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An INFJ - INFJ relationship

by wikawldgrl25 on Monday, June 24, 2019 - 9:47am | in INFJ

I am an INFJ in a relationship with another INFJ. I have been researching about a relationship between two INFJ's and apparently no one has actually came across a couple like he and I. And so, I am having some issues with the research because it is basically quessing and I am trying to find actual people who had or are in an INFJ\INFJ relationship. If anyone can help at any way possilble it...


Last comment on 07/18/2019 - 6:02pm

need advice

by guest on Saturday, June 1, 2019 - 11:52pm | in INTJ

I am an intern and am extremely uncomfortable with having my photo taken for the company website. I missed the chance to let my boss know this and he expects that I will join the staff to take photos. He has carefully planned a day for when everyone (firm of 12) will be in the office (all interns and new staff hires). In the past my boss has mentioned my shyness/quietness as a flaw so I have...


Last comment on 07/26/2019 - 6:13pm

INTJ doesn't and does want to date?

by Inbox on Saturday, June 1, 2019 - 4:58pm | in INTJ, ENTJ

Long story short, I fell in love with an INTJ female in our grad program (I'm an ENTJ) - she basically only wants to sleep with me, and verbally stated that "I'm not looking to date." It hurt like hell, but I came to accept that she's not looking to date ME. To be fair, she just got out of a marriage/relationship that lasted 5 - 10 years, has 2 kids with the guy, and her former man cheated on...


Last comment on 07/25/2019 - 11:11pm

Why do I dislike everyone around me? (INTJ female)

by QUEEN on Sunday, May 12, 2019 - 5:11am | in INTJ

I'm still in school, and I feel like everyone around me has no thought proccess, they just do the first thing that comes to their minds. Is this really the case? I have no idea. They all act like idiots, all the time. It makes me so angry that they won't just shut up. They have to values, no morals, it seems like they're all just zombies, teachers and students alike. When I start to talk about...


Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 5:46pm

INTJ and INTP relationship?

by DrWho999 on Saturday, March 30, 2019 - 1:26pm | in

Is it possible? what are the pitfalls one should look out for? I'm the INTJ.


Last comment on 03/30/2019 - 1:26pm

I need to care for others, but am I caring for myself?

by Guest on Tuesday, March 19, 2019 - 4:38am | in ISFJ

I'm a 15 year old ISFJ, and when I found out the characteristics about them I was pretty amazed to see what kind of people ISFJ's are. Honestly, I think being reliable and helping the needs of others are some of the best characteristics a good person has, and that's who I want to be. ISFJ's are also humble and don't want attention, which is exactly who I am. I do want to have many friends, but...


Last comment on 03/19/2019 - 4:38am


by Jaimepois on Wednesday, March 13, 2019 - 3:48pm | in ENTP

I’m really interested to know how many ENTPs also have ADHD. They seem to go hand-in-hand: short, intense attention spans, distractibility, hyperfocus, poor self-discipline, impulsivity, resourcefulness, out of the box creativity, brains working at hyperspeed. Thoughts?


Last comment on 09/01/2019 - 4:04am

Career path struggles

by elchmiah on Saturday, March 9, 2019 - 12:17pm | in INFP

Does anyone of you out there wanted to change a career all of the sudden? Because if you’re going to ask me it’s a yes. Im a reference librarian 23 yo and currently taking up a masters degree. I haven’t finish my post grad yet in the middle of studying I found mself draining, daydreaming, thinking of something that i could be productive.

but i really need help as of the moment. When ...


Last comment on 05/28/2019 - 12:58am

Help Me With My School/College Decision Please??.

by Shine-Shine on Monday, February 25, 2019 - 6:17pm | in INFP

I I'm an infp-t im currently 18 , turning 19 in May. I'm in Spring Semester of College and I came to ask.

"Is it only me who hates school?."


This morning I said I really hate school. And my mom then said "well you'll really hate life". 

Honestly I'm not her,she always think of worse case scenario with me when I say a degree doesn't matter...


