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ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...

16 Comments | Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 1:58am

Just took the test!

by Guest on Wednesday, December 20, 2017 - 5:38am

As I have come to find out, I don't typically like sharing personal things with people unless they are in my very small circle. However, I saw a video on YouTube and got intrigued so I took the assessment and it said I was an infj. Immediately i watched more videos and read up on what that meant. And I just have to say, for me it made me instantly feel....... Lighter! For a long time I felt...

3 Comments | Last comment on 03/03/2018 - 5:37pm

INFJ the Rarest of the personality types, is it true???

by Guest on Wednesday, December 13, 2017 - 6:08am

How did the 1%, number come about? Who counted those with the infj personality type as only one percent of the population, and how was this calculation brought about ?  Have  subsequent calculations been formed to account for population growth,  or is it just a theory to make us INFJs feel good? 

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/23/2018 - 1:24pm

Is Law a fulfilling career for an INFJ?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 12:47pm

Does the law profession makes an INFJ happy, fulfilled?

Does it suit the type and does it emcompasses the strengths, abilities of an INFJ?

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 7:32am

I'm dreaming of finding the INFJ guy who looking for this happy, quirky, kind INTP woman. I'm 64 years into the journey ......Peace, Andrea

by Kind Strength on Saturday, October 28, 2017 - 5:17am

My I N and P are very strong.  my T and F very marginal difference. I agree with the sites match personality because I know from past love that INFJ is SOOOO the match for me. so I'm going for the long shot that the one infj that might be searching for me too wil see this.  Relationship is such a wonderful thing- I gotta try. Peace, Andrea

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/08/2018 - 1:51am

Career Confusion INFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, October 25, 2017 - 11:52am

So I recently took the personality test and found out I'm an INFJ-T (Literally changed my whole world when I read the results). 

According to the outcome: I am 59% Introverted, 64% Intuitive, 58% Feeling, 69% Judging, 62% Turbulent

I'm in my final year of University and I'm studying Fashion (On the business/management side) so no physical design and patternmaking. I love fashion...

5 Comments | Last comment on 02/14/2018 - 4:20pm

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...

6 Comments | Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:20pm

Type Unknown

by Riukkuyo on Saturday, September 9, 2017 - 7:57pm

So, I'm new here on this site. I don't know my MBTI type, I've tested for INFP a lot but it me also changed to INTP, I asked people on Reddit to typify me and it was either INFP or INFJ. 

I recently did the big five factor one:

Openness: 85%

Conscientiouness: 10% (I think I can thank ADHD for that)

Extraversion: 23%

Agreeableness: 58%

Neuroticism: 80...

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/01/2017 - 12:23am

How to distinguish between Ni and Si?

by caitx on Sunday, August 13, 2017 - 1:36pm

I've taken the MBTI test multiple times and my type keeps switching between INFJ and ISFJ. Is there a main difference between the two functions Ni and Si that might help me determine which is more suitable for me?

3 Comments | Last comment on 01/03/2018 - 2:30pm

MBTI types and mental illness

by Guest on Friday, August 11, 2017 - 6:21pm

Does anyone know how much (if at all) mental illness can affect the outcome of your personality test? I am an ENFP, but part of me wonders if my depression makes me feel more P than J, or that my anxiety can make me more I than E, etc. 

Maybe it's a moot point, but I have always wondered about this. 

Anyone have any insight on this? Or resources for more information?


10 Comments | Last comment on 02/24/2018 - 6:50pm

Awkward INFJ

by Guest on Tuesday, August 8, 2017 - 8:05am

I am very awkward for my age. I really enjoy volunteering, going to parks, drinking tea, and reading, but I haven't recently because I'm so afraid I'm going to run into someone I know. Everyone in my grade is so developed and mature, and I can never seem to keep up with them. I rarely know what they're talking about, and don't try to join in because I hate embarrassing myself, so I constantly...

7 Comments | Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 11:53pm

Outcast INFJs

by Jemima on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 4:03am

FYI-  I am in my last year of highschool. I am female. I have 3 super best friends I have known since I was very young, but they don't go to my school. I do want to make new close friends.. but I feel as though I have particular needs and standards with people that often aren't met.

When meeting someone new as an INFJ, I can often immediatley predict where the...

4 Comments | Last comment on 11/08/2017 - 6:47am

Is it not the most liberating feeling to find out your personality type and to realize that there's nothing wrong with you?

by Guest on Friday, July 7, 2017 - 2:45am

For years and years and years I thought I was on another planet. I now know that there are more out there, and it's the most satisfying and liberating feeling. Wish I'd come across this sooner!

