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I'd like to clarify Some things about the way i see mbti

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:59am | in ENFP

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...


Last comment on 08/29/2016 - 12:59am

Help !! (: please

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:58am | in INTP

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...


Last comment on 08/29/2016 - 12:58am

Relationship epiphany at midlife

by Guest on Wednesday, August 24, 2016 - 7:04pm | in INTJ

Stumbled on this forum by chance today. I'm an INTJ woman in my early 50s and have been pondering the whole relationship thing for many days now. Was married for a while earlier in life, for all the wrong reasons, and I have chalked that up to a disaster I won't repeat. This summer I met a man who is absolutely everything I could want: we enjoy the same outdoor pursuits, have a compatible...


Last comment on 11/10/2016 - 11:30am

I Am an ESFJ!

by adrianabonilla1996 on Tuesday, August 23, 2016 - 2:08pm | in ESFJ


I am an ESFJ for a long while I've been trying to figure out my personality type. I am almost positive like 80% sure that this is who I really am. Reasons why because I noticed that as an extrovert I feel happiest expressing myself, going out of my house getting fresh air for long hours, hanging out with ny friends, and just loving those who I love. I love helping people because...


Last comment on 12/01/2016 - 2:05pm

goal setting and struggling to achieve...

by Guest on Tuesday, August 23, 2016 - 12:17am | in INFP

I'm struggling now, at age 55 with the aspects of not being "future" oriented, especially around finances. I know I have to change, and the goal setting strategies that coaches and successful entrepenuerus utilize just have no meaning for me. I'm not competitive at all, so winning challenges doesn't motivate me either.
What are or have any of you done to help put some desire or fire...


Last comment on 08/28/2016 - 7:38pm

INTP Female/ESFJ Male

by tmccarthy617 on Monday, August 22, 2016 - 7:21pm | in INTP

I'm an INTP female married to an ESFJ male. Anyone else in a relationship with these two types?


Last comment on 11/21/2017 - 4:23pm

Personality INFJ

by Guest on Monday, August 22, 2016 - 12:21pm | in INFJ

I'm an infj female. have you any recommandations for Hobbies and where i can find friends, they understand me.
I ve dissimulated me my whole life, but i dont like any more to be not the right "ego".
thanks a lot for answers.


Last comment on 08/15/2017 - 5:56pm

Split Typing INTP/INFP

by shnazyzhee on Sunday, August 21, 2016 - 9:43pm | in INTP

Alrighty. I am pretty much a dead even split between INTP and INFP. And I often find this leads to lots of conflicts of interest, and find it difficult to find anything that is right for me. I am working on a double major in Comp Sci and Philosophy, with a minor in graphic design. In my free time I perform professionally in an improv comedy troupe and I'm working on making a small web series....


Last comment on 10/27/2016 - 1:42pm

Recommended Site for INFP and other introspective types: Brainpickings

by Guest on Sunday, August 21, 2016 - 6:02am | in INFP

This is a free site but I gladly volunteer to pay a few dollars a month because I love it. But you don't have to.
It's called "An Inventory of the Meaningful Life" and they send a weekly blog post devoted topics about such things as:
--"An illustrated celebration of trailblazing women in science, Bertrand...


Last comment on 12/10/2016 - 2:27am

Ideal Match for Female INFJ?

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:56pm | in INFJ

I've read lots of different matches, to me it seems according to those my best match is either ENTP or ENFP. I'm more of a sensitive INFJ. What are your experiences and the types you seem to get along best with?


Last comment on 09/02/2016 - 3:39am

some one to talk to for the heck of it.

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:38pm | in INFJ

I am a 40 year old woman, 5'6" 182 lbs Brunet w blue eyes.
I am under the sign of Libra but was raised by a Leo.
Really made my childhood rough on that tune.
I am a mother of one child.
I love art,a wide variety of music,camping,fishing,crabbing but do not enjoy hunting, though I do enjoy rock hunting.
I am quite shy but very affectionate.
I am not looking...


Last comment on 08/31/2016 - 5:48am

My ideal love match is an INFJ male

by annienstevenson on Wednesday, August 17, 2016 - 8:23pm | in INFJ

I have had bad luck in the "love compartment" of my life and would like to explore whether, or not, I could meet someone who could actually be compatible with me without having to awkwardly start conversations with people

I mean, why not -right?

(I am a female)


Last comment on 08/20/2016 - 7:41am

Lost Identity

by adrianabonilla1996 on Monday, August 15, 2016 - 6:28pm | in ISFJ

I don't really know my identity, but I sound like a ISFJ and I am not happy about that because I don't like crafts, cooking, gardening, and I don't like watching lots of movies but I do like supporting the ones I live on the things they like to do. I want to be an INFJ because I like intimate settings, hanging out with friends, reading, writing with inspiration, cultural events, listening to...


