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To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am | in INFP, ENFP

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...


Last comment on 09/26/2018 - 5:03pm

INTJ with ISFJ... Do you guys think that this could be a good match? (I'm really confused!)

by Guest on Thursday, June 22, 2017 - 12:55am | in INTJ, ISFJ

I'm a ISFJ male and I'm starting to like a INTJ female... She's kinda giving me more freedom than normal, like little touches (hugs, touches in the arm etc). She makes me feel really comfortable around her. When I'm around her... I really feel that she likes me, but she seems to be holding back, and when I try texting her, it seems that she doesn't have interest. Like, I see her online, but...


Last comment on 09/05/2018 - 4:38am

what is the best personality for a spouse to have with someone who is an ESFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, June 21, 2017 - 11:28pm | in ESFJ

see subject



Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 12:17am

"Buffering" as you talk

by Guest on Thursday, June 15, 2017 - 6:02am | in INFJ

So I know I'm not the best at telling stories (even though I'd like to think I am). I skip over important parts, leave out detail, go over TOO much detail, etc. I know that sometimes when I get overly excited telling a story, I have to pause more or actually think about what I'm going to say rather than just saying it because I'm thinking faster than I'm talking or I'm telling part of the...


Last comment on 10/12/2018 - 10:49pm

What's one INFJ issue you wish you could solve for good?

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 8:15pm | in INFJ

For me, it's probably perfectionism. I've worked on it a lot in recent years, but I still notice perfectionist tendencies creeping up when I'm working on various projects. I've met quite a few other INFJs online recently and know that most of us (especially women) deal with perfectionism, or have at some point in our lives.

I love learning about the similarities (and differences!)...


Last comment on 12/15/2017 - 9:57pm

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...


Last comment on 09/11/2018 - 4:15pm

A 59 year old INFJ female in Colorado seeking a 59 year old INFJ male.

by Guest on Sunday, June 11, 2017 - 1:32pm | in INFJ

I was widowed in 1/2014 and only began to understand that I am an INFJ that year.  In taking the quiz on this site, I am most compatible with an INFJ.


Last comment on 06/11/2017 - 1:32pm

ISFP Needs Help with Career

by Guest on Tuesday, June 6, 2017 - 5:03pm | in ISFP

Hello, I did a career test once when I was a college student. The time I took the personality test is when I was in my final year in college.  After I graduated, I wished I took the test when I started college.  It would of help me find a better degree and career path.  There were many degree choices I would of been interested in. I graduated with a BA in Geography and BS in Geology.  Now I'm...


Last comment on 06/20/2017 - 6:55pm

Oil Painting On Canvas

by globalartvision on Thursday, June 1, 2017 - 3:19pm | in ENFJ

India has an extremely long history and tradition in paintings & art. Contact us to buy devotional, Indian Art, miniature & oil painting on canvas.


Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm

INFJ going back to school at 40; need some feedback

by Guest on Tuesday, May 30, 2017 - 10:03pm | in ISFJ

I'm looking for any and all feedback on my situation and what careers/fields of study might fit best within the INFJ parameters.
In terms of the four traits I'm strongly I, N, and J but not a very strong F.  I lean more that direction in terms of being nurturing and empathetic (very!), but value logic and empirical evidence much more than most F types, in my experience.  My...


Last comment on 07/27/2017 - 8:26pm

INFJ Love Match

by Guest on Monday, May 29, 2017 - 4:03pm | in INFJ, INTJ

I'm 19 and female INTP and got an INFJ for my love match, and I feel like...'the biggest challenge in my life', that's due to the fact that INFJ is the rarest personality  if possible,I would love to chat with INFJ.


Last comment on 08/14/2018 - 3:24pm

The INTP: On Being The Coldest Human, But The Warmest Machine...

by Guest on Wednesday, May 24, 2017 - 11:16pm | in INTP

we are the coldest humans, but the WARMEST machines. but make no mistake, as an actual human being, i DESPERATELY want to utilise my Fe much more than my capability allows me. i desperately seek human connection--i just don't know how to be successful at that grand endeavor of mine to the level of success that i desire. my inability to properly read social cues is my achilles heel, i.e. not...


Last comment on 03/26/2018 - 8:30pm


by kvark on Wednesday, May 17, 2017 - 4:01pm | in ENFP

heck, does anybody know what this even means...


Last comment on 06/10/2017 - 8:38pm

How to help INFJ

by Atte on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 6:43pm | in INFJ, ENTP

My very precious friend has some problems with finding motivation and enjoying her life and I have no idea, how can I help her. I'm in similar situation as she is, but I'm ENTP and I just can't understand, why she is soo sad because for me it's nothing special... How can I help her? Any ideas, what makes INFJ soo sensitive or something what will makes me understand their point of view...? 


Last comment on 08/26/2017 - 2:10am

infj since oct 2016

by Guest on Sunday, May 14, 2017 - 8:07am | in INFJ

I understand that I´m an INFJ and got a "love match" to an INFJ. Is there anybody out there?



Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 6:22pm

ENFJ Personality Struggles

by Lee on Friday, May 12, 2017 - 3:51pm | in ENFJ

I just tested as an ENFJ twice this week.  However, I previously tested as an INTJ for many years in the past.  Recently, I have been enthusiastic about my relationship with God and Christianity.  And I am wondering if this is the reason for the personality change.  I wonder if others have had this experience of a change in personality from another type to ENFJ.  

Also, I am interested...


Last comment on 09/21/2017 - 9:52pm

what do the colors mean in truity?

by Guest on Monday, May 8, 2017 - 6:24pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

i dont know what the colors mean on truity can someone explain?



Last comment on 10/14/2017 - 7:24pm

Perfect match for an INTJ

by Guest on Friday, May 5, 2017 - 7:43pm | in INTJ

Which personality type would be a perfect match for an INTJ? Could it be more than one personality type?


Last comment on 08/19/2018 - 9:07pm

dating a ESFP

by SWaldman on Thursday, May 4, 2017 - 12:36pm | in ENFP

Im an ENFP - and I fell in love with the charisma and energy of a very spontaneous ESFP. That said, the T in me revolted and also the N. While Iloved being around him, I also found it hard to talk about all the things I love talking about, and would often wonder how we would be able to have friends in common, as a couple. As an ENFP (with some strong T), gathering people together for...


Last comment on 05/04/2017 - 12:36pm

Any ideas?

by childoftheuniverse on Monday, May 1, 2017 - 10:25pm | in INFJ

I am an INFJ who prides myself on giving people my advice. A couple weeks ago a friend came to me with a question and I gave him an honest answer. Later on that week he tells me that I ruined his relationship. It has been a while since I have spoken o him. Any idea what I should do? Any suggestions are welcome.


Last comment on 06/01/2017 - 3:19pm