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Love and the Male INFJ

by INFJ1961 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 2:15pm

INFJ - the rarest of types.

Male INFJ's - even rarer.

Gay male INFJ's - rarer still. And my ideal match.

Now I have an answer to the question, "how is it you're still single???"

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/13/2017 - 5:21am

Thinking about Therapy - Do I have PTSD?

by tahmida.chowdhury on Wednesday, June 29, 2016 - 9:30am

INFJ - Female

I have a huge interest in human nature and it's the main reason I am here. I have dealt with my emotions for almost over a decade.

I feel that I have intense sadness at times. I would curl myself in a corner and let the episode pass. The normal triggers are either depressive flashbacks or I am hurt by someone. And there is a correlation with stress and thoughts...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/17/2016 - 11:54pm

INFJ's who have one or more learning disabilities

by eaglerising2 on Monday, June 27, 2016 - 10:07am

I am an INFJ who came into this world with three learning disabilities: dyslexia, ADHD, and bipolar one disorder. I was born in the 1940's when little was know about these learning disabilities by either the medical or educational community. Consequently, I had to figure out what was "actually" wrong with me and how to effective deal with it. I was strongly motivated to find that out because...

5 Comments | Last comment on 10/24/2017 - 2:46pm

Does anyone else have a "quest for justice" that gets them in trouble?

by Guest on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 1:30pm

Hi, I have scored consistently INFJ for a number of years. I have always had this thing about "injustice" my entire life. When my parents told me that there was no Santa Claus I was so incensed that I told every kid in the neighborhood. Some kids tied me to a tree and threw rocks at me. Fortunately, a neighbor rescued me. Another story - My grandfather had a cabin on fiver where we vacationed...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:14am

Who s the murder?

by Guest on Friday, June 17, 2016 - 2:25pm

"The Locker Room Murder" by Stan Smith

The air was crisp that Sunday afternoon in late autumn.
The Mountdale College stadium was almost deserted. That week's game between the Rosinton Ravens and the Dryden Warriors, two semi-professional women's soccer teams, was not scheduled to start for another two hours.

The killer, however, had slipped in early and was waiting in the...

1 Comments | Last comment on 07/25/2016 - 12:01am

Infographic for INFJ

by Guest on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 6:41pm

I found a very useful infographic for ENFP and ISTJ on Pinterest, linked to this site. Does anybody know if there is one for INFJ?

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/05/2016 - 3:56pm

Mental Disorders of types.

by dylanporter46 on Wednesday, May 11, 2016 - 8:05am

INFJ's have ya'll been diagnosed with Avoidant personality disorder or Dependent personality disorder, or Social anxiety disorder?

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by dylanporter46 on Wednesday, May 11, 2016 - 7:45am

Those types who swing left in my opinion: all NF's, some INTP's, E/ISFP's,. Those tilted to Right: all SJ's, most NT's, E/ISTP's,

Bernie Sanders INFJ altruist passion, Hillary Clinton INTJ elitist reserved , Donald Trump ESFP egotistic self promoter in over his head trying to get fired cause it comes with responsibility.

0 Comments | Last comment on 05/11/2016 - 7:45am

Sexual Orientation

by dylanporter46 on Wednesday, May 11, 2016 - 7:23am

SJ's mostly hetero, SP's more experimental but mainly for pleasure, NF's most likely to be LGBTQA, NT's mostly celibate or asexual?

Gay SJ's act straight, gay NF's more effeminate , hetero female SP's just pretend lesbians, NT's couldn't be bothered?

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2016 - 3:14pm

Working type, Private type, Public type

by dylanporter46 on Wednesday, May 11, 2016 - 6:46am

When I'm alone or with close family I'm INFJ when working my personality/behavior shifts to INTJ. When out in public or tired ,I tend to shift to INTP in behavior. My spectrum of my personality is INFJ,INTJ,INTP. what is your MBTI triad.

4 Comments | Last comment on 05/16/2016 - 10:43am

Struggle to communicate

by daisy.deboevere on Wednesday, May 4, 2016 - 9:28am

Hi everyone,
I'm INFJ and I seem to struggle to communicate with people.
I'm doing a lot of volunteering work and we have common chats for that on the net where all volunteers are gathered for exchanging information. For me it's heaven, because it's my favorite way of communicating with others: by writing. I always choose my words carefully, try to write as authentic as possible,...

5 Comments | Last comment on 10/18/2016 - 2:13pm

Can my ex-fiance help me undo my door slam

by Guest on Wednesday, April 20, 2016 - 12:43am

I just found out last year according to the MB test that I am an INFJ. I didn't really look into it then. Two months ago I door slammed my fiance of 1 1/2 years. Is there a way he can help get me back?

