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Career path struggles

by elchmiah on Saturday, March 9, 2019 - 12:17pm

Does anyone of you out there wanted to change a career all of the sudden? Because if you’re going to ask me it’s a yes. Im a reference librarian 23 yo and currently taking up a masters degree. I haven’t finish my post grad yet in the middle of studying I found mself draining, daydreaming, thinking of something that i could be productive.

but i really need help as of the moment. When ...

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/28/2019 - 12:58am

Help Me With My School/College Decision Please??.

by Shine-Shine on Monday, February 25, 2019 - 6:17pm

I I'm an infp-t im currently 18 , turning 19 in May. I'm in Spring Semester of College and I came to ask.

"Is it only me who hates school?."


This morning I said I really hate school. And my mom then said "well you'll really hate life". 

Honestly I'm not her,she always think of worse case scenario with me when I say a degree doesn't matter...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/13/2019 - 7:05pm

Am I really who I think I am?

by Twinkle on Sunday, October 14, 2018 - 2:03pm

I'm a 17 year old INFP about to finish high school (I'm in the exam phase), and while I have been getting ready for my exams, I encountered many problems in my friendships which just brought me down and now I don't even understand who I am anymore. I have realised that many people I was very close to have just left me behind or don't like talking to or being around me anymore, and this made me...

13 Comments | Last comment on 07/20/2019 - 8:41am

INFPs, how do you feel about marriage?

by Guest on Sunday, May 27, 2018 - 8:35pm

Autonomy has been kind of the guiding principle of my life and marriage comes loaded with so many historical, social, and economic realities and expectations.  The idea of willingly entering a conventional role in which two people legal "own" each other, for any reason, seems to go against everything I everything I stand for.  What are your thoughts on marriage?

14 Comments | Last comment on 04/07/2019 - 2:29pm

How can I just pick one thing?

by Guest on Friday, January 5, 2018 - 1:12am

I'm a college student and have changed my major more times than I could count. I think I have an overall issue with just deciding to do "one" thing. And I understand that a degree doesn't define you and that plenty of people don't do work in the field of the degree that they pursued (mine is sociology - for now), but it's a deeper seeded issue. I don't want to be "glued down" to one job or one...

23 Comments | Last comment on 05/03/2019 - 10:53am

ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...

22 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 1:34am

spending habits

by Guest on Sunday, December 17, 2017 - 11:48pm

Has anyone else got bad spending habits?? i always spend to the last penny and cant save im getting worried for the future. if i earn more i spend more any advise?

5 Comments | Last comment on 04/29/2019 - 9:32am

How to stand up for myself

by N.F. on Sunday, December 10, 2017 - 11:24pm

Hi there!

I am an INFP and 17 years old. My parents are really great and all but they're the type of people that don't take no are difference of opinion very well. They've been pushing me to get out in the world but also wanting me to stay close to home. My family is great aswell but...basically, they don't like my own personality but when i pretend they want me to be "real...

12 Comments | Last comment on 09/28/2018 - 6:09pm

What do you do when you want to do it all?

by mindful.l on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 3:54am

I'm 35 years old and having trouble finding a career that will suit my personality type. I do not see myself working in one field, but working in many. Is there such a career?

You May Be an Introvert or an Extravert

You are an Intuitive

You May Be a Feeler or a Thinker

You Are a Perceiver

I have notebooks full of ideas but cannot get them from pen to reality...

21 Comments | Last comment on 06/25/2019 - 8:59pm

INFP- Shout out to my other INFP partners

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 3:39pm

Hi my fellow infp friends,

I m at this point in life where I dont understand what career to choose and have problems confinding to anyone, from this post I hope to reach out to others having such troubles so we can talk and know each others story and feel better to make a decision ourselves. 

I will start-

I am a 23 years old female from India. Currently in USA, in not the...

