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Estp fearful of doing something and failing

by Guest on Sunday, February 21, 2016 - 3:06pm | in ESTP

I am wondering is my fear of failure just who I am? I love success and make sure to always stay in my wheel house but unfortunately I fear completing my doctoral studies because I suck a writing , any suggestions as to how I can overcome this issue to force myself to complete this process


Last comment on 02/21/2016 - 3:06pm

How to get relate to non INTP brothers / siblings

by Guest on Friday, February 12, 2016 - 11:15pm | in INTP

I am an INTP with 3 older brothers and one younger. All of them frustrate me because they don't understand my ideas and treat me with little respect. My brothers have become a big problem in my life and would like some help.


Last comment on 07/28/2016 - 1:03am

Sharing my poems/ feeling

by panpp.loo on Thursday, February 11, 2016 - 10:48am | in INFP

* Loneliness *

I don’t know her
I don’t see her
But in the mirror
Before the mirror
Coz I am Loneliness.


Last comment on 03/01/2016 - 8:31pm

Help! I don't understand my teacher!

by CarolinaCrow on Thursday, February 11, 2016 - 4:15am | in ISFJ


I'm an INTJ, and from what I can tell, my teacher is an ISFJ. I like her and am interested in her class, but I don't know what to expect from her. Sometimes, she insists on "looking for the details" in our literature readings when I'm still trying to understand the big picture, which makes me confused. When preparing for quizzes or tests, I feel like I'm just memorizing isolated...


Last comment on 06/22/2016 - 8:46am

INTJ female bad at relationshops

by jwav3814 on Friday, February 5, 2016 - 2:11am | in INTJ

I worry that things I say that are logical and rational are hurtful.

e.g. I'm an INTJ woman in a relationship with an ENTJ guy, who used to be my best friend - we were very close and then lost contact for 9 years and decided to give it a go. we did LDR (long distance relationship) for 2 years and then he's moved in for a year. for about that time, we've not been having much NSFW action...


Last comment on 05/08/2016 - 3:30am

My ideal partner = infj

by Lijacleanin on Thursday, February 4, 2016 - 1:48pm | in INFJ

So any single Aussie infj come at me haha :P
I am a female BTW :)


Last comment on 02/04/2016 - 1:48pm

Test Scores and Results were changed on my account from March of 2015 until today 2/3/2016

by littlechi4us3 on Thursday, February 4, 2016 - 11:20am | in ENFJ

I am just wandering, has anyone experienced their tests scores having been changed; manipulated or altered?

I took several of these tests back in March of of 2015; and printed out my results. I logged in yesterday, and I was perusing some of my results from March of 2015; particularly dealing with "The BIG FIVE", I noticed my scores on my tests from 2015 were different from my...


Last comment on 02/04/2016 - 4:25pm

INTJs in Relationships - Too Critical or Just Being an INTJ?

by bakerbr on Tuesday, February 2, 2016 - 4:04pm | in INTJ

Hi there ... I'm a lifelong-tested-always-the-same-outcome INTJ female. I've been looking for some observations on whether INTJs are naturally perceived as being too critical in relationships or whether it's just me! After several failed relationships in the past and a lot of self-reflection, I thought perhaps I would be better (i.e. less critical) in the future. Almost three months into a new...


Last comment on 07/31/2016 - 2:45am

Just here because of Luke Hmemings

by Guest on Wednesday, January 20, 2016 - 12:55pm | in INFP

I am not an INFP but I am here because I heard that Luke Hemmings is a INFP and I am trash and came here during school. Fight me. Lolzor (Dan Howell) Okay I'll stop being ignorant and leave. Bye!


Last comment on 01/20/2016 - 12:58pm

New Career needed.

by Guest on Monday, January 18, 2016 - 10:58pm | in ENFP

I am labeled an ENFP. Artist by nature. Formally trained, too. But now I need to make real money but also do something that will fulfill my need to have a meaningful relationship with the world. Anyone have a job like that? If so, share. BIG Thanks!!!!


Last comment on 11/16/2016 - 1:12am

What type am I?

by Guest on Sunday, January 17, 2016 - 8:40am | in INTJ

I took several online Myers Briggs tests online. The results I got were INTJ, INTP, INFP-A, and one result which said that I was intuitive but on the borderline of the other characteristics. I relate to almost all INTJ characteristics, such as being "insatiably curious" and pondering over the deeper meaning of existence, etc. Also I have several tendencies, such as to correct people even when...


Last comment on 02/04/2016 - 3:17am


by ayorkf on Thursday, January 14, 2016 - 6:00am | in INFJ

I'm just wondering if anyone wants wants to have a nice conversation.


