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How can I just pick one thing?

by Guest on Friday, January 5, 2018 - 1:12am

I'm a college student and have changed my major more times than I could count. I think I have an overall issue with just deciding to do "one" thing. And I understand that a degree doesn't define you and that plenty of people don't do work in the field of the degree that they pursued (mine is sociology - for now), but it's a deeper seeded issue. I don't want to be "glued down" to one job or one...

10 Comments | Last comment on 03/17/2018 - 8:44pm

ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...

16 Comments | Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 1:58am

spending habits

by Guest on Sunday, December 17, 2017 - 11:48pm

Has anyone else got bad spending habits?? i always spend to the last penny and cant save im getting worried for the future. if i earn more i spend more any advise?

3 Comments | Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 7:15am

How to stand up for myself

by N.F. on Sunday, December 10, 2017 - 11:24pm

Hi there!

I am an INFP and 17 years old. My parents are really great and all but they're the type of people that don't take no are difference of opinion very well. They've been pushing me to get out in the world but also wanting me to stay close to home. My family is great aswell but...basically, they don't like my own personality but when i pretend they want me to be "real...

6 Comments | Last comment on 03/20/2018 - 2:01pm

What do you do when you want to do it all?

by mindful.l on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 3:54am

I'm 35 years old and having trouble finding a career that will suit my personality type. I do not see myself working in one field, but working in many. Is there such a career?

You May Be an Introvert or an Extravert

You are an Intuitive

You May Be a Feeler or a Thinker

You Are a Perceiver

I have notebooks full of ideas but cannot get them from pen to reality...

13 Comments | Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 2:25pm

INFP- Shout out to my other INFP partners

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 3:39pm

Hi my fellow infp friends,

I m at this point in life where I dont understand what career to choose and have problems confinding to anyone, from this post I hope to reach out to others having such troubles so we can talk and know each others story and feel better to make a decision ourselves. 

I will start-

I am a 23 years old female from India. Currently in USA, in not the...

7 Comments | Last comment on 03/08/2018 - 12:36am

Career Crossroads

by Guest on Monday, November 20, 2017 - 2:46am


I am one of the approxiamately 1% of males in the United States who is INFP.  Along with that I am a "cancer" and to top it off I also am gay.  I didn't find out my personality type until 7 years ago, and yesterday took the MBTI yesterday and it came out with the same result.  I recently retired from my full-time good paying job.  I want to work again, but not sure if anything...

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/18/2018 - 7:46pm

Cool !

by Nazim Danil on Monday, November 13, 2017 - 10:21am

Hey guys ! im new here so i recently found out that i am an INFP-T nice to meet you guys :)

0 Comments | Last comment on 11/13/2017 - 10:21am

They say infps have vivid imaginations and live within their core values but how do I live with hardly any.

by Guest on Tuesday, October 24, 2017 - 10:19pm

I’m an infp college student studying animation and illustration and honestly i’ve lost all inspiration, self identity, I’m doubting the path I’m taking - and yet I can’t see myself doing much else. 

I used to be so imaginative before I started my “journey to self-improvement” a few years ago. When ever I got anxious, I could escape in whatever fantasy I could sprout out of nowhere or...

11 Comments | Last comment on 12/25/2017 - 12:59pm

Struggling to make a career decision post college.

by Guest on Wednesday, September 27, 2017 - 7:40pm

Hi there, I'm an INFP who recently graduated in June this year, and I have been battling anxiety regarding choosing a career since high school probably. In my junior year of college, I honestly knew I was going to have this unsettled feeling post grad. I love art, photography, music, traveling, reading, and writing. I've pretty much only had jobs working with children and older people in care...

4 Comments | Last comment on 11/07/2017 - 9:15am

Type Unknown

by Riukkuyo on Saturday, September 9, 2017 - 7:57pm

So, I'm new here on this site. I don't know my MBTI type, I've tested for INFP a lot but it me also changed to INTP, I asked people on Reddit to typify me and it was either INFP or INFJ. 

I recently did the big five factor one:

Openness: 85%

Conscientiouness: 10% (I think I can thank ADHD for that)

Extraversion: 23%

Agreeableness: 58%

Neuroticism: 80...