6 Comments | Last comment on 08/16/2016 - 1:51am

Looking for a connection and compatibility

by Kat.louise on Saturday, April 9, 2016 - 12:33am

Searching for a single infj in North Wales or Manchester area.... get in touch. I am a female btw :-)

0 Comments | Last comment on 04/09/2016 - 12:33am

Share your thoughts!

by Guest on Friday, April 8, 2016 - 1:03am

Hey hey,

I'm an INFJ, but would love contributions from anyone who's willing!

I’m creating a series of works that talk about Hierarchy:
how it influences people’s behaviors, creates disparities, and helps certain people benefit while others don’t.

Economies, countries, language/cultural/racial differences, religions, the environment, the climate, history, health,...

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/16/2016 - 7:51am

So many choices, but can't decide!

by Guest on Thursday, April 7, 2016 - 12:02am

So I'm an INFJ, and as such, struggle way so much with making decisions...the options always feel endless and each of them makes sense!

I have a degree in fine arts and in environmental science. During my studies, I made the mistake of not listening to my instincts because instead of ES I should've done psychology or anthropology HANDS DOWN! I'm also an artist, so that I listened too....

9 Comments | Last comment on 05/01/2016 - 9:14pm

What should I do?

by Guest on Saturday, March 26, 2016 - 2:50am

Hi guys, so im an infj and my first career choice throughout high school was always being a teacher. But then I thought of the way the kids might prey on my weakness of being nervous and insecure. Then after a few years I thought that psychology would be great for me since I have great insight to offer but it often feels as if I can never explain myself the right way. So I didn't think it...

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/05/2016 - 4:44pm

High school teacher burned out

by Bsams712 on Wednesday, March 9, 2016 - 4:09pm

Hello everyone, I am also struggling with depression anxiety, especially as it relates to jobs involving much social performance. I have been a high school teacher for 6 years, and I turned in my resignation in January. I plan on finishing out the year, but I found that the loud kids, negative colleagues and constant questions from students have been so exhausting. What do some of you...

10 Comments | Last comment on 08/05/2016 - 8:22pm

My ideal partner = infj

by Lijacleanin on Thursday, February 4, 2016 - 1:48pm

So any single Aussie infj come at me haha :P
I am a female BTW :)

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by ayorkf on Thursday, January 14, 2016 - 6:00am

I'm just wondering if anyone wants wants to have a nice conversation.

9 Comments | Last comment on 08/03/2016 - 2:27am

Being used as a sounding board

by Guest on Monday, November 30, 2015 - 4:57am

I can tolerate this with friends I choose, but now I've been chosen by someone who just wants to use me as a sounding board - is there a kind way to politely disengage with this person who I run into regularly in a community setting?

0 Comments | Last comment on 11/30/2015 - 4:57am

Jobs suited to INFJ

by Guest on Thursday, November 5, 2015 - 3:14pm

I have recently realised that I am INFJ. Unfortunately I have also suffered from an episode of major depression at the age of 22 which caused me to lose my job. I am in recovery at the moment and would just like to enquire whether others have experience similar and what path they took career/job wise after this as I have found it difficult to fit in. I studied modern languages at uni and had...

3 Comments | Last comment on 03/24/2016 - 6:59pm

Your mom

by Guest on Monday, November 2, 2015 - 8:25pm

So I have this strange attraction to your mom and I wonder if this is one of my characteristics for INFJ.

0 Comments | Last comment on 11/02/2015 - 8:25pm

Alone yet not lonely

by btrue2me4me on Thursday, September 10, 2015 - 7:50pm

Well, I finally have an answer to the question which has haunted me my entire life.


Okay, now what do I do?

Any more INFJ's out there?


(Crickets chirping.)


2 Comments | Last comment on 10/02/2015 - 9:10pm

I finally know why I am who I am.

by Guest on Thursday, September 10, 2015 - 7:29pm

I have wondered most of my life why I did not fit in with my family, my extended family, my comunity and the world at large.

Wow. INFJ. Well, that explains the vast majority of my dealings with people who have crossed my path. What really hit home the most was my tendency to withdraw from someone as soon as I sensed deceit or manipulation on the part of the other person. Being an...

3 Comments | Last comment on 02/04/2016 - 1:52pm

Any mixed type personalities out there?

by Guest on Sunday, August 23, 2015 - 3:54pm

I took one test, and got two different results. I'm classified as INFJ and INTJ; the latter of which apparently being rare, because I'm female.

I found it completely fascinating to read this, and validating in some way, because for most of my life, I feel I've been battling two opposite sides of myself. One is submissive, easygoing, creative, introverted, artistic. The other is...

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by Guest on Thursday, August 20, 2015 - 7:56am

I would be interested to see how many INFJs are empaths as well. I took the test awhile back and scored high. It would seem to me that there is a correlation between the two.

