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by PassionFruitK on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 8:46pm | in INTJ



Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:23pm

Letting go

by Guest on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 4:54pm | in ENFJ

What if after trying her best to regain harmony, ENFJ has to give up on a person? It certainly is the worst feeling as this type puts her ideals into action and don't give up on people. How to deal when you have finally come to this point of sadness and hopelessness about a relationship?


Last comment on 11/26/2017 - 11:02pm

Outcast INFJs

by Jemima on Thursday, July 20, 2017 - 4:03am | in INFJ

FYI-  I am in my last year of highschool. I am female. I have 3 super best friends I have known since I was very young, but they don't go to my school. I do want to make new close friends.. but I feel as though I have particular needs and standards with people that often aren't met.

When meeting someone new as an INFJ, I can often immediatley predict where the...


Last comment on 11/08/2017 - 6:47am

Is it not the most liberating feeling to find out your personality type and to realize that there's nothing wrong with you?

by Guest on Friday, July 7, 2017 - 2:45am | in INFJ

For years and years and years I thought I was on another planet. I now know that there are more out there, and it's the most satisfying and liberating feeling. Wish I'd come across this sooner!


Last comment on 02/07/2018 - 4:54am

Do people of the same personality type usually get along?

by Ash10422 on Thursday, July 6, 2017 - 3:19am | in



Last comment on 07/28/2017 - 4:33am

INFP dating a ENTP boyfriend..

by Guest on Tuesday, July 4, 2017 - 6:33am | in INFP, ENTP

Many similar questions may have been discussed on the forum before but I just feel the need to post mine regardless..

I have been dating with my ENTP boyfriend for half year - I know not typically long. We pretty much have been staying together in the same flat for most of the time with no problems at all. Two months ago he told me he has to move to a big city soon for his new career...


Last comment on 10/08/2017 - 8:42pm

ENTJ: Do They Need To Be In Charge?

by Guest on Monday, July 3, 2017 - 1:22am | in ENTJ

So I happen to know an ENTJ (I know him very well, actually) who is pretty much everything I've heard about them, the tendency toward leadership and management, the ambition, the utter frustration that encompasses him whenever he's saying something and no one is listening... There's more, I can't even remember it all. The point is, I think that most ENTJs out there could understand him pretty...


Last comment on 10/11/2017 - 9:20pm

Depression and INTJ

by Guest on Saturday, July 1, 2017 - 2:37am | in INTJ

Hey all...

32 year old female INTJ.  Diagnosed with Major Depression Disorder, and I feel trapped in my head constantly.  Not a big people person and I feel as if I'm a cynic about everything. Do these feelings ever go away? I'm constantly searching for meaning in life, and can't stand American society and the monotony of every day. I'm bored constantly. Is this normal for us, or am I...


Last comment on 03/22/2018 - 3:31pm

Falling in love- the WORST thing that can happen to an INTJ

by Guest on Thursday, June 29, 2017 - 7:42pm | in INTJ

Everything was right, as expected. I was on the path of achieving my goals, my plan was excellent (as always). Boom! Love happened. Saw this girl plenty of times and from her looks i could sense that she liked me. But she was playing the coquette (those who read the art of seduction will understand better). I knew i was fucked, i continued to go thru my plan for a few more weeks but eventually...


Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:35pm

Senior INTPs?

by SpiritBear on Thursday, June 29, 2017 - 5:55pm | in INTP

Just wondering if there are any other older personality type fans on this particular site? I suspect the mean age here to be fairly young. I am 64 and would be interested to know if anyone else is grey and aged? :)


Last comment on 12/24/2017 - 6:08am

Career crossroad - life major decision

by Guest on Saturday, June 24, 2017 - 9:32am | in ENTJ


I feel very happy that i have the chance to share my thoughts to you. Most of the time i feel that i talk only to the wall because the majority of my friends do not understand me.

I am an entepreneur, married with a wonderfull wife and a small son. They are my life. But i make them feel ok, close to me, if only my job is going well. I am a workaholic person striving to do...