Last comment on 11/30/2016 - 5:42pm

I married an ISTJ... Anyone else?

by Guest on Sunday, August 14, 2016 - 2:01am | in ISTJ

Okay guys, I need insight and a ton of it. My wife, whom I've been married to for almost a year, is an ISTJ. Sometimes communicating can feel almost impossible. This type seems to lack passion, drive and vision for their life altogether. I on the other hand, being an ENFP, am all about dreaming and casting vision for the future. All of this is personal opinion of course. Nobody fits inside a...


Last comment on 09/29/2016 - 3:03pm

INTJs in a relationship with INFPs

by Amylee.beck on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 - 3:13pm | in INTJ

I'm going to post this topic in both the INFP and INTJ forums.

I'm an INFP woman and recently just started dating an INTJ man. I've read mixed things regarding the success of these two personality types together in a relationship and after recently ending a long and not so joyous marriage with an ESTJ I'm cautiously selecting my next partner based on, hopefully, better compatibility....


Last comment on 12/22/2017 - 9:47pm

INFPs relationship with INTJs

by Amylee.beck on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 - 3:11pm | in INFP

I'm going to post this topic in both the INFP and INTJ forums.

I'm an INFP woman and recently just started dating an INTJ man. I've read mixed things regarding the success of these two personality types together in a relationship and after recently ending a long and not so joyous marriage with an ESTJ I'm cautiously selecting my next partner based on, hopefully, better compatibility....


Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 3:11pm


by dunkie22 on Sunday, August 7, 2016 - 11:14am | in INFP

Finding out that I am an INFP and what that actually means has really helped save my life, my sanity. I have often been depressed and even attempted suicide once. I believe that a big part of this was the numerous aspects of my personality in conflict with my reality. A combination that I have found to be very painful is my perfectionism and my sensitivity to criticism. I have always known...


Last comment on 01/04/2017 - 3:08am

Love and the Male INFJ

by INFJ1961 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 2:15pm | in INFJ

INFJ - the rarest of types.

Male INFJ's - even rarer.

Gay male INFJ's - rarer still. And my ideal match.

Now I have an answer to the question, "how is it you're still single???"


Last comment on 08/13/2017 - 5:21am

I Feel Too Much.

by dunkie22 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 3:04am | in INFP

I found out a couple of months ago that I was an INFP. It all made sense. I had asked my therapist, "Why am I like the way I am?" I have trouble being around people. I have to hide and recharge after work or doing anything around groups. I go out of my way to avoid people. And watching the news or seeing something in the paper that is about people being hurt or mean to each other "hurts...


Last comment on 11/20/2016 - 12:34am

Board games for INTPs

by jonjamesmovip on Wednesday, August 3, 2016 - 4:44pm | in INTP

Hello all!

I have semi-recently come across an incredibly enjoyable board game called "Go" in English ("Weiqi" in Chinese, "Igo" in Japanese, and "Baduk" in Korean).

I've read several posts about other INTPs getting bored and not knowing what to do with themselves. Knowing exactly what those people have been going through, I wanted to offer up this game as a suggestion to occupy...


Last comment on 01/02/2018 - 5:44pm


by Guest on Wednesday, August 3, 2016 - 3:28am | in ESTJ

Why, under "Other personality types" do you only show the other 15 types? What about the VERY SAME type that you are? Which category does that fall under? Kindred spirits, potential complements, intriguing differences, or challenging opposites (obviously not)? My husband of 22 years and I are both ESTJ and now on the brink of divorce!


Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 11:36pm

INTP gender diference

by Guest on Sunday, July 31, 2016 - 10:38am | in INTP

I am curious about INTP gender deference. I am female INTP and show different sign of what mostly describe INTPs.


Last comment on 10/15/2017 - 7:07pm

Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Sunday, July 31, 2016 - 1:27am | in INTJ not an INTJ. I don't believe that she is so all-knowing and deep thinking. She may be an ENTJ or something else, but a scientist or mastermind she is not.


Last comment on 10/18/2016 - 4:57pm

4 possible personslity types intuitive or sensor

by carlacamacho2003 on Tuesday, July 26, 2016 - 11:58pm | in INFP

Did anyone else get intuitive or sensor & 4 possible personality types?


Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 11:51pm

Do ESTP men find ENTP women attractive

by Guest on Wednesday, July 20, 2016 - 7:25pm | in ESTP


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by Guest on Monday, July 18, 2016 - 12:53am | in INFP

Do any other INFPs feel nervous when driving? I lack self confidence when operating a car, especially when I'm driving on an actual road with other cars and not just an empty parking lot. My dad told me that soon enough I'll feel like the car is my body - that I'll be able to sense where the car is effortlessly. I've been practicing for a few months and I don't feel this way. I am ill and I...


