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I am not like Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 9:29pm | in INTJ


Iam not like Hillary Clinton.

She has low standards and no sense of morality or ethics

I have high standards and a sense of morality and I have eithics


Last comment on 03/19/2018 - 3:51am

INTJ Friendship/Romance

by Guest on Friday, January 26, 2018 - 4:24pm | in INTJ

Is it possible for an INTJ male to have a deep connection with someone, to the point of being able to know her thoughts and complete her sentences, but be able to walk away and not stay in touch? To disappear from her life completely as if he never existed? I know time heals everything, but I am haunted....Not a day goes by....


Last comment on 03/01/2018 - 3:56pm

ENTJ woman -Being blunt holding back career

by Guest on Wednesday, January 24, 2018 - 6:26am | in ENTJ

hi I recently received feedback in my review that I am too blunt/direct and that I should use 5 words when I want to use 2. I also had an internal interview feedback which was excellent with the exception that I asked the interviewer to repeat the question in a blunt way??? Although I understand the need to deliver a message with both honesty and emotional integrity for others I am struggling...


Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 8:26am

INTJ ready to debate!

by Elrond Half-Elven on Monday, January 22, 2018 - 5:37pm | in INTJ

Just let me know, I’m ready to engage anyone in a intellectual debate!


Last comment on 03/11/2018 - 10:01pm

Diseased movie

by LockheedSR71 on Saturday, January 20, 2018 - 8:33pm | in INTJ, INTP

Did anyone watch "The holy mountain"?


Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:33pm

INTJ man - issues with dating/intimacy

by lovewand on Saturday, January 6, 2018 - 1:58am | in INTJ

Hello folks, I'm a 25 yrs INTJ trying to find some light in this existence. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. I am at my ''best moment'' of my life (Financially independent, living in paradise, healthy, etc.. too subjective, but it will help to understand) However I have to hardly force myself to feel happy/grateful. Thinking by myself, it makes me wonder that...


Last comment on 02/09/2018 - 2:02pm

How can I just pick one thing?

by Guest on Friday, January 5, 2018 - 1:12am | in INFP

I'm a college student and have changed my major more times than I could count. I think I have an overall issue with just deciding to do "one" thing. And I understand that a degree doesn't define you and that plenty of people don't do work in the field of the degree that they pursued (mine is sociology - for now), but it's a deeper seeded issue. I don't want to be "glued down" to one job or one...


Last comment on 03/17/2018 - 8:44pm


by Guest on Tuesday, January 2, 2018 - 5:13am | in INTJ

INTJ's version of Netflix and chill ..
Deep, intellectual, intelligent debate and mind stimulating conversation?

Really though, serious inquiry lol - if anyone would like to be destroyed by an extremely intelligent female debating virtually any topic you'd like to, I'm dying for some good conversation. And you won't be disappointed, I can promise you that.


Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:05pm

ENFP, INFP, INFJ Friendships

by FeralDreamer on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 2:53pm | in INFJ, INFP, ENFP

I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs and ENFPs everywhere but it seems no matter how hard I try to get them to understand or see anything from my point of view, they reject it and treat me like an imbecile. I don't know of any INFPs that I can befriend or what to do at all most of the time considering even the people that are supposed to be most similar to me don't understand. I think taking that...


Last comment on 03/04/2018 - 1:58am


by mark esparza on Saturday, December 30, 2017 - 10:48am | in INTP

do any other intp's feel like they are in prison.


Last comment on 03/16/2018 - 7:55pm

ESTP Struggles with "Morality"

by Guest on Wednesday, December 27, 2017 - 10:06pm | in ESTP

Hi everybody.

I'm an ESTP. We're supposed to be pragmatic, tactical, and effective at getting things moving. But something keeps bogging me down: I endlessly worry about whether what I'm doing is 'moral' or not. I put it in quotes because I already know what I'm going to do is perfectly moral: but I'm perpetually dogged by the feeling I'm doing something wrong. I always feel like I need...