Last comment on 06/24/2017 - 9:32am

INFJ, All the Way. Hello my fellow INFJ'ers :-)

by Going the Distance on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 6:14am | in INFJ

Hi Everyone, 

Just came across this site and love it. I've been taking the Myers-Briggs test for many years, and it always comes back to me as INFJ. 

 I find this comfortably reassuring, and it explains so much about my personality and how I think and act. 

Professionally, I'm a youth worker, trainer and Life Coach, and I also write, so very alligend with the preferred/...


Last comment on 07/01/2017 - 10:35pm

To ENFP or to INFP?

by Hamlet722 on Friday, June 23, 2017 - 12:04am | in INFP, ENFP

Greetings and salutations,

I've been familiarizing myself with MBTI for over a year now, and I've consistently struggled with whether I am ENFP or INFP.

Nearly every time I take the test, I am ENFP. However, when interacting with other ENFPs or researching ENFP characters, I find myself under the uncomfortable difficulty that comes with trying to find one I can truly relate to. I...


Last comment on 02/04/2018 - 12:56am

INTJ with ISFJ... Do you guys think that this could be a good match? (I'm really confused!)

by Guest on Thursday, June 22, 2017 - 12:55am | in INTJ, ISFJ

I'm a ISFJ male and I'm starting to like a INTJ female... She's kinda giving me more freedom than normal, like little touches (hugs, touches in the arm etc). She makes me feel really comfortable around her. When I'm around her... I really feel that she likes me, but she seems to be holding back, and when I try texting her, it seems that she doesn't have interest. Like, I see her online, but...


Last comment on 04/15/2018 - 2:44pm

what is the best personality for a spouse to have with someone who is an ESFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, June 21, 2017 - 11:28pm | in ESFJ

see subject



Last comment on 06/23/2017 - 12:17am

"Buffering" as you talk

by Guest on Thursday, June 15, 2017 - 6:02am | in INFJ

So I know I'm not the best at telling stories (even though I'd like to think I am). I skip over important parts, leave out detail, go over TOO much detail, etc. I know that sometimes when I get overly excited telling a story, I have to pause more or actually think about what I'm going to say rather than just saying it because I'm thinking faster than I'm talking or I'm telling part of the...


Last comment on 02/16/2018 - 10:39pm

What's one INFJ issue you wish you could solve for good?

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 8:15pm | in INFJ

For me, it's probably perfectionism. I've worked on it a lot in recent years, but I still notice perfectionist tendencies creeping up when I'm working on various projects. I've met quite a few other INFJs online recently and know that most of us (especially women) deal with perfectionism, or have at some point in our lives.

I love learning about the similarities (and differences!)...


Last comment on 12/15/2017 - 9:57pm

Specific emotional complexity issues.

by Guest on Tuesday, June 13, 2017 - 4:04am | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP, ENTJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ

So, I have a (personality quirk?), I'm not sure what to call it to be honest. I experience one emotion much more complexly than the others. I'm aware most people have a very (shallow?) depth to the pools of their own emotions in totality. And this is even more true for me in all cases but one. Anger. I personally think that everyone has two to three " levels" of each emotion, and of most of...


Last comment on 12/16/2017 - 9:31pm

A 59 year old INFJ female in Colorado seeking a 59 year old INFJ male.

by Guest on Sunday, June 11, 2017 - 1:32pm | in INFJ

I was widowed in 1/2014 and only began to understand that I am an INFJ that year.  In taking the quiz on this site, I am most compatible with an INFJ.


Last comment on 06/11/2017 - 1:32pm

ISFP Needs Help with Career

by Guest on Tuesday, June 6, 2017 - 5:03pm | in ISFP

Hello, I did a career test once when I was a college student. The time I took the personality test is when I was in my final year in college.  After I graduated, I wished I took the test when I started college.  It would of help me find a better degree and career path.  There were many degree choices I would of been interested in. I graduated with a BA in Geography and BS in Geology.  Now I'm...


Last comment on 06/20/2017 - 6:55pm

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