12 Comments | Last comment on 02/07/2018 - 4:54am

INFJ, All the Way. Hello my fellow INFJ'ers :-)

by Going the Distance on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 6:14am

Hi Everyone, 

Just came across this site and love it. I've been taking the Myers-Briggs test for many years, and it always comes back to me as INFJ. 

 I find this comfortably reassuring, and it explains so much about my personality and how I think and act. 

Professionally, I'm a youth worker, trainer and Life Coach, and I also write, so very alligend with the preferred/...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/01/2017 - 10:35pm

"Buffering" as you talk

by Guest on Thursday, June 15, 2017 - 6:02am

So I know I'm not the best at telling stories (even though I'd like to think I am). I skip over important parts, leave out detail, go over TOO much detail, etc. I know that sometimes when I get overly excited telling a story, I have to pause more or actually think about what I'm going to say rather than just saying it because I'm thinking faster than I'm talking or I'm telling part of the...

10 Comments | Last comment on 02/16/2018 - 10:39pm

What's one INFJ issue you wish you could solve for good?

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 8:15pm

For me, it's probably perfectionism. I've worked on it a lot in recent years, but I still notice perfectionist tendencies creeping up when I'm working on various projects. I've met quite a few other INFJs online recently and know that most of us (especially women) deal with perfectionism, or have at some point in our lives.

I love learning about the similarities (and differences!)...

17 Comments | Last comment on 12/15/2017 - 9:57pm

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...

11 Comments | Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 9:31pm

A 59 year old INFJ female in Colorado seeking a 59 year old INFJ male.

by Guest on Sunday, June 11, 2017 - 1:32pm

I was widowed in 1/2014 and only began to understand that I am an INFJ that year.  In taking the quiz on this site, I am most compatible with an INFJ.

0 Comments | Last comment on 06/11/2017 - 1:32pm

INFJ Love Match

by Guest on Monday, May 29, 2017 - 4:03pm

I'm 19 and female INTP and got an INFJ for my love match, and I feel like...'the biggest challenge in my life', that's due to the fact that INFJ is the rarest personality  if possible,I would love to chat with INFJ.

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:37pm

How to help INFJ

by Atte on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 6:43pm

My very precious friend has some problems with finding motivation and enjoying her life and I have no idea, how can I help her. I'm in similar situation as she is, but I'm ENTP and I just can't understand, why she is soo sad because for me it's nothing special... How can I help her? Any ideas, what makes INFJ soo sensitive or something what will makes me understand their point of view...? 

8 Comments | Last comment on 08/26/2017 - 2:10am

infj since oct 2016

by Guest on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 8:07am

I understand that I´m an INFJ and got a "love match" to an INFJ. Is there anybody out there?


6 Comments | Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 6:22pm

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?


1 Comments | Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Any ideas?

by childoftheuniverse on Monday, May 1, 2017 - 10:25pm

I am an INFJ who prides myself on giving people my advice. A couple weeks ago a friend came to me with a question and I gave him an honest answer. Later on that week he tells me that I ruined his relationship. It has been a while since I have spoken o him. Any idea what I should do? Any suggestions are welcome.

8 Comments | Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm

Anybody had success with a dating site based on your Myers Briggs type?

by Guest on Monday, April 17, 2017 - 8:45pm

I'm a 59 male who just found out that I'm INFJ... One of only 1% of the population, and I am wondering if that might be part of the reason I've had so much difficulty finding a REALLY compatible partner. My marriage of 20 years just ended, and was really an excercise in futilty for a long time. We just could not connect on much of what I thought was important. This, disheartingly, is a...

11 Comments | Last comment on 03/12/2018 - 6:48am

um im infj and i recently found out i have mild autism. i think we might all have some given our traits

by Guest on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 - 12:42am

i found out that girls with autism go undiagnosed due to the fact that autistic girls feel more emotion and empathy than the typical autistic boy, but what gives us away is being prone to sensory overload and despite understanding others, feeling alienated and misunderstood, also personally i have a hard time maintaing idle chitchat and the like(i find it iritating), and i hate when people are...

11 Comments | Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 6:36pm


by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:54am

16 year old, a junior in high school, and I feel as though I've already done this before. Not high school itself, but life. I don't feel my age, yes I look like my age and even a little older, but I act older and I feel older. Maybe you would describe me as an "old soul" or maybe not. I wonder if I'm the only one who feels like this, especially at my age, or if it's also because I'm an INFJ?...