Last comment on 12/05/2016 - 10:52pm

unsure of all 4

by natenow on Saturday, July 16, 2016 - 9:15am | in INFP

anyone else get an unsure on all 4 types ?


Last comment on 07/16/2016 - 9:15am

How to deal with socializing

by Guest on Monday, July 11, 2016 - 5:22pm | in INFP

I can't remember a time that I was comfortable around other people. Besides my immediate family, I can barely talk around others, and I almost always feel awkward.

I find myself criticizing my words and actions later, and can get no relief. I want to be a genuinely friendly person, but I struggle with knowing what to say, how much to ask, how to answer, and how to act around other...


Last comment on 12/17/2017 - 11:44pm

ENTP focus problem

by Guest on Thursday, July 7, 2016 - 2:56am | in ENTP

I am an ENTP and I have severe focus problem specially when Im supposed to study. I should get ready for the CPA exams soon and I find it very difficult sticking to a plan. I study for two days after work but cannot get back to study for a week and this repeats a lot.
I get frustrated and ask myself if I should go visit a doctor or this problem is usual for other ENTP females. Id...


Last comment on 11/06/2017 - 3:31am

INFP - values vs. friendship - deleted

by jo.just on Friday, July 1, 2016 - 10:09am | in INFP



Last comment on 07/09/2016 - 11:59am

Fell in love with an ESFP

by on Thursday, June 30, 2016 - 11:24am | in ESFP

Hi everyone, INFP male here. I have a problem: I recently discovered I have a romantic interest towads an ESFP, but really have no idea how to handle the question. I would like some help, and I thought asking here was a good start :).

We know since a lot of time (4 years to be precise), but never really had any interest in knowing each other until one or two months ago, when we got to...


Last comment on 11/20/2016 - 5:25am

Thinking about Therapy - Do I have PTSD?

by tahmida.chowdhury on Wednesday, June 29, 2016 - 9:30am | in INFJ

INFJ - Female

I have a huge interest in human nature and it's the main reason I am here. I have dealt with my emotions for almost over a decade.

I feel that I have intense sadness at times. I would curl myself in a corner and let the episode pass. The normal triggers are either depressive flashbacks or I am hurt by someone. And there is a correlation with stress and thoughts...


Last comment on 07/17/2016 - 11:54pm

INTJ FAQ Question #5: How can INTJs achieve happiness in a largely banal, shallow society?

by Guest on Tuesday, June 28, 2016 - 5:45pm | in INTJ

I strongly disagree with your statement "It’s just that you need to be right. Like, all the time." Wrong - I want to be disproven so I can learn from my mistakes and to be shown where I was in error; assuming I was in error. Or at least discover another view point for consideration. I want to learn. I find myself the happiest when I'm learning; not being right all of the time. Being right all...


Last comment on 08/30/2017 - 4:40pm

INFJ's who have one or more learning disabilities

by eaglerising2 on Monday, June 27, 2016 - 10:07am | in INFJ

I am an INFJ who came into this world with three learning disabilities: dyslexia, ADHD, and bipolar one disorder. I was born in the 1940's when little was know about these learning disabilities by either the medical or educational community. Consequently, I had to figure out what was "actually" wrong with me and how to effective deal with it. I was strongly motivated to find that out because...


Last comment on 10/24/2017 - 2:46pm

insanely accurate

by godesskali on Sunday, June 26, 2016 - 6:11pm | in ESFJ

My spouse told me about this test. At first I was skeptical about it. I've taken a few of these watered down tests before and it was highly disappointed. This one was insanely accurate..not only did it gives me a better understanding of my personality but it also helped my spouse who's a ISTP understand me better.. and vice versa. I've already recommended this to my friends and family. I've...


Last comment on 07/13/2016 - 8:04am

Which am I

by career4linda on Saturday, June 25, 2016 - 4:12am | in INFP

I took three different tests and the results say I am an INFP. I fit the description but I seem to fit the description for INFJ as well. The two seem quite similar. I am a very disorganized person but I prefer order and used to be able to achieve it when I younger. The percentages are close. INFP 64% INFJ 59% What do you think?


Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:01am

Career change for 48yr old

by Guest on Friday, June 24, 2016 - 7:13pm | in INFP

I am an accountant. I like working with numbers and generally like the work. I often find mistakes later in my work, correctible but it should be right the first time. I have found I don't like working for others all that well. I have thought about striking out on my own for the past 20 years but fear of failure and history of errors though minor, hold me back. I am smart but often feel...


Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:43pm


by virella28 on Monday, June 20, 2016 - 11:47pm | in ESTJ

Anybody ever get perceived as only doing things that make them look important or people thinking that you are trying to show them up?