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/01/2017 - 12:23am

is it possible to be introverted with some people and extroverted with others?

by MajesticBandicoot on Friday, September 8, 2017 - 11:47pm

well I usually conisder myself an ISFP but I also fit into INFP, ESFP, and ENFP which is why I added those i hope thats not bad but anyway

I'm really shy with new people and I like to have time by myself. Usually I don't like to draw attention to myself... but depending on who else is around I do?? I like to do weird and pretty stupid things to make my friends laugh but if I don't know...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/21/2017 - 4:12am

Career Crisis as an INFP

by Guest on Sunday, September 3, 2017 - 7:34pm

I  am 25 and working as a sales executive in a technical field for the past 2years.I recently discovered that I am an INFP. (For so long I thought was an INFJ.Initially that was hard to accept but iv finally made peace with it ;)) Right now I am  going through a major career crisis  and feeling lost like a puppy with no direction.A phase where I dont know anymore which career to go for. Should...

9 Comments | Last comment on 11/02/2017 - 6:14pm

College Major/ Career Q

by Guest on Sunday, August 13, 2017 - 4:21pm

I'm a senior in High School, and still trying to figure out what I mjght want to do in the future, and what I should major in for college. My question is, how did you other INFP's figure out what you wanted to do as a career? I know it's most difficult for our personality type to commit to a career. Did something just click, or how did you discover that passion for what you wanted to do? And...

5 Comments | Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 3:52am

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


10 Comments | Last comment on 02/24/2018 - 6:50pm

INFP who have hard time keeping a jobs .

by cronu4 on Monday, August 7, 2017 - 11:28pm

I always wonder, am I the only one  who gets fired from medical offices working as a receptionist after a month, or are there people INFP who have the same problem as me?

Honestly, I think all my job's have given me phobias of working. I am sure there is a name for that phobia. I try hard to keep a job, but for some reason all my managers told me that I make to much small stupid...

5 Comments | Last comment on 10/03/2017 - 1:17am

difficult relationship with daughter

by Guest on Saturday, July 22, 2017 - 12:02pm

My 23 yr old daughter is in counseling...ours has been a difficult relationship for many yrs.  I finally divorced her ISTP dad when she went to college.  Anyway, he never had my back...let her say anything to me...basic message was "It's fine for u to be incredibly disrespectful to ur mom".  

So, being an INFP, I dig my heels in when my core values are being challenged.  She says she...

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/31/2017 - 12:19pm

INFP dating a ENTP boyfriend..

by Guest on Tuesday, July 4, 2017 - 6:33am

Many similar questions may have been discussed on the forum before but I just feel the need to post mine regardless..

I have been dating with my ENTP boyfriend for half year - I know not typically long. We pretty much have been staying together in the same flat for most of the time with no problems at all. Two months ago he told me he has to move to a big city soon for his new career...

5 Comments | Last comment on 10/08/2017 - 8:42pm

To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...

9 Comments | Last comment on 02/04/2018 - 12:56am

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...

11 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 9:31pm

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Career Planing

by Guest on Thursday, April 20, 2017 - 9:03am

I am an computer science and engineering graduate.I passed out from the college In 2007.I didn't work as of now.I would like to enter into IT field now.I have learned few cources recently like Sql,dataware housing,ssis,ssas,tableau reporing tool.There is no time for me to revise the subject.I would also like to learn car driving .I am wishing to fulfill these two desires one is learing car...

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/23/2017 - 9:37am

INFP, and cann't find the purpose of my life

by Guest on Sunday, April 9, 2017 - 3:36pm

hello I am new here and I would like to hear your thoughts.

I'm 23 gay guy from KSA living in germany, shy, like to dress good, lazy, emotional take opnions personally sometime, I like to do my own stuff on my own way:like what I think and so on, I play online games like the game LOL waste time on it actually.

I have good eyes on colours, clothes and  rooms and  think moslty how...

5 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2017 - 7:09am

INFPs, what do you think is our worst fault, and what do we do about it?

by Bard on Thursday, March 16, 2017 - 5:21pm

Worst fault or, if you prefer, trait most likely to cause problems.

I think, for me, it may be lack of self-confidence and mistrust of my inner voice. I have an INTJ friend who once said, "I always listen to myself." Not boasting, just objectively stating a fact, and puzzled that I don't do the same. Why wouldn't anyone? For my part I envy that quality so much--I so wish I had somehow...

15 Comments | Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 6:51pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Tell me what I'm like

by Guest on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 - 3:57am

I pretty consistently test as right between intp and infp.  You might think that makes a small difference unless you know the kind of laughable machinations of the Myers-Briggs thing.  A test that asks you things about yourself and then spits out pretty much the same things about yourself.  Argh.  You might as well take some test somebody made up about what kind of kitties you like.  I wish...

