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Any ideas?

by childoftheuniverse on Monday, May 1, 2017 - 10:25pm | in INFJ

I am an INFJ who prides myself on giving people my advice. A couple weeks ago a friend came to me with a question and I gave him an honest answer. Later on that week he tells me that I ruined his relationship. It has been a while since I have spoken o him. Any idea what I should do? Any suggestions are welcome.


Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm


by Guest on Saturday, April 22, 2017 - 3:00am | in ENFP, INTJ

Hi I'm so drained from my over thinking. Getting off Facebook helped silence the inner monologue. I love being an ENFP! When I'm at my best it's a real treat. Although when I'm depressed and have to socialize every single person asks me what is wrong. PSTD is winning the battle the past couple months...July24th will be a full year of extremely high anxiety and depression. A rollercoaster...


Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 7:33pm

Career Planing

by Guest on Thursday, April 20, 2017 - 9:03am | in INFP

I am an computer science and engineering graduate.I passed out from the college In 2007.I didn't work as of now.I would like to enter into IT field now.I have learned few cources recently like Sql,dataware housing,ssis,ssas,tableau reporing tool.There is no time for me to revise the subject.I would also like to learn car driving .I am wishing to fulfill these two desires one is learing car...


Last comment on 05/23/2017 - 9:37am

Anybody had success with a dating site based on your Myers Briggs type?

by Guest on Monday, April 17, 2017 - 8:45pm | in INFJ

I'm a 59 male who just found out that I'm INFJ... One of only 1% of the population, and I am wondering if that might be part of the reason I've had so much difficulty finding a REALLY compatible partner. My marriage of 20 years just ended, and was really an excercise in futilty for a long time. We just could not connect on much of what I thought was important. This, disheartingly, is a...


Last comment on 12/19/2018 - 11:28pm

emotional maintenance

by Guest on Saturday, April 15, 2017 - 3:30am | in ESFJ

Would you invite your friends to sit with your group at your tables in a restaurant when they come over by your tables?  I'm an ESFJ, and would feel hurt if my friends didn't invite me to sit with them.


Last comment on 04/18/2017 - 10:06pm

ENTJ at work

by Guest on Thursday, April 13, 2017 - 3:50pm | in ENTJ

I'm liked and respected by my peers that are high-performers, but 'the rest' (I'm guessing that is an ENTJ indicator right there) find me difficult and demanding.

What tools/resources are out there to help me soften those rough edges for those who don't work well with my ENTJ personality? 


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by Guest on Thursday, April 13, 2017 - 5:46am | in ESFJ

Does any one else want to be invited to sit with a group when entering a room where everyone is seated?



Last comment on 04/17/2017 - 8:40pm

um im infj and i recently found out i have mild autism. i think we might all have some given our traits

by Guest on Wednesday, April 12, 2017 - 12:42am | in INFJ

i found out that girls with autism go undiagnosed due to the fact that autistic girls feel more emotion and empathy than the typical autistic boy, but what gives us away is being prone to sensory overload and despite understanding others, feeling alienated and misunderstood, also personally i have a hard time maintaing idle chitchat and the like(i find it iritating), and i hate when people are...


Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 6:36pm

INTJ not getting tech Jobs.

by Albertece on Tuesday, April 11, 2017 - 8:16am | in INTJ

I am an Electronics Engineer from India. I completed Engineering with 79%. I have born technical skills. I had 7 year experience 5 year in India and 2 year in Dubai in which 3 year telecom 2 year electronics and current 2 year am working in oil field. I have high learning skill and I designed my own website, a good CV. I am very good at working with technical environments. but i am not getting...


Last comment on 05/24/2017 - 2:17pm

INFP, and cann't find the purpose of my life

by Guest on Sunday, April 9, 2017 - 3:36pm | in INFP

hello I am new here and I would like to hear your thoughts.

I'm 23 gay guy from KSA living in germany, shy, like to dress good, lazy, emotional take opnions personally sometime, I like to do my own stuff on my own way:like what I think and so on, I play online games like the game LOL waste time on it actually.

I have good eyes on colours, clothes and  rooms and  think moslty how...