4 Comments | Last comment on 03/15/2016 - 2:38am

Young infj

by Guest on Wednesday, July 29, 2015 - 10:23pm

I'm a teenager and in therapy my therapist gave me a test and I am an infj and 100% introverted. I have always felt kind of like an outcast so I'm glad to see that there are other people out there like me.

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/09/2016 - 4:08pm

Being INFJ

by Guest on Saturday, July 11, 2015 - 8:29pm

Oh God! Now I understand myself much better. And all these years I thought something is wrong with me thats why I am so different from others.. Good to know that there are people like me..

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by danieli.garza19 on Wednesday, July 1, 2015 - 4:58am

its amazing to know that i am not the only one that feels the the way i feel. while being one of the rarest types out there.

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by daytonah on Wednesday, June 24, 2015 - 2:26am

Feelings What's up with them!? I can't get away from them for too long, I feel other peoples pain just by looking in there eyes,you don't need to tell me anything, Its like what happened to you happened to me but then I drown in your emotions I get drunk off of it. Yeah sometimes I can turn them off which I think is an amazing gift but unfortunately not every time I need to especially when I'm...

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/11/2016 - 2:28am


by betsjo_johns on Thursday, May 28, 2015 - 10:30am

I love to have meaningful friendships and connect with people on a deeper level, but its hard to find a kindred soul. Most people seem to be happy with not-so-deep connections. This mostly left me feeling lonely and misunderstood. Finding friends who could be authentic and supportive seemed like such a hard task, I thought it was just me , but I guess I am just an INFJ!
Which personality...

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by eliluvlakers on Saturday, May 16, 2015 - 6:28am

What is one of the biggest things we tend to struggle with besides loneliness?

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by Guest on Monday, April 20, 2015 - 9:56pm

I've taken the test multiple times and I've received ISFJ, INTJ, and INFJ and after reading this page I am definitely an INFJ. I've always felt sort of alone in the world and felt like nobody understood me, and I find myself always thinking super deep thoughts about myself, others. and the future. I am very interested with spirits and the after-life and people always nag me because I'm so "shy...

1 Comments | Last comment on 05/16/2015 - 6:06am

Not being able to have small talk at all!

by Guest on Thursday, April 16, 2015 - 3:02am

I've been reading about this a lot lately, and i've realized that i have extreme difficulty engaging in small talk. I literally can't seem to do it without coming off completely uninterested or awkward. It is almost frustrating that i can't seem to have a conversation with someone without wanting to automatically get into something really deep and or trying to find deeper meaning in everything...

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/21/2016 - 9:46am

INFJ - it's me

by Guest on Wednesday, October 29, 2014 - 3:54am

I always thought that it was just me in general; why I couldn't make friends and why I didn't get along with people. Then I took a personality test to see if my awkwardness has taken over my personality but then I got INFJ. When I started reading up on it and reading everyone's comments, I realized that I'm not the only one that feels like this. Now I'm feeling a lot less lonely and left out....

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hey INFJ

by Guest on Monday, October 27, 2014 - 3:49pm

Waz up my brothas!

2 Comments | Last comment on 05/16/2015 - 6:23am

Interesting to Know What Personalities Clash/Thrive With Each Other

by ericcapayne on Monday, October 27, 2014 - 5:00am

It would be interesting to know what personality types clash with each other and thrive with each other. This would maybe help understand why our friend are our friends and lovers are our lovers.

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/17/2014 - 7:57am

Type does not change over time.

by Guest on Thursday, October 23, 2014 - 10:03pm

People should stop relying on taking tests to "figure out" what their type really is. Tons of people get mis-typed this way . Rather look into the cognitive functions and such******.

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by Guest on Thursday, October 23, 2014 - 6:04pm

I wonder, why that part that INFJ look for aceptance? it happens to me and i know so bc my partner told me. After giving some thought, i realized she was right!

0 Comments | Last comment on 10/23/2014 - 6:04pm

lewl much laugh very funny wow

by Guest on Tuesday, September 16, 2014 - 4:45pm

I used to be a INTP like you. then I took a INFJ to the knee

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Most Likely To Have Psychic Abilities

by thebissy0 on Wednesday, August 27, 2014 - 5:50pm

I read on a Myers-Briggs website that one trait that INFJs tend to have is psychic abilities. How many of you guys have had experiences or feelings that seemed to be supernatural? Sometimes I've had dreams that actually came true (like glimpses into the future), or I've had major déjà vu, or I've had a very strong feeling that something was going to happen and it did. If you've had things like...

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Hey we are INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, July 6, 2014 - 8:34am


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Welcome INFJs!

by Truity on Wednesday, July 2, 2014 - 10:41pm

Looking forward to hosting lots of interesting discussions!

2 Comments | Last comment on 12/22/2014 - 6:37pm

Truity up to date