Last comment on 08/03/2016 - 2:27am


by Guest on Tuesday, January 12, 2016 - 3:53pm | in ESTJ

I find myself borderline of ESTJ/ISTJ. I'm not this huge extrovert, but also not shy/introverted. It can vary depending on where I am. For example, I may be more extroverted at work since I tend to gravitate towards interaction with people in a client service/sales role. When I am home I like family time but I also enjoy time alone with a good book or playing video games. The test had me...


Last comment on 05/07/2016 - 4:28pm

Help Paying Attention

by ameliaruby on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 - 11:41pm | in ESTP

I need help paying attention. Every time someone tries to explain something to me I always get distracted. Post help.


Last comment on 08/24/2016 - 6:40am

Found my personality type!

by thollis1987 on Sunday, January 3, 2016 - 1:12pm | in INTJ

Hi, everyone. I just want to say I am a 28 year old woman who has finally found my EXACT personality type.

I have struggled for about year and a half out of extreme curiosity. I viewed and tested multiple personality tests

online, and every time I got different results. I was either ISTJ, ISFJ, INTJ, or INFJ. So, I got fed up and came to

this website to try to find out...


Last comment on 01/05/2016 - 11:13pm

Please help me with my enfp husband!

by Guest on Saturday, January 2, 2016 - 8:55pm | in ENFP

Okay, there's so many things my husband is Great at ( maintaining relationships, dealing with awkward situations, etc), but I'm having a really hard time with his inability to follow through. I'm not one of those types that makes him guess at what I want (I'm an int/fj female, with a fairly well developed fi), but baby number 4 is due in two weeks, and I'm getting no help. We have a three...


Last comment on 10/16/2016 - 10:34pm


by Guest on Friday, January 1, 2016 - 8:06am | in ESFP

So my group of friends are all crazy interested in the Meyer Briggs. Almost all of them have typed me as an ESFJ and I have always disagreed on this. I have taken numerous and various personality type tests and have gotten ESFJ once. With that being said, I have seemed to gotten something different almost every time, but every once in a while I would see ESFP reappear. Well, I really started...


Last comment on 01/01/2017 - 8:55pm

Lets make a movement!

by Guest on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 4:08am | in ENFP

Trying to start a facebook group for ENFPs so 'we have a virtual space to connect with people who understand us (when we often feel like weirdos in every day society), to understand ourselves more by talking to one another (when our actions can so often feel infuriatingly...


Last comment on 02/12/2016 - 6:50pm

even split J & P

by Guest on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 12:32am | in ENFJ

I have taken this test twice and got different results. I just The Keirsey Temperament Sorter and was a definitive ENF,but equally split between J and P. The profile of the ENFJ was spot on, whereas I didnt identify with parts of ENFP. So... is that the tie breaker?


Last comment on 09/29/2016 - 10:40am

Fellow INTJs, I need your help to guide me in the right direction

by Maria_kj on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 6:15pm | in INTJ


I'm a young INTJ with no idea what to do with my life. I have many interests, but few passions, and I don't know what to study..

I went to theater high school, and then on to become a petty officer in the Navy. My engagement ends in summer, and I don't think I want to prolong it..

My grades are good, so most doors are open to me, but deadlines to apply are creeping...


Last comment on 03/03/2016 - 5:14pm


by Guest on Sunday, December 27, 2015 - 3:41pm | in ENTP

My girlfriend is an ISTJ. She's great. Very reliable, loyal and kind. But somehow, I'm looking for something more than what we have. I'm afraid we would end up unhappy. What should we do?


Last comment on 12/03/2016 - 2:59am


by Guest on Sunday, December 27, 2015 - 3:37pm | in ISTJ

My girlfriend is an ISTJ. She's great. Very reliable, loyal and kind. But somehow, I'm looking for something more than what we have. I'm afraid we would end up unhappy. What should we do?


Last comment on 12/30/2015 - 10:25pm

Carrer path help for INFP

by Guest on Wednesday, December 23, 2015 - 7:23pm | in INFP


Another INFP on board. I have one question: Are there any books/courses/whatever available which are dealing with how to truly fullfil our career paths and reach our potentials as INFPs?


Last comment on 03/01/2016 - 8:34pm

Success without human connection.

by Guest on Sunday, December 13, 2015 - 8:30am | in INTJ

So apparently I am a INTJ; I've been extremely successful in everything I've ever put my mind to although human connection I seem to have trouble with.
I am relatively monotone when it comes to expressing my feelings towards others and that seems to be a problem for some people, especially when it comes to romantic type relationships and I've been told by multiple people that I am "cold...


Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:53pm

Multiple types

by Cwbrogdon on Thursday, December 3, 2015 - 6:11pm | in ISTJ

My original test result was ISTJ-A Inspector, which I don't think this is 100% me. So I took the rest of the free test. I scored 62.5% as Mastermind, 61.2% Commander, 60.7% Supervisor & 57.4% Inspector. So I'm a little confused to say the least & also very interested in this. Has anyone else had these same issues? I've taken all of these test multiple times just to see if the results...