Last comment on 02/07/2018 - 6:31am


by mark esparza on Thursday, December 21, 2017 - 8:18am | in INTP


     Is it just me, or do other people here have trouble making a point in conversations. It is as if people go out of their way to misunderstand me. Even worse, no matter how many times I say I am no smarter then anyone else, I am told that I think I am smart and everyone else is stupid. Sometimes I say people are retarded to make a point, but I dont feel that way and make sure to...


Last comment on 01/25/2018 - 9:46pm

Any Dyslexic ENTJs like me out there?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 20, 2017 - 7:04pm | in ENTJ

Just wondering because I feel like the only one!  I'm also a women, ...but there's got to be some one else like me somewhere ?



Last comment on 12/27/2017 - 7:58pm

Just took the test!

by Guest on Wednesday, December 20, 2017 - 5:38am | in INFJ

As I have come to find out, I don't typically like sharing personal things with people unless they are in my very small circle. However, I saw a video on YouTube and got intrigued so I took the assessment and it said I was an infj. Immediately i watched more videos and read up on what that meant. And I just have to say, for me it made me instantly feel....... Lighter! For a long time I felt...


Last comment on 03/03/2018 - 5:37pm

spending habits

by Guest on Sunday, December 17, 2017 - 11:48pm | in INFP

Has anyone else got bad spending habits?? i always spend to the last penny and cant save im getting worried for the future. if i earn more i spend more any advise?


Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 7:15am


by mark esparza on Sunday, December 17, 2017 - 8:03am | in INTP

can having PTSD develope the personality intp?


Last comment on 01/04/2018 - 5:07am


by Guest on Saturday, December 16, 2017 - 7:49am | in INTP

Can PTSD create an INTP personality?



Last comment on 03/08/2018 - 2:11pm

Am I the only one?

by Guest on Thursday, December 14, 2017 - 2:19pm | in INTJ

I am a highly intelligent 21 year old male INTJ and have started to wish sometimes that I was hit on the head with a rock when I was younger.

 I am often highly misunderstood and have begun building an exterior conformist image because people just don't get me. I excel at my work but am excluded from the team. I have some solid friends spread over the country but now that I am older and...


Last comment on 02/19/2018 - 7:15pm

INFJ the Rarest of the personality types, is it true???

by Guest on Wednesday, December 13, 2017 - 6:08am | in INFJ

How did the 1%, number come about? Who counted those with the infj personality type as only one percent of the population, and how was this calculation brought about ?  Have  subsequent calculations been formed to account for population growth,  or is it just a theory to make us INFJs feel good? 


Last comment on 01/23/2018 - 1:24pm

Language to persuade ENTJ(Commander Personality Type) children

by Devendran K. Shanmuganathan on Monday, December 11, 2017 - 2:34pm | in ENTJ

What are the specific English words, phrases and language patterns that can be used by a teacher or parent to persuade ENTJ children?


Last comment on 01/03/2018 - 7:14am

How to stand up for myself

by N.F. on Sunday, December 10, 2017 - 11:24pm | in INFP

Hi there!

I am an INFP and 17 years old. My parents are really great and all but they're the type of people that don't take no are difference of opinion very well. They've been pushing me to get out in the world but also wanting me to stay close to home. My family is great aswell but...basically, they don't like my own personality but when i pretend they want me to be "real...


Last comment on 03/08/2018 - 12:32am

I'm an ESTJ and need help seeking a career that I will love...

by Guest on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 4:44pm | in ESTJ

Not sure really where to start.

I'm trying to find my niche, people have told me to take the Myers Briggs Personality test and I am 100% an ESTJ, not sure where I should go from there. The career lists on Truity say's :


Last comment on 12/09/2017 - 6:18am

What do you do when you want to do it all?

by mindful.l on Wednesday, December 6, 2017 - 3:54am | in INFP, ENFP, INTP, ENTP

I'm 35 years old and having trouble finding a career that will suit my personality type. I do not see myself working in one field, but working in many. Is there such a career?