7 Comments | Last comment on 05/11/2017 - 10:29am

Aussie 70 year old female INFJ

by silverslippers on Thursday, March 30, 2017 - 10:07pm

Just joined today so first post. This could be a real life line for me .. Wondering if there's anyone else out there who has found it difficult through 70 odd years of life in this Culture and found great relief in discovering there's others like us! Would love to share experiences.  Actually  .. anyone this age would be great but there's a particular difficulty with the Aussie Culture. Having...

3 Comments | Last comment on 09/11/2017 - 5:31am

Reality is what you decide it to be!

by TachyonDreams on Monday, March 20, 2017 - 7:50am

1% of the population!

Well, that explains a lot!  

Scorpio + Snake + INFJ = must be a Hell of a combination hahahahaha...

Proud to be INFJ - rare is always good, or not?

Curious seeing what type of jobs you guys/gals are in...

Also, if you could change one thing in your life, or change one thing on this tiny planet of ours, what would it be, and why?

2 Comments | Last comment on 12/08/2017 - 2:18pm

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

Torn between INFJ and INTJ

by Guest on Monday, March 6, 2017 - 4:45am

Hey Truity community

Recently took the personality test and I was shelved as an INFJ (22,28,3,6) F is borderline 3% and this got me thinking that my indiciseveness and inability to act are due to being torn between emotion and thought. Generally I am a very intuititve and analytical person with the ability to find good ideas and combine them but I can also get many magnitudes emotional...

7 Comments | Last comment on 07/08/2017 - 8:27am

A 15 year old INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:35pm

I am a proud INFJ! 
I've always felt different than most people my age , you could call me an old soul. I've always felt wise beyond my years, I've Always had a completely dissimilar mindset and personality than most people my age.
 I initially felt streams of loneliness when I acknowledged who I really was because no one really understood me, neither my passions, my spiritual...

5 Comments | Last comment on 06/04/2017 - 1:42am

I'm not suprised I'm a INFJ

by Guest on Sunday, February 5, 2017 - 8:06pm

I've always felt different, I've always been attracted to books, art and poems. I love being alone, enjoying solitude really enhances my spiritual mindset and recharges my batteries. I often feel like I will never settle for anyone than a INFJ , I mean .. who would settle for inauthenticity ? I'm a proud INFJ but at the same time , it's sad that we only make less than 1% of the population,...

2 Comments | Last comment on 02/22/2017 - 10:07pm


by Guest on Monday, January 30, 2017 - 11:43pm

I love being an INFJ and I've seen lots of INFJ pride on here. But I see a lot of us on here talk about loneliness! So, my question is how all of you feel is the best way for us to communicate? I'll try to explain more of how I feel about it. There are many times where I feel like I would be better off by just not sharing my life with others. There are personal feelings and experiences I have...

4 Comments | Last comment on 03/30/2017 - 1:53pm

I found my type :)

by Nathan on Sunday, January 29, 2017 - 7:04pm

After years of thinking I was different and alone, I found out that I wasn't weird at all! I just had a unique personality type. Learning this and exploring what it means has made all the difference in the world :)

0 Comments | Last comment on 01/29/2017 - 7:04pm

INFJ and just found out...

by Karen on Monday, January 23, 2017 - 2:55pm

...after 71 years of wondering why I loved people but chose not to interact much at all. Heard of the Myers Briggs test 4 days ago and I'm still reeling! I've been reading all I can on INFJ, most of it's clinical/scientific. I would really love to hear some real life experiences. A huge weight was lifted when I found out I'm still odd, but now "explainable". I am about 48% extrovert, per...

7 Comments | Last comment on 03/31/2017 - 9:59pm


by Guest on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 - 9:44pm

I am a INFJ, I have been in some relationships in the past and i do feel like i deserve better in those relationships which made me quit those relationships but now i am in another relationship(courtship) and i am looking forward to marriage but the way the relationship is going I am scared that i might quit it and worse still that if i get married, I might end up dissatisfied and divorced. I...

1 Comments | Last comment on 01/14/2017 - 9:00am

INFP, INFJ, or something else?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 - 7:53am

Im so confused. Im a 24 yr old guy and Ive tested multiple times and have gotten many different results but the main four are INFP, INTP, ENFP, and INFJ. I did research and tried to make sense of it. Heres what i found. Im 100% introvert and dont like getting involved in a lot of meaningless relationships so that rules out the ENFP. I do think to myself a lot and got confused because i thought...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2018 - 10:12pm

My new career as an INFJ

by Moggzy on Monday, November 21, 2016 - 9:00am

Hi, this is my first post. Im a 28 yr male who has been a painter and decorator by trade for almost ten years and have now moved on to working for a company with over 200 employees that paint massive high rise construction. In the last 9months I have been asked and I accepted the role of Work Place Health and Safety Officer. I get paid more and the boreing mind numbing workload is over....