1 Comments | Last comment on 06/02/2017 - 4:29pm

Can types change?

by Guest on Thursday, February 16, 2017 - 3:02am

I was thinking about this stuff a few days ago, and reading over some of the personality types. I'm not certain because I didn't test at the time, but I think a couple of years ago I was INTP, because it sounds just like I was. Overtime I became a more..kind person, I suppose? Working hard to be kinder and help others until it became natural. When I first tested, I got INFP, and at the time it...

8 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:29pm

Complicated life

by ABI on Saturday, January 21, 2017 - 11:21am

OK so I recently took all the personality tests (besides the one that cost money) and I can't find my type. For the results it said I was borderline for all the different types. It could not place me so it put me in all...... Could anyone help me to narrow the types down.?all help is appreciated

3 Comments | Last comment on 01/28/2017 - 1:44pm

INFP and Masculinity

by Guest on Wednesday, January 18, 2017 - 7:42am

Hey guys,

Always been skeptical about MBTI until just recently a friend of mine explained to me the 8 cognitive functions that explained each of the different types, and I found out that I was indeed, a Fi dominant person (i.e. I make decisions based on my personal value system / emotions rather than objective facts and data).

Anyways, as a male INFP, I find it quite hard to...

6 Comments | Last comment on 06/02/2017 - 4:10pm

INFP, INFJ, or something else?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 - 7:53am

Im so confused. Im a 24 yr old guy and Ive tested multiple times and have gotten many different results but the main four are INFP, INTP, ENFP, and INFJ. I did research and tried to make sense of it. Heres what i found. Im 100% introvert and dont like getting involved in a lot of meaningless relationships so that rules out the ENFP. I do think to myself a lot and got confused because i thought...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2018 - 10:12pm

Can a Healer be good or great at sales?

by sharoncubero96 on Tuesday, December 13, 2016 - 2:35am

I understand that Sales Manager is not preferred line of work for Healers. But, I'm currently an independent consultant and our mentors tell us to care about the person and the money would follow. Are there any salespersons on this personality type? Any help, suggestions, advise on how to thrive as a INFP on the sales world? I need to make this work!

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/17/2017 - 11:35pm

Discovering my niche for business

by Guest on Friday, November 11, 2016 - 10:46pm

Greetings. I need a support group or mentor(s) to help me in my search for discovering my niche for a business. I'm so scatter brained and there are so many possibilities that I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. I fear failing, so I want to try to get it right the first time. I need a healthy balance of what I love to do, using what knowledge or interest I have, honing what skills I...

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/17/2016 - 10:58pm

healer, teacher

by Guest on Tuesday, October 11, 2016 - 12:42am

i took the test yesterday. i have been a RN for 36 years. 33years as a nurse investigator for abuse, neglect and exploitation. when i retired, a year ago, i was burned out from short staff and systems. i loved the work, it was an independent job and i helped many many people. i am finished being a nurse. even though i am 63 yrs old i still have a need to do something. i started to do more...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/04/2016 - 2:11pm

New and happy

by Guest on Friday, September 2, 2016 - 8:55pm

Hi im new here but i love meeting new people and hearing the story's thay have. Lol call me gostalaska please thanks.

3 Comments | Last comment on 11/20/2016 - 12:25am

Anybody else?

by Guest on Friday, September 2, 2016 - 4:58pm

Anybody else want to be an astronomer?

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 2:09pm

goal setting and struggling to achieve...

by Guest on Tuesday, August 23, 2016 - 12:17am

I'm struggling now, at age 55 with the aspects of not being "future" oriented, especially around finances. I know I have to change, and the goal setting strategies that coaches and successful entrepenuerus utilize just have no meaning for me. I'm not competitive at all, so winning challenges doesn't motivate me either.
What are or have any of you done to help put some desire or fire...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/28/2016 - 7:38pm

Recommended Site for INFP and other introspective types: Brainpickings

by Guest on Sunday, August 21, 2016 - 6:02am

This is a free site but I gladly volunteer to pay a few dollars a month because I love it. But you don't have to.
It's called "An Inventory of the Meaningful Life" and they send a weekly blog post devoted topics about such things as:
--"An illustrated celebration of trailblazing women in science, Bertrand...

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/10/2016 - 2:27am

INFPs relationship with INTJs

by Amylee.beck on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 - 3:11pm

I'm going to post this topic in both the INFP and INTJ forums.

