world to help him. My mom doesn't clearly remember a lot about how behaved.So, anything would help:-)

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/24/2015 - 1:40pm

Big dreams

by Guest on Thursday, May 7, 2015 - 2:12pm

I'm a infp personnality type. I am 18 years old and I would like to know if any of you out there feel like I do. I don't have any passion and I can't find one but I'm feeling that I have to do something big inside me. I'm kind of really competitive. I'm studying art and I really don't know where I'm going to end up. I'm just so lost in time. How about you? Time really scares me. I don't want...

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by Guest on Friday, May 1, 2015 - 8:17am

Not really sure what I ought to write here. I'm a 20 yo male from Argentina at university. I've recently come to discover I have an INFP personality type and I enjoy nurturing my sight by observing man's and nature's most marvelous creations, ocasionally

1 Comments | Last comment on 07/22/2015 - 9:49pm

Half accurate

by Guest on Tuesday, April 21, 2015 - 12:21am

I am so happy i found out why im the way i am but ive researched other personalities and im 100% sure im INFP/ENSP

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by Guest on Tuesday, April 21, 2015 - 12:13am

I feel as if im Half INFP and half ENSP Im carefree love life i believe that i have to live life too its maximum fullness

1 Comments | Last comment on 07/26/2015 - 7:01pm


by vexxinspace on Monday, April 13, 2015 - 12:24pm

Hey, I am a girl ENTP and My best friend is a boy INFP, does anyone have any relationships with a boy INFP?

1 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2015 - 10:39pm

Needing help from INFPs!

by SleepingLionRoars on Saturday, November 29, 2014 - 8:13am

Howdy and Salutations INFPs!

I come in peace! I come in need of your guidance and compassion. I am a ISTJ....please don't run away! I have a new roommate who is an INFP, but we have our differences as you all know. I've paid his rent for two months now...and let him stay anyway. He is very kind and gentle, and he does do alot around the apartment, like cleaning, cooking and making...

9 Comments | Last comment on 04/05/2016 - 2:17am

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