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What to do When Lack Freedom Threatens a Mental Breakdown (INTJ)

by Thuna on Tuesday, December 25, 2018 - 10:56pm | in INTJ

I am a 15 yo INTJ (I believe), and while I realize that it is too early to be sure, I believe I have set my thought process properly and actually am an INTJ. For the past year however, with me starting to go to a 'good' school, I have felt that the system is not only lacking but also selfish (I live in Turkey, 8/5 school and extra 26 hours a week lessons, due to specific...


Last comment on 02/21/2019 - 6:05am

Surrounded by illogical women (who I otherwise love and admire)

by Guest on Monday, October 15, 2018 - 3:40am | in INTJ

I'm surrounded by extroverted feelers (some more logical than others) who struggle constantly with their thoughts (either constantly repeating themsleves or probing for reasons to be hurt). They say thier thoughts out  loud so I can not to hear what isn't being said LOL. It's exhausting. I'd LOVE to know someone capable of long, knowing smiles -male or female -this isn't a romantical type...


Last comment on 11/01/2018 - 4:59am

Am I really who I think I am?

by Twinkle on Sunday, October 14, 2018 - 2:03pm | in INFP

I'm a 17 year old INFP about to finish high school (I'm in the exam phase), and while I have been getting ready for my exams, I encountered many problems in my friendships which just brought me down and now I don't even understand who I am anymore. I have realised that many people I was very close to have just left me behind or don't like talking to or being around me anymore, and this made me...


Last comment on 03/07/2019 - 4:02pm

Just recently found out I was and infj personality type

by Guest on Saturday, October 13, 2018 - 5:26pm | in INFJ

I am in infj took the test three times which explains my life especially just finding out after 51 years about why I do what I do and who I am, so I'm just a baby and I would like to sharpen myself and my life as in infj.


Last comment on 03/18/2019 - 8:04pm

INFJ group

by Guest on Monday, October 8, 2018 - 3:34am | in INFJ

Is there an INFJ online group or forum.  A place where we can discuss everyday issues and get advice?


Thank you. 


Last comment on 10/10/2018 - 7:48pm

How does an ESFJ get out of an emotional entanglement with someone they like?

by Guest on Sunday, October 7, 2018 - 11:22pm | in ESFJ


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by Guest on Monday, September 17, 2018 - 1:57pm | in INTP

Ive never felt more typical in my life....


Last comment on 03/14/2019 - 3:54pm


by Guest on Sunday, July 15, 2018 - 2:49am | in

I am really curious about myself so i take tests to know myself more. the problem is they keep changing. 

from ISFP to INTJ to INFP to ISTJ.

UGH. now i can't decicde which group i belong to.

can you guys give me your thoughts and comments about this? i can receive negative comments as long as its true and i can profit from it.

Thanks for reading and replying( it you...


Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 2:32pm

INFPs, how do you feel about marriage?

by Guest on Sunday, May 27, 2018 - 8:35pm | in INFP

Autonomy has been kind of the guiding principle of my life and marriage comes loaded with so many historical, social, and economic realities and expectations.  The idea of willingly entering a conventional role in which two people legal "own" each other, for any reason, seems to go against everything I everything I stand for.  What are your thoughts on marriage?


Last comment on 01/07/2019 - 5:19pm

The Accuracy of all of this

by Guest on Saturday, March 31, 2018 - 8:10pm | in INTP

The accuracy of this test cannot be certainly proven. I mean really this personality type and it's associations will apply to anybody who gets it ay a different degree. Whether it's not at all or 100% accurate, it just depends. So you can all go and disagree with each other on the accuracy of this test and article, but it's just pointless.


Last comment on 12/20/2018 - 2:47pm

Difference Between Intuitive and Sensing -- I'm Confused

by Nadia on Saturday, March 31, 2018 - 3:57pm | in ENFJ, ESFJ

Hey guys,

First off, Thank you to everyone who takes the time to read and answer this. If there's anymore information I can include to make my question more clear, I'd be happy to add it if I can. I’m going to put all my questions in bold so it’s easier to pick them out from the context. 

I’m kind of confused about the difference between Intuitive and Sensing. I...


Last comment on 12/28/2018 - 2:40pm

True INTP, thru & thru.

by Marko the Beast on Friday, March 30, 2018 - 7:58pm | in INTP

I am amazed by this new knowledge & can't believe I didn't pick this up in psychology in h.s. or college. Im proud to be in the 3% of men in America, who are INTP!


Last comment on 02/12/2019 - 4:24pm

Too Sensitive

by Nita on Thursday, March 29, 2018 - 2:53pm | in INFJ

I am an INFJ and I totally fit that personality type. I just feel as if I have such an issue with being highly sensitive and sometimes I really dislike feeling this way. Does anyone else strugle with this? 

My best :-) 


Last comment on 03/04/2019 - 11:33am

I am not like Hillary Clinton

by Guest on Saturday, January 27, 2018 - 9:29pm | in INTJ


Iam not like Hillary Clinton.

She has low standards and no sense of morality or ethics

I have high standards and a sense of morality and I have eithics


Last comment on 02/27/2019 - 2:20pm

INTJ Friendship/Romance

by Guest on Friday, January 26, 2018 - 4:24pm | in INTJ

Is it possible for an INTJ male to have a deep connection with someone, to the point of being able to know her thoughts and complete her sentences, but be able to walk away and not stay in touch? To disappear from her life completely as if he never existed? I know time heals everything, but I am haunted....Not a day goes by....


Last comment on 12/11/2018 - 11:20pm

ENTJ woman -Being blunt holding back career

by Guest on Wednesday, January 24, 2018 - 6:26am | in ENTJ

hi I recently received feedback in my review that I am too blunt/direct and that I should use 5 words when I want to use 2. I also had an internal interview feedback which was excellent with the exception that I asked the interviewer to repeat the question in a blunt way??? Although I understand the need to deliver a message with both honesty and emotional integrity for others I am struggling...


Last comment on 12/17/2018 - 4:35pm

INTJ ready to debate!

by Elrond Half-Elven on Monday, January 22, 2018 - 5:37pm | in INTJ

Just let me know, I’m ready to engage anyone in a intellectual debate!


Last comment on 10/26/2018 - 1:03pm

Diseased movie

by LockheedSR71 on Saturday, January 20, 2018 - 8:33pm | in INTJ, INTP

Did anyone watch "The holy mountain"?


Last comment on 03/17/2019 - 12:46am

INTJ man - issues with dating/intimacy

by lovewand on Saturday, January 6, 2018 - 1:58am | in INTJ

Hello folks, I'm a 25 yrs INTJ trying to find some light in this existence. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. I am at my ''best moment'' of my life (Financially independent, living in paradise, healthy, etc.. too subjective, but it will help to understand) However I have to hardly force myself to feel happy/grateful. Thinking by myself, it makes me wonder that...


Last comment on 12/19/2018 - 5:18pm

How can I just pick one thing?

by Guest on Friday, January 5, 2018 - 1:12am | in INFP

I'm a college student and have changed my major more times than I could count. I think I have an overall issue with just deciding to do "one" thing. And I understand that a degree doesn't define you and that plenty of people don't do work in the field of the degree that they pursued (mine is sociology - for now), but it's a deeper seeded issue. I don't want to be "glued down" to one job or one...


Last comment on 02/19/2019 - 4:02pm