Last comment on 12/11/2015 - 4:36am

Being used as a sounding board

by Guest on Monday, November 30, 2015 - 4:57am | in INFJ

I can tolerate this with friends I choose, but now I've been chosen by someone who just wants to use me as a sounding board - is there a kind way to politely disengage with this person who I run into regularly in a community setting?


Last comment on 11/30/2015 - 4:57am

Any experienced and successful INFJ & ESTP love relationships?

by Guest on Sunday, November 29, 2015 - 8:23pm | in ESTP

Just curious since the consensus seems to be split as to whether or not this is a good match.


Last comment on 11/29/2015 - 8:23pm

INFJ confused by ENTP guy

by Guest on Sunday, November 29, 2015 - 6:48pm | in ENTP

Months ago I met an ENTP and he was Very taken by me, flirted and acted as if he couldn't believe the conversation. Kept shaking his head and saying first impressions are SO very important. But hes in another relationship and told me hes trying still to make that work. After months of sporadic very personal emails & coffee together I asked for space. I was starting to really care for him....


Last comment on 12/03/2016 - 2:49am

INTJ (lack)

by sammydoh on Saturday, November 28, 2015 - 5:05am | in INTJ

So, apparently INTJs make up like 2% of the population. Anybody out there?


Last comment on 05/05/2017 - 8:06pm


by sammydoh on Wednesday, November 25, 2015 - 11:10pm | in INTJ

Can you explain the nuances of human connection to me? I am extremely confused. I just asked my friend if he had wiped his shoes and washed his clothes before coming into my room, followed by a blunt "what took you so long" and he just stormed out. Is this some kind of ESFP thing?



Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 8:14pm


by sammydoh on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 8:29pm | in INTJ

OK, so in LA class I was assigned the question "Should Charlie Gordon from Flowers for Algernon have had the operation to increase his intelligence?"

Here is what I've got:

Please share your thoughts.


Last comment on 11/24/2015 - 8:29pm

What advice do you have for an INTJ thinking of retirement; other than financial?

by Guest on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 7:06pm | in INTJ

The subject states the question. When retiring one needs to think of three areas beyond the financial question, these include (1) Physical Activities, (2) Social Connections, and (3) Mental Stimulus. In my opinion, an INTJ will have no problem with #3 and #1, but I suspect an INTJ may have difficulties with #2. Any thoughts? Or suggestions?


Last comment on 12/05/2015 - 11:12pm

Is there a ENFP club

by Guest on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 8:02am | in ENFP

Is there like a club where ENFPs can meet up in the UK ?


Last comment on 06/17/2016 - 3:53pm

professional organizing

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 2:20am | in INTJ

Which personality type is suitable for becoming a certified professional organizer? Would it be good for an INTJ?


Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:58pm

please help with a new career

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 1:39am | in INTJ

I am a 42 year old INTJ woman who needs a new career. I stupidly got a BA in Anthropology and then a Muliple Subjects teaching credential. Teaching elementary school was too stressful in terms of being around tons of kids and having to control their behavior. I was constantly sick, and not from their germs. I want to do something appropriate for my personality type now, but I'm so old!...


Last comment on 12/28/2015 - 4:59pm

Hi ENTPs, I am completely lost I need some guidance please.

by Guest on Sunday, November 8, 2015 - 10:50pm | in ENTP

Hi there,

I am a filmmaker for indie films and I work aside as waitress in restaurants only because, making movies don't pay yet and as a waitress I know I won't have to deal with homework and assignments.
The problem is that I read people's personality extremely well - which helps me knowing if I want this or this person in my circle of friends - however, as soon as I meet...


Last comment on 11/14/2015 - 11:42pm

Being an INTJ parent

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 2:15pm | in INTJ

When I gave birth to my son eleven years ago, little did I know how illogical and yet wonderfully imperfect my life would become. (Don't be fooled it's still quite organized and efficient as possible ;) )
I was scared that I had to take care of this little life that would not be able to verbalize his needs, play games I really didn't get but played along anyway. Many a nights of " I...


Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 2:52am

Existential Depression

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 7:30am | in INTJ

Seeking feedback about this obstacle from INTJ's (it is interfering with my projects).


Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 3:17am

Jobs suited to INFJ

by Guest on Thursday, November 5, 2015 - 3:14pm | in INFJ

I have recently realised that I am INFJ. Unfortunately I have also suffered from an episode of major depression at the age of 22 which caused me to lose my job. I am in recovery at the moment and would just like to enquire whether others have experience similar and what path they took career/job wise after this as I have found it difficult to fit in. I studied modern languages at uni and had...