Last comment on 05/13/2019 - 7:05pm

Anybody want to join a discord

by Entp666999 on Sunday, February 24, 2019 - 4:55am | in INFJ, INTP, ENTP

Sorry for bad post but were looking to make a discord, merely for fun and discusion

Entps intps infjs


Last comment on 05/17/2019 - 1:28am

Should I propose to my INTJ male? HELP ASAP!!!!

by ENFP_Female on Tuesday, February 19, 2019 - 11:58am | in ENFP, INTJ

I am an ENFP female. My guy  ( not yet) is an INTJ. We both are typical. He is younger than 25.  We are basically the same age. My guy is EXTREMELY comfortable around me. I am , apparently, his comfort person. I love him dearly. And I know for a fact that he loves me and cares about me. However, he always mentions how there is a possibility of him meeting other girls. I am so scared that we...


Last comment on 07/21/2019 - 4:03am

What to do When Lack Freedom Threatens a Mental Breakdown (INTJ)

by Thuna on Tuesday, December 25, 2018 - 10:56pm | in INTJ

I am a 15 yo INTJ (I believe), and while I realize that it is too early to be sure, I believe I have set my thought process properly and actually am an INTJ. For the past year however, with me starting to go to a 'good' school, I have felt that the system is not only lacking but also selfish (I live in Turkey, 8/5 school and extra 26 hours a week lessons, due to specific...


Last comment on 05/06/2019 - 1:39pm

Surrounded by illogical women (who I otherwise love and admire)

by Guest on Monday, October 15, 2018 - 3:40am | in INTJ

I'm surrounded by extroverted feelers (some more logical than others) who struggle constantly with their thoughts (either constantly repeating themsleves or probing for reasons to be hurt). They say thier thoughts out  loud so I can not to hear what isn't being said LOL. It's exhausting. I'd LOVE to know someone capable of long, knowing smiles -male or female -this isn't a romantical type...


Last comment on 06/26/2019 - 3:08pm

Am I really who I think I am?

by Twinkle on Sunday, October 14, 2018 - 2:03pm | in INFP

I'm a 17 year old INFP about to finish high school (I'm in the exam phase), and while I have been getting ready for my exams, I encountered many problems in my friendships which just brought me down and now I don't even understand who I am anymore. I have realised that many people I was very close to have just left me behind or don't like talking to or being around me anymore, and this made me...


Last comment on 07/20/2019 - 8:41am

Just recently found out I was and infj personality type

by Guest on Saturday, October 13, 2018 - 5:26pm | in INFJ

I am in infj took the test three times which explains my life especially just finding out after 51 years about why I do what I do and who I am, so I'm just a baby and I would like to sharpen myself and my life as in infj.


Last comment on 07/21/2019 - 9:01am

INFJ group

by Guest on Monday, October 8, 2018 - 3:34am | in INFJ

Is there an INFJ online group or forum.  A place where we can discuss everyday issues and get advice?


Thank you. 


Last comment on 08/03/2019 - 12:57am

How does an ESFJ get out of an emotional entanglement with someone they like?

by Guest on Sunday, October 7, 2018 - 11:22pm | in ESFJ


Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 9:51am


by Guest on Monday, September 17, 2018 - 1:57pm | in INTP

Ive never felt more typical in my life....


Last comment on 03/14/2019 - 3:54pm


by Guest on Sunday, July 15, 2018 - 2:49am | in

I am really curious about myself so i take tests to know myself more. the problem is they keep changing. 

from ISFP to INTJ to INFP to ISTJ.

UGH. now i can't decicde which group i belong to.

can you guys give me your thoughts and comments about this? i can receive negative comments as long as its true and i can profit from it.

Thanks for reading and replying( it you...


Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 2:32pm

INFPs, how do you feel about marriage?

by Guest on Sunday, May 27, 2018 - 8:35pm | in INFP

Autonomy has been kind of the guiding principle of my life and marriage comes loaded with so many historical, social, and economic realities and expectations.  The idea of willingly entering a conventional role in which two people legal "own" each other, for any reason, seems to go against everything I everything I stand for.  What are your thoughts on marriage?


Last comment on 04/07/2019 - 2:29pm