You May Be an Introvert or an Extravert

You are an Intuitive

You May Be a Feeler or a Thinker

You Are a Perceiver

I have notebooks full of ideas but cannot get them from pen to reality...


Last comment on 03/15/2018 - 2:25pm

ESTJ personality advice

by Guest on Tuesday, December 5, 2017 - 4:04pm | in ESTJ

What kind of avice can I give to my co-workers to better understand me and help to work with me?



Last comment on 12/05/2017 - 5:33pm

INFP- Shout out to my other INFP partners

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 3:39pm | in INFP

Hi my fellow infp friends,

I m at this point in life where I dont understand what career to choose and have problems confinding to anyone, from this post I hope to reach out to others having such troubles so we can talk and know each others story and feel better to make a decision ourselves. 

I will start-

I am a 23 years old female from India. Currently in USA, in not the...


Last comment on 03/08/2018 - 12:36am

intj guy

by Guest on Thursday, November 30, 2017 - 4:31am | in INTJ

im really bored and would appriciate someone to talk to. i dont really care who


Last comment on 01/20/2018 - 8:17pm

ENTP vs. The SJ Wall

by Guest on Wednesday, November 29, 2017 - 11:44pm | in ENTP

I'm an ENTP, and an emergency dispatcher. I've been doing it for about two years now, and recently, (after transferring to full police dispatching but not being a 9-1-1 dispatcher), I pretty much hate it. The crux of my problem is that I believe fields like Emergency Management desperately need deep thinkers, perceivers, and NT types especially. Not only this, but if I stay with my current...


Last comment on 12/05/2017 - 5:26pm

ENFP Searching for Help with ENTP Partner

by Guest on Wednesday, November 29, 2017 - 7:31pm | in ENFP, ENTP

Hello there.

I am an ENFP female, seeking advice about my ENTP fiance. I am simply trying to better my understanding of him and the way he ticks.


When my fiance is angry, he is most defidently angry. He lashes out and explodes, espicailly when he is stressed. When he is angry, he exploded. He often uses my insecurities or knowledge of personal...


Last comment on 02/22/2018 - 11:59pm

Holland Code Assessment

by Katherine Swain on Wednesday, November 29, 2017 - 3:17pm | in

Why doesn't Truity provide an actual Holland Code with the Holland Code assessment? The associated words ("Helper", "Thinker", etc) are useful, but in the end, I still don't know my Holland Code. Providing an actual RIASEC code would allow me to connect talk to the people in the Career Center about my result and connect to relevant occupational information on government websites.


Last comment on 11/29/2017 - 4:54pm

INTJ girl

by Guest on Friday, November 24, 2017 - 3:10pm | in INTJ

I'm an INTJ woman (19 years old) and i have always felt so different from everyone else (other girls especially) and sometimes it bothers me but usually i don't mind at all. I have just recently found out i'm an INTJ and just the fact that there are other girls out there , just like me makes me so happy and proud to be a rare type. My boyfiend is an ENFP and he is my best friend and soulmate,...


Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 1:49am

Is Law a fulfilling career for an INFJ?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 12:47pm | in INFJ

Does the law profession makes an INFJ happy, fulfilled?

Does it suit the type and does it emcompasses the strengths, abilities of an INFJ?


Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 7:32am

Where to find INTJ guy?

by Guest on Thursday, November 23, 2017 - 5:31am | in INTJ, ENTP

Ok so obviosuly there's no tried and true way or place to find an INTJ, but I'm so irked by the idea that it's the only personality type I can be in a successful relationship with! Especially being the rarest type.. My last boyfriend was an INTJ, and our connection was nothing short of a fantasy for years. We didn't work out for reasons I've only recently come to understand. But he's long gone...


Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:15pm

Career Crossroads

by Guest on Monday, November 20, 2017 - 2:46am | in INFP


I am one of the approxiamately 1% of males in the United States who is INFP.  Along with that I am a "cancer" and to top it off I also am gay.  I didn't find out my personality type until 7 years ago, and yesterday took the MBTI yesterday and it came out with the same result.  I recently retired from my full-time good paying job.  I want to work again, but not sure if anything...


Last comment on 03/18/2018 - 7:46pm

ENTP Looking to Pick a Major

by Guest on Saturday, November 18, 2017 - 12:25am | in

Hello everyone,

I’m a senior in high school and my personality type is ENTP. I will likely begin college this summer and I am a bit conflicted regarding which major to choose. I should start by saying that I lean more towards the verbal/grammatical side of things than towards mathematics. On my SAT, I scored a 740 on reading and a 670 on math. While I recognize that my strengths are...


Last comment on 11/18/2017 - 12:25am

Wrongly considered cold

by Guest on Friday, November 17, 2017 - 11:49pm | in ISTJ

I have been called cold by a number of people over the years. I am not, and just see things from a slightly different perspective toward relationships and people. I have read a lot about ISTJs being in positons of authority such as Bank Manager or Police Officer. I do not fall into that line of thinking. I guess i'm somewhat the opposite of that, not wanting to be in those positions. Instead I...


Last comment on 11/17/2017 - 11:49pm

Entertainment Biz or Health Industry

by Guest on Thursday, November 16, 2017 - 12:03pm | in ENFJ

Hello, I am an ENFJ to the core and the description is scary how much it matches me. I have been bursuing a career in the ent biz for over 20 years. I have had bits of sucess in  acting, dancing, clowning, producing, directing. I am so sick of being broke and I have this ache inside me to be bigger than where I am at as I so resonate with the whole Oprah is an ENFJ too. I built a building, I'...


Last comment on 01/16/2018 - 8:41pm

Pizzagate from an INTJ perspective

by Guest on Tuesday, November 14, 2017 - 4:54am | in INTJ

I'm curious to know other INTJs perspective on pizzagate! 


Last comment on 12/01/2017 - 2:10am

Cool !

by Nazim Danil on Monday, November 13, 2017 - 10:21am | in INFP

Hey guys ! im new here so i recently found out that i am an INFP-T nice to meet you guys :)


Last comment on 11/13/2017 - 10:21am

TheRealAnnoKano has arrived...

by TheRealAnnoKano on Thursday, November 9, 2017 - 8:23pm | in ENTJ

You have all probably heard of Annokano; a pious disciple of the fields of politics, matheamtics, philosophy and sociology.  A super genius.   Well, that's me.   I pride myself as an ENTJ.   Top leader, really.  Bit of a God tbh...


Anyway, I'm real, and I'm AnnoKano - what more could you ask for?


Real A-nno-Ka-no-oh!  *smirk*


Last comment on 01/25/2018 - 7:14pm

ENTP Male teen finding it hard to cope with emotions.

by Guest on Tuesday, November 7, 2017 - 11:56pm | in ENTP

A lot of shit has been going on these past few years. (I'm 16,5)

Things seem to constantly be changing pace back and fourth. One second a friend is trying to kill herself, then suddenly my entire friend group groups up and starts attacking me, and I get ejected out of the entire thing. Friends get depressed, one friend gets raped, friends are having trouble staying friends with each...


Last comment on 02/03/2018 - 1:13am


by Guest on Thursday, November 2, 2017 - 7:56pm | in INTP, ENTP

I am trying to learn more about us fence straddling I/E NTP types.  My NTP scores were very high, but my E is extremely low so I appear to swerve in and out of each type, or, more precicsely, I tend toward s being an INTP that likes to debate or an ENTP that prefers to spend time solving complex problems. Is there any information available that explores this duality?


