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A 59 year old INFJ female in Colorado seeking a 59 year old INFJ male.

by Guest on Sunday, June 11, 2017 - 1:32pm

I was widowed in 1/2014 and only began to understand that I am an INFJ that year.  In taking the quiz on this site, I am most compatible with an INFJ.

0 Comments | Last comment on 06/11/2017 - 1:32pm

INFJ Love Match

by Guest on Monday, May 29, 2017 - 4:03pm

I'm 19 and female INTP and got an INFJ for my love match, and I feel like...'the biggest challenge in my life', that's due to the fact that INFJ is the rarest personality  if possible,I would love to chat with INFJ.

8 Comments | Last comment on 08/14/2018 - 3:24pm

How to help INFJ

by Atte on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 6:43pm

My very precious friend has some problems with finding motivation and enjoying her life and I have no idea, how can I help her. I'm in similar situation as she is, but I'm ENTP and I just can't understand, why she is soo sad because for me it's nothing special... How can I help her? Any ideas, what makes INFJ soo sensitive or something what will makes me understand their point of view...? 

8 Comments | Last comment on 08/26/2017 - 2:10am

infj since oct 2016

by Guest on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 8:07am

I understand that I´m an INFJ and got a "love match" to an INFJ. Is there anybody out there?


6 Comments | Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 6:22pm

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Any ideas?

by childoftheuniverse on Monday, May 1, 2017 - 10:25pm

I am an INFJ who prides myself on giving people my advice. A couple weeks ago a friend came to me with a question and I gave him an honest answer. Later on that week he tells me that I ruined his relationship. It has been a while since I have spoken o him. Any idea what I should do? Any suggestions are welcome.

8 Comments | Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm

Anybody had success with a dating site based on your Myers Briggs type?

by Guest on Monday, April 17, 2017 - 8:45pm

I'm a 59 male who just found out that I'm INFJ... One of only 1% of the population, and I am wondering if that might be part of the reason I've had so much difficulty finding a REALLY compatible partner. My marriage of 20 years just ended, and was really an excercise in futilty for a long time. We just could not connect on much of what I thought was important. This, disheartingly, is a...

16 Comments | Last comment on 09/16/2018 - 1:07pm

um im infj and i recently found out i have mild autism. i think we might all have some given our traits

by Guest on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 - 12:42am

i found out that girls with autism go undiagnosed due to the fact that autistic girls feel more emotion and empathy than the typical autistic boy, but what gives us away is being prone to sensory overload and despite understanding others, feeling alienated and misunderstood, also personally i have a hard time maintaing idle chitchat and the like(i find it iritating), and i hate when people are...

11 Comments | Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 6:36pm


by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:54am

16 year old, a junior in high school, and I feel as though I've already done this before. Not high school itself, but life. I don't feel my age, yes I look like my age and even a little older, but I act older and I feel older. Maybe you would describe me as an "old soul" or maybe not. I wonder if I'm the only one who feels like this, especially at my age, or if it's also because I'm an INFJ?...

7 Comments | Last comment on 05/11/2017 - 10:29am

Aussie 70 year old female INFJ

by silverslippers on Thursday, March 30, 2017 - 10:07pm

Just joined today so first post. This could be a real life line for me .. Wondering if there's anyone else out there who has found it difficult through 70 odd years of life in this Culture and found great relief in discovering there's others like us! Would love to share experiences.  Actually  .. anyone this age would be great but there's a particular difficulty with the Aussie Culture. Having...

3 Comments | Last comment on 09/11/2017 - 5:31am

Reality is what you decide it to be!

by TachyonDreams on Monday, March 20, 2017 - 7:50am

1% of the population!

Well, that explains a lot!  

Scorpio + Snake + INFJ = must be a Hell of a combination hahahahaha...

Proud to be INFJ - rare is always good, or not?

Curious seeing what type of jobs you guys/gals are in...

Also, if you could change one thing in your life, or change one thing on this tiny planet of ours, what would it be, and why?

2 Comments | Last comment on 12/08/2017 - 2:18pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Torn between INFJ and INTJ

by Guest on Monday, March 6, 2017 - 4:45am

Hey Truity community

Recently took the personality test and I was shelved as an INFJ (22,28,3,6) F is borderline 3% and this got me thinking that my indiciseveness and inability to act are due to being torn between emotion and thought. Generally I am a very intuititve and analytical person with the ability to find good ideas and combine them but I can also get many magnitudes emotional...

7 Comments | Last comment on 07/08/2017 - 8:27am

A 15 year old INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:35pm

I am a proud INFJ! 
I've always felt different than most people my age , you could call me an old soul. I've always felt wise beyond my years, I've Always had a completely dissimilar mindset and personality than most people my age.
 I initially felt streams of loneliness when I acknowledged who I really was because no one really understood me, neither my passions, my spiritual...

6 Comments | Last comment on 08/29/2018 - 8:31pm

I'm not suprised I'm a INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:06pm

I've always felt different, I've always been attracted to books, art and poems. I love being alone, enjoying solitude really enhances my spiritual mindset and recharges my batteries. I often feel like I will never settle for anyone than a INFJ , I mean .. who would settle for inauthenticity ? I'm a proud INFJ but at the same time , it's sad that we only make less than 1% of the population,...

2 Comments | Last comment on 02/22/2017 - 10:07pm


by Guest on Monday, January 30, 2017 - 11:43pm

I love being an INFJ and I've seen lots of INFJ pride on here. But I see a lot of us on here talk about loneliness! So, my question is how all of you feel is the best way for us to communicate? I'll try to explain more of how I feel about it. There are many times where I feel like I would be better off by just not sharing my life with others. There are personal feelings and experiences I have...

4 Comments | Last comment on 03/30/2017 - 1:53pm

I found my type :)

by Nathan on Sunday, January 29, 2017 - 7:04pm

After years of thinking I was different and alone, I found out that I wasn't weird at all! I just had a unique personality type. Learning this and exploring what it means has made all the difference in the world :)

0 Comments | Last comment on 01/29/2017 - 7:04pm

INFJ and just found out...

by Karen on Monday, January 23, 2017 - 2:55pm

...after 71 years of wondering why I loved people but chose not to interact much at all. Heard of the Myers Briggs test 4 days ago and I'm still reeling! I've been reading all I can on INFJ, most of it's clinical/scientific. I would really love to hear some real life experiences. A huge weight was lifted when I found out I'm still odd, but now "explainable". I am about 48% extrovert, per...

7 Comments | Last comment on 03/31/2017 - 9:59pm


by Guest on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 - 9:44pm

I am a INFJ, I have been in some relationships in the past and i do feel like i deserve better in those relationships which made me quit those relationships but now i am in another relationship(courtship) and i am looking forward to marriage but the way the relationship is going I am scared that i might quit it and worse still that if i get married, I might end up dissatisfied and divorced. I...

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/14/2017 - 9:00am

INFP, INFJ, or something else?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 - 7:53am

Im so confused. Im a 24 yr old guy and Ive tested multiple times and have gotten many different results but the main four are INFP, INTP, ENFP, and INFJ. I did research and tried to make sense of it. Heres what i found. Im 100% introvert and dont like getting involved in a lot of meaningless relationships so that rules out the ENFP. I do think to myself a lot and got confused because i thought...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2018 - 10:12pm