Last comment on 03/24/2016 - 6:59pm

Your mom

by Guest on Monday, November 2, 2015 - 8:25pm | in INFJ

So I have this strange attraction to your mom and I wonder if this is one of my characteristics for INFJ.


Last comment on 11/02/2015 - 8:25pm

I scored INFP and ENFP. Seems like a weird combo.

by Guest on Friday, October 30, 2015 - 1:23pm | in INFP

Well, first off, the test was unable to determine if I am an Introvert or an Extrovert. That is fair since I am not sure either. I guess it just depends on what day of the week it is. What I thought was strange, though, was that I scored as an INFP (healer) and ENFP (champion). Those seem like weird combos to me. I feel like I am certainly more of a Healer. Did anybody else get that score?...


Last comment on 05/14/2016 - 10:01am

Help me, ENFJs!

by Guest on Thursday, October 29, 2015 - 2:46am | in ENFJ

Hi! I'm an INFP with two close ENFJ friends. We've been extremely close for over a decade, but lately I've started noticing a few things that I need help with.

As an INFP, I need my alone time, or I get snippy and exhausted. My ENFJs are always wanting to talk and talk non-stop, and while I'm interested lately I've been so tired that I can't really keep up - I just need to sit and...


Last comment on 10/12/2016 - 8:16pm


by Guest on Wednesday, October 28, 2015 - 12:49pm | in ISTP

I hate to say it and know I shouldn't be thinking this way but I'm feeling ashamed to be an ISTP. Somehow I grew up thinking I needed to be more outgoing and vivacious, like the people I looked up to growing up. I got into business and eventually sales and had to hide my introversion. I'm better in 1:1 situations with customers who I truly can help but when I'm around other Sales people, the...


Last comment on 10/26/2017 - 4:42pm


by Guest on Monday, October 26, 2015 - 3:44am | in ENFJ

This is an extrovert style of personality. I noticed these tendencies by making it easier to talk to people and also to make new friend by being open about my personality. I understand how some people feel like that can't talk to people openly because they feel like they will be judged. Only thing i do not like about tjis personality is that they say it is judgemental but I personally are not...


Last comment on 09/29/2016 - 12:17pm


by Guest on Saturday, October 24, 2015 - 9:51am | in INTJ

Im an INTJ
Im an enterpreuner
10 years ago, i was a poor boy, from a poor family, trying to survive, looking for a job.
I looked at the market , i believe that everything is possible.
Today i have 600 employees , and i create my own brand, known worldwide.


Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 2:39am


by gelpii on Wednesday, October 21, 2015 - 4:18pm | in ENFP

Hello, new to this blog. What's happening on this site? So we are very similar in nature. So we should all get along? If share my feelings and experiences you won't judge me or slam me right? Because if you guys are like me, that's something I dislike. Let's chat. Israel


Last comment on 10/21/2015 - 4:18pm

Bugger! I'm a major ENTJ coupled with the fact I'm a Leo male! major Leo!

by Guest on Friday, October 16, 2015 - 10:20pm | in ENTJ

Bugger! I'm a major ENTJ coupled with the fact I'm a leo Male, major LEO male. I even share the same birthday as the Queens mother, Barrack Obama, Paul Henry (broadcaster in NZ), David Lange (former NZ Prime minister( and even YAsser Arafat! and I'm always thinking out on the edge.... rationally.... but always out right field. Interesting... any great ENTJ Women folks out there? Wanna make...


Last comment on 12/29/2016 - 1:28pm

Forever a lone wanderer

by declan_thom on Thursday, October 15, 2015 - 9:10pm | in INFP

Forever preordained to be a lone wanderer. Constantly I crave a deeper connection with someone. Friends and strangers open up to me. They bring me all of their problems. Big, small, deep, shallow. I listen, I care, I do whatever I can to help. They feel understood, and the satisfaction I feel when I see that brief connection in their eyes, when they realize that I do understand what they're...


Last comment on 05/02/2016 - 3:30pm

DOING things

by nabeeha22 on Monday, October 12, 2015 - 3:05pm | in INFP

Hi everyone I'm an INFP, sixteen years old, and a junior in high school. I take harder classes and I know I'm capable of being excellent. HOWEVER, I plan on getting things done asap, and as I plan to start, I distract myself for a second and end up trying to get things done at the last minute because I waited for so long. Being productive and managing my time wisely can be a big problem for me...


Last comment on 05/22/2016 - 6:05am

how do I get along with my parents???

by yeeshin99 on Saturday, October 10, 2015 - 1:02pm | in INTP

do any of you other intps feel an immediate urge to rebel when your parents tell you to do something?? its becoming a problem for me, cos I found that I keep getting more and more distant from my mom, she keeps asking ne about everything I do and tells me to do stuff. and I hate it. How did you guys solve the problem?


Last comment on 05/05/2017 - 2:58pm

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