9 Comments | Last comment on 04/30/2019 - 9:25pm

Career Crossroads

by Guest on Monday, November 20, 2017 - 2:46am


I am one of the approxiamately 1% of males in the United States who is INFP.  Along with that I am a "cancer" and to top it off I also am gay.  I didn't find out my personality type until 7 years ago, and yesterday took the MBTI yesterday and it came out with the same result.  I recently retired from my full-time good paying job.  I want to work again, but not sure if anything...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/30/2018 - 1:42pm

Cool !

by Nazim Danil on Monday, November 13, 2017 - 10:21am

Hey guys ! im new here so i recently found out that i am an INFP-T nice to meet you guys :)

1 Comments | Last comment on 04/07/2019 - 2:32pm

They say infps have vivid imaginations and live within their core values but how do I live with hardly any.

by Guest on Tuesday, October 24, 2017 - 10:19pm

I’m an infp college student studying animation and illustration and honestly i’ve lost all inspiration, self identity, I’m doubting the path I’m taking - and yet I can’t see myself doing much else. 

I used to be so imaginative before I started my “journey to self-improvement” a few years ago. When ever I got anxious, I could escape in whatever fantasy I could sprout out of nowhere or...

14 Comments | Last comment on 04/06/2019 - 8:33pm

Struggling to make a career decision post college.

by Guest on Wednesday, September 27, 2017 - 7:40pm

Hi there, I'm an INFP who recently graduated in June this year, and I have been battling anxiety regarding choosing a career since high school probably. In my junior year of college, I honestly knew I was going to have this unsettled feeling post grad. I love art, photography, music, traveling, reading, and writing. I've pretty much only had jobs working with children and older people in care...

4 Comments | Last comment on 11/07/2017 - 9:15am

Type Unknown

by Riukkuyo on Saturday, September 9, 2017 - 7:57pm

So, I'm new here on this site. I don't know my MBTI type, I've tested for INFP a lot but it me also changed to INTP, I asked people on Reddit to typify me and it was either INFP or INFJ. 

I recently did the big five factor one:

Openness: 85%

Conscientiouness: 10% (I think I can thank ADHD for that)

Extraversion: 23%

Agreeableness: 58%

Neuroticism: 80...

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/01/2017 - 12:23am

is it possible to be introverted with some people and extroverted with others?

by MajesticBandicoot on Friday, September 8, 2017 - 11:47pm

well I usually conisder myself an ISFP but I also fit into INFP, ESFP, and ENFP which is why I added those i hope thats not bad but anyway

I'm really shy with new people and I like to have time by myself. Usually I don't like to draw attention to myself... but depending on who else is around I do?? I like to do weird and pretty stupid things to make my friends laugh but if I don't know...

6 Comments | Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 3:28pm

Career Crisis as an INFP

by Guest on Sunday, September 3, 2017 - 7:34pm

I  am 25 and working as a sales executive in a technical field for the past 2years.I recently discovered that I am an INFP. (For so long I thought was an INFJ.Initially that was hard to accept but iv finally made peace with it ;)) Right now I am  going through a major career crisis  and feeling lost like a puppy with no direction.A phase where I dont know anymore which career to go for. Should...

9 Comments | Last comment on 11/02/2017 - 6:14pm

College Major/ Career Q

by Guest on Sunday, August 13, 2017 - 4:21pm

I'm a senior in High School, and still trying to figure out what I mjght want to do in the future, and what I should major in for college. My question is, how did you other INFP's figure out what you wanted to do as a career? I know it's most difficult for our personality type to commit to a career. Did something just click, or how did you discover that passion for what you wanted to do? And...

5 Comments | Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 3:52am

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


17 Comments | Last comment on 04/15/2019 - 1:32pm

INFP who have hard time keeping a jobs .

by cronu4 on Monday, August 7, 2017 - 11:28pm

I always wonder, am I the only one  who gets fired from medical offices working as a receptionist after a month, or are there people INFP who have the same problem as me?

Honestly, I think all my job's have given me phobias of working. I am sure there is a name for that phobia. I try hard to keep a job, but for some reason all my managers told me that I make to much small stupid...

16 Comments | Last comment on 07/18/2019 - 10:13am