Last comment on 06/21/2016 - 3:29am

Why is it that there are more female INFPs?

by animefreak6 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 11:12pm | in INFP

When I opened up the email from this site about the mailing list it brought up a graph showing INFP Male and Female demographics. Apparently males are outnumbered 22-78, while this isn't a bad thing at all and in fact makes me feel more like a special little snowflake, it's something I find interesting.
I've found online many INFP males struggle with a sense of masculinity that I myself...


Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 12:21am

A job that will bring a meaning to my life

by linouchi19 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 2:49pm | in INFP

Hey I'm a 16 years old teenager girl and I recognize myself in every world said in this website. I'm looking for my path but I know that if I don't choose well my job, I'll never be happy in my hole life so I was asking myself what kind of job fits with INFPs? I don't see myself self as engineer in 20 years, I know I won't be happy this way, I need to do something that will bring a meaning to...


Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:59pm

Next step, action

by pjsimonis on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 2:41pm | in ISFP

It is nice to know that there's loads of people with similar personality, most probably similar ups and downs and frustrations and Joy's than me. Nice to be able to talk to people who understand better. I'm really more interested in the action side of you'll though. What is it that you are actually doing work wise. Do you hate it, love it, loath it, jump up and down about it, sing about it in...


Last comment on 08/25/2016 - 2:13pm

Does anyone else have a "quest for justice" that gets them in trouble?

by Guest on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 1:30pm | in INFJ

Hi, I have scored consistently INFJ for a number of years. I have always had this thing about "injustice" my entire life. When my parents told me that there was no Santa Claus I was so incensed that I told every kid in the neighborhood. Some kids tied me to a tree and threw rocks at me. Fortunately, a neighbor rescued me. Another story - My grandfather had a cabin on fiver where we vacationed...


Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:14am

Who s the murder?

by Guest on Friday, June 17, 2016 - 2:25pm | in INFJ

"The Locker Room Murder" by Stan Smith

The air was crisp that Sunday afternoon in late autumn.
The Mountdale College stadium was almost deserted. That week's game between the Rosinton Ravens and the Dryden Warriors, two semi-professional women's soccer teams, was not scheduled to start for another two hours.

The killer, however, had slipped in early and was waiting in the...


Last comment on 07/25/2016 - 12:01am

Empty forum

by jamesacarstens on Wednesday, June 15, 2016 - 6:14pm | in ISTP

It's like a ghost town; latest comment was last year. I was looking forward to talking with someone like me. Anyone here?


Last comment on 08/02/2016 - 3:03am


by Guest on Monday, June 13, 2016 - 9:03pm | in INFP

Ok so after working since I was 17, everything from CADD & design work, to freelance work, to the very depressing & draining customer service work, I have finally discovered that I need a total career change. Now at 46 years old I find myself looking for a job (again) and it's both terrifying and exciting. But now that I know 'why' I hated going to my job every day, I'm wondering...


Last comment on 06/24/2016 - 7:40pm

Infographic for INFJ

by Guest on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 6:41pm | in INFJ

I found a very useful infographic for ENFP and ISTJ on Pinterest, linked to this site. Does anybody know if there is one for INFJ?


Last comment on 08/05/2016 - 3:56pm

I have just discovered Im INFP

by Guest on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 2:19pm | in INFP

My core concern is to find out what is the ideal job for me, after 3 years going to a psychoanalyst i am now granted to experience different issues to find out what should I turn to. I am 38, and would like to change my life toward flourishing


Last comment on 08/04/2016 - 2:54am

Career types for ISFJ types.

by gavi.n on Friday, June 10, 2016 - 12:26am | in ISFJ

Besides the careers already listed, what are other careers that ISFJ's are doing that make them happy? I was personally pursing teaching as my career but for some strange reason I feel like it's not right. Now I am considering school psychologist, but how compatible am I? I'm so lost. What is everyone's opinion on this?


Last comment on 04/20/2017 - 1:27am

Multiple personality results

by shirleysolderer on Monday, June 6, 2016 - 5:10pm | in INTJ

I really do not know what personality type this about!!

I know someone (a man) who took the test and the result was very confusing and somewhat concerning. He has 8 different personality types to choose from. Does anyone know why this would happen?????

He said he took the test seriously and was not joking around.

I would really appreciate some answers. Thank you.


Last comment on 02/06/2017 - 8:49pm

Huge problem with the classifications

by kennhinds on Sunday, June 5, 2016 - 8:29am | in INTP

I hope that this doesn't come off wrong, and also hope that you read with an open mind. Correct me if I am wrong, but isnt' our strongest trait as an INTP, Being logical??? Questioning?? Not excepting the answer if you have questions about it??? I am new to this site, and even more new to this personality type thing. This is where and what me must think about. I know I am an INTP, i don'...


Last comment on 07/01/2016 - 8:24am

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