I'm an INFP woman and recently just started dating an INTJ man. I've read mixed things regarding the success of these two personality types together in a relationship and after recently ending a long and not so joyous marriage with an ESTJ I'm cautiously selecting my next partner based on, hopefully, better compatibility....

0 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 3:11pm


by dunkie22 on Sunday, August 7, 2016 - 11:14am

Finding out that I am an INFP and what that actually means has really helped save my life, my sanity. I have often been depressed and even attempted suicide once. I believe that a big part of this was the numerous aspects of my personality in conflict with my reality. A combination that I have found to be very painful is my perfectionism and my sensitivity to criticism. I have always known...

22 Comments | Last comment on 01/04/2017 - 3:08am

I Feel Too Much.

by dunkie22 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 3:04am

I found out a couple of months ago that I was an INFP. It all made sense. I had asked my therapist, "Why am I like the way I am?" I have trouble being around people. I have to hide and recharge after work or doing anything around groups. I go out of my way to avoid people. And watching the news or seeing something in the paper that is about people being hurt or mean to each other "hurts...

11 Comments | Last comment on 11/20/2016 - 12:34am

4 possible personslity types intuitive or sensor

by carlacamacho2003 on Tuesday, July 26, 2016 - 11:58pm

Did anyone else get intuitive or sensor & 4 possible personality types?

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 11:51pm


by Guest on Monday, July 18, 2016 - 12:53am

Do any other INFPs feel nervous when driving? I lack self confidence when operating a car, especially when I'm driving on an actual road with other cars and not just an empty parking lot. My dad told me that soon enough I'll feel like the car is my body - that I'll be able to sense where the car is effortlessly. I've been practicing for a few months and I don't feel this way. I am ill and I...

7 Comments | Last comment on 12/05/2016 - 10:52pm

unsure of all 4

by natenow on Saturday, July 16, 2016 - 9:15am

anyone else get an unsure on all 4 types ?

0 Comments | Last comment on 07/16/2016 - 9:15am

How to deal with socializing

by Guest on Monday, July 11, 2016 - 5:22pm

I can't remember a time that I was comfortable around other people. Besides my immediate family, I can barely talk around others, and I almost always feel awkward.

I find myself criticizing my words and actions later, and can get no relief. I want to be a genuinely friendly person, but I struggle with knowing what to say, how much to ask, how to answer, and how to act around other...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/17/2017 - 11:44pm

INFP - values vs. friendship - deleted

by jo.just on Friday, July 1, 2016 - 10:09am


4 Comments | Last comment on 07/09/2016 - 11:59am

Which am I

by career4linda on Saturday, June 25, 2016 - 4:12am

I took three different tests and the results say I am an INFP. I fit the description but I seem to fit the description for INFJ as well. The two seem quite similar. I am a very disorganized person but I prefer order and used to be able to achieve it when I younger. The percentages are close. INFP 64% INFJ 59% What do you think?

2 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:01am

Career change for 48yr old

by Guest on Friday, June 24, 2016 - 7:13pm

I am an accountant. I like working with numbers and generally like the work. I often find mistakes later in my work, correctible but it should be right the first time. I have found I don't like working for others all that well. I have thought about striking out on my own for the past 20 years but fear of failure and history of errors though minor, hold me back. I am smart but often feel...

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:43pm

Why is it that there are more female INFPs?

by animefreak6 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 11:12pm

When I opened up the email from this site about the mailing list it brought up a graph showing INFP Male and Female demographics. Apparently males are outnumbered 22-78, while this isn't a bad thing at all and in fact makes me feel more like a special little snowflake, it's something I find interesting.
I've found online many INFP males struggle with a sense of masculinity that I myself...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 12:21am

A job that will bring a meaning to my life

by linouchi19 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 2:49pm

Hey I'm a 16 years old teenager girl and I recognize myself in every world said in this website. I'm looking for my path but I know that if I don't choose well my job, I'll never be happy in my hole life so I was asking myself what kind of job fits with INFPs? I don't see myself self as engineer in 20 years, I know I won't be happy this way, I need to do something that will bring a meaning to...

4 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:59pm


by Guest on Monday, June 13, 2016 - 9:03pm

Ok so after working since I was 17, everything from CADD & design work, to freelance work, to the very depressing & draining customer service work, I have finally discovered that I need a total career change. Now at 46 years old I find myself looking for a job (again) and it's both terrifying and exciting. But now that I know 'why' I hated going to my job every day, I'm wondering...

1 Comments | Last comment on 06/24/2016 - 7:40pm

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