Last comment on 06/27/2017 - 7:09am


by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:54am | in INFJ

16 year old, a junior in high school, and I feel as though I've already done this before. Not high school itself, but life. I don't feel my age, yes I look like my age and even a little older, but I act older and I feel older. Maybe you would describe me as an "old soul" or maybe not. I wonder if I'm the only one who feels like this, especially at my age, or if it's also because I'm an INFJ?...


Last comment on 05/11/2017 - 10:29am

Careers for INTPs

by Guest on Thursday, April 6, 2017 - 2:25am | in INTP

Hi, I'm 18 and an INTP.

I've always been very confused and uncertain when it comes to career choices. I've always had a very wide choice of careers as I excel in anything I apply myself to (although I have problems with motivation) and I find that I'm naturally good at most things. As a result I've never had a clear path.

I've considered so many careers with the ones I've most...


Last comment on 03/26/2018 - 8:51pm

Aussie 70 year old female INFJ

by silverslippers on Thursday, March 30, 2017 - 10:07pm | in INFJ

Just joined today so first post. This could be a real life line for me .. Wondering if there's anyone else out there who has found it difficult through 70 odd years of life in this Culture and found great relief in discovering there's others like us! Would love to share experiences.  Actually  .. anyone this age would be great but there's a particular difficulty with the Aussie Culture. Having...


Last comment on 09/11/2017 - 5:31am


by Guest on Thursday, March 23, 2017 - 8:35pm | in INTP

Do any fellow INTP have little to no interest in what is going on in society?


Last comment on 06/29/2017 - 5:46pm

Reality is what you decide it to be!

by TachyonDreams on Monday, March 20, 2017 - 7:50am | in INFJ

1% of the population!

Well, that explains a lot!  

Scorpio + Snake + INFJ = must be a Hell of a combination hahahahaha...

Proud to be INFJ - rare is always good, or not?

Curious seeing what type of jobs you guys/gals are in...

Also, if you could change one thing in your life, or change one thing on this tiny planet of ours, what would it be, and why?


Last comment on 12/08/2017 - 2:18pm

INFPs, what do you think is our worst fault, and what do we do about it?

by Bard on Thursday, March 16, 2017 - 5:21pm | in INFP

Worst fault or, if you prefer, trait most likely to cause problems.

I think, for me, it may be lack of self-confidence and mistrust of my inner voice. I have an INTJ friend who once said, "I always listen to myself." Not boasting, just objectively stating a fact, and puzzled that I don't do the same. Why wouldn't anyone? For my part I envy that quality so much--I so wish I had somehow...


Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 6:51pm

"Big 5"

by Guest on Thursday, March 16, 2017 - 4:37am | in

   By taking the  personality test, I discovered some interesting things about myself. First, was the "Big Five" Personailty test where I scored relatively high in Conscietiousness, Agreeableness, Extraverted, where in the other ones, I scored low in Neuroticism.In the book a high score on consicientiousness is an emotional stability were associated with high performace across all occupational...


Last comment on 03/16/2017 - 4:37am

I'm borderline everything. Great....

by Guest on Friday, March 10, 2017 - 10:50pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

These are the results i got.

I didn't choose all of them right down the middle, I actually thought about the questions and answered honestly and with as much integrity as possible. Maybe more questions should be added....


Last comment on 09/08/2017 - 11:16pm

ENTP And school.......urgh.

by Marcus.....? on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 - 6:43pm | in ENTP

As an ENTP, I find the school enviroment quite wird I would say?

I'm gonna have to sort my grievances into catagorys that I havent yet decide how many.


Authority Figures:

I think if you are an ENTP, you're probably gnna find authroity figures a bit of an issue. I constantly have run ins with teachers because of things I dont agree with, or dont understand (such...


Last comment on 08/01/2017 - 2:27am

Tell me what I'm like

by Guest on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 - 3:57am | in INFP, INTP

I pretty consistently test as right between intp and infp.  You might think that makes a small difference unless you know the kind of laughable machinations of the Myers-Briggs thing.  A test that asks you things about yourself and then spits out pretty much the same things about yourself.  Argh.  You might as well take some test somebody made up about what kind of kitties you like.  I wish...


Last comment on 06/02/2017 - 4:29pm