Last comment on 02/15/2018 - 5:01am

I'm dreaming of finding the INFJ guy who looking for this happy, quirky, kind INTP woman. I'm 64 years into the journey ......Peace, Andrea

by Kind Strength on Saturday, October 28, 2017 - 5:17am | in INFJ, INTP

My I N and P are very strong.  my T and F very marginal difference. I agree with the sites match personality because I know from past love that INFJ is SOOOO the match for me. so I'm going for the long shot that the one infj that might be searching for me too wil see this.  Relationship is such a wonderful thing- I gotta try. Peace, Andrea


Last comment on 01/08/2018 - 1:51am


by Lakisha Jackson on Thursday, October 26, 2017 - 1:15am | in

Everything that my personality says about me are true. I don't try to make friends, I am distant from others, independent person I don't like no one to do for me or give me anything and I am only comfortable around people I know. My scores were Openness low 55% Conscientious moderate 65% Extraversion low 43% Agreeableness low 50% Neutroricism moderate 50%. It feels weid doing the test and it...


Last comment on 10/26/2017 - 1:15am

Big 5

by Michelle Wages on Wednesday, October 25, 2017 - 12:14pm | in ENFJ

I am a student at Halifax Community College and my instructor asked us to take the personality test.  So I took it and it said I was ESFJ and they could not be more correct.  I know all of people that knows me would say that they hit the nail on the head.  But that is just how I was brought up.  My parents would be proud.

I am a very caring person, I love to make people happy when they...


Last comment on 10/25/2017 - 12:14pm

Career Confusion INFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, October 25, 2017 - 11:52am | in INFJ

So I recently took the personality test and found out I'm an INFJ-T (Literally changed my whole world when I read the results). 

According to the outcome: I am 59% Introverted, 64% Intuitive, 58% Feeling, 69% Judging, 62% Turbulent

I'm in my final year of University and I'm studying Fashion (On the business/management side) so no physical design and patternmaking. I love fashion...


Last comment on 02/14/2018 - 4:20pm

They say infps have vivid imaginations and live within their core values but how do I live with hardly any.

by Guest on Tuesday, October 24, 2017 - 10:19pm | in INFP

I’m an infp college student studying animation and illustration and honestly i’ve lost all inspiration, self identity, I’m doubting the path I’m taking - and yet I can’t see myself doing much else. 

I used to be so imaginative before I started my “journey to self-improvement” a few years ago. When ever I got anxious, I could escape in whatever fantasy I could sprout out of nowhere or...


Last comment on 12/25/2017 - 12:59pm


by Guest on Monday, October 23, 2017 - 9:17pm | in ENTJ

Hello there!I just did the test about myself as a personality and found out that I am 100% an ENTJ. All the characteristical features typically matched me.Are there many women like me? I am trying to figure out what kind of a new career to start? Have no idea yet,cannot choose.Any suggestions? At the moment I work as a teacher but I am sick and tired of the disorganization and rule violation...


Last comment on 02/26/2018 - 8:34am

How I figured it out

by Johanna on Tuesday, October 17, 2017 - 3:38pm | in ENFP

I've taken the Myers-Briggs and the Keirsey assessments several times over the years and came up three different types all ending in J. Sometimes I was an introvert, sometimes an extrovert. This frustrated me. What am I? Then one day after realizing that I am the total opposite of my husband, a solid ISTJ, I decided to look up the description of an ENFP. BINGO!!

My problem in taking the...


Last comment on 11/22/2017 - 4:50pm

Am I a real ENFJ?

by Guest on Sunday, October 15, 2017 - 6:24am | in INFJ, ENFJ, INTJ, ENTJ

Hello there, folks!

It's been quite some time since I got interested in typology and personality types. The first test I took was the's Neris type explorer and the result I got was INFJ. Since then, in a period of three years, I've tested as INTJ, ENTJ and ENFJ.

The test results switch from I to E has probably had to do with me getting more confidence and...


Last comment on 02/27/2018 - 2:20pm


by Guest on Friday, October 13, 2017 - 3:39am | in ENTJ

I'm ENTJ and I just love being myself:) I don't think I would be happy to be anything else. Does that sound arrogant? I don't think so, I'm just being honest. 


Last comment on 10/15/2017 - 9:18pm

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