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/30/2016 - 6:46am


by Lara on Tuesday, November 15, 2016 - 9:56am

Hi! I am new here, and it cannot define whether I am a Judger or a Perceiver, a Thinker or Feeler. Most other sites say I am an INFJ, so I'd say I am an INFJ. What do you think?

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/30/2016 - 7:51pm

Compatible with INFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, November 2, 2016 - 1:03pm

Hi I have had bad luck so far in the relationship department. My perfect match according to this site is an INFJ. I am in my early 50's and athletic. I am hoping to meet someone my age to start a friendship with potential for a relationship.

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/09/2017 - 1:06pm

Lost and confused without the slightest idea of how/where to start

by Guest on Saturday, October 29, 2016 - 8:21pm

Hi All!

So i'm a full blown INFJ and i'm just going to get straight to the point (hopefully haha). I graduated from college with a Bachelor's in European History, moved to Budapest, Hungary to teach english (kind of liked it, but I had to be "on" all the time, which drained me and also the pay was terrible), then i started a position in telesales that i hated and only lasted 7 months....

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/30/2016 - 3:38pm

INFJ relationship compatibility with ENFP

by mven7 on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 - 1:30am

Hey, I'm an INFJ and during the summer at work we studied MBIT and all. Fast forward through the summer, an ENFP took interest in me. We had been friends for a while, on and off type deal. It was rumored from trusted friends that he had liked me on and off, but honestly he had been in and out of so many relationships. Like a lot. I even met my best friend through him, because he had dated her...

0 Comments | Last comment on 10/25/2016 - 1:30am

career decision

by Guest on Tuesday, September 13, 2016 - 9:36pm

ANy INFJs out there that have had a hard time choosing a career like me? After years of research, I've narrowed it down to two: school counseling or clinical psychology. ANy insight is welcome

7 Comments | Last comment on 04/02/2017 - 9:52pm

Are there certain MBTI types that are more likely to habitually print using all capital letters?

by INFJ1961 on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 - 6:42pm

For quite a few years now, I've had a tendency to write in all capital letters, making the first letter of any word that would normally be capitalized larger than the rest. What led me to this is that I saw someone else doing it, and I liked it.

With the onset of computers in homes and workplaces, I did a lot less handwriting. I do very little corresponding outside of the digital...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 8:22pm

I am last!

by suavecoolwave on Thursday, September 1, 2016 - 5:01am

I just found out last week that indeed I am not crazy, and nothing is wrong with me.
For the longest time I sensed that I was different. It bothered me that I "could read" people's feelings/emotions and that
it affected me. It bothered me that I couldn't stand the mindless, silly chats of people around me. And above all, I always tried to seek solitude. It felt good to be alone...

6 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2016 - 5:43pm

I'd like to clarify Some things about the way i see mbti

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:59am

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/28/2016 - 9:11pm

Personality INFJ

by Guest on Monday, August 22, 2016 - 12:21pm

I'm an infj female. have you any recommandations for Hobbies and where i can find friends, they understand me.
I ve dissimulated me my whole life, but i dont like any more to be not the right "ego".
thanks a lot for answers.

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/15/2017 - 5:56pm

Ideal Match for Female INFJ?

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:56pm

I've read lots of different matches, to me it seems according to those my best match is either ENTP or ENFP. I'm more of a sensitive INFJ. What are your experiences and the types you seem to get along best with?

2 Comments | Last comment on 09/02/2016 - 3:39am

some one to talk to for the heck of it.

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:38pm

I am a 40 year old woman, 5'6" 182 lbs Brunet w blue eyes.
I am under the sign of Libra but was raised by a Leo.
Really made my childhood rough on that tune.
I am a mother of one child.
I love art,a wide variety of music,camping,fishing,crabbing but do not enjoy hunting, though I do enjoy rock hunting.
I am quite shy but very affectionate.
I am not looking...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/31/2016 - 5:48am

My ideal love match is an INFJ male

by annienstevenson on Wednesday, August 17, 2016 - 8:23pm

I have had bad luck in the "love compartment" of my life and would like to explore whether, or not, I could meet someone who could actually be compatible with me without having to awkwardly start conversations with people

I mean, why not -right?

(I am a female)

4 Comments | Last comment on 08/20/2016 - 7:41am

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