Howdy and Salutations INFPs!
I come in peace! I come in need of your guidance and compassion. I am a ISTJ....please don't run away! I have a new roommate who is an INFP, but we have our differences as you all know. I've paid his rent for two months now...and let him stay anyway. He is very kind and gentle, and he does do alot around the apartment, like cleaning, cooking and making things look and feel more cozy, which I appreciate, but I'm going in debt sustaining him. He's been using my car to look for a job and he broke it the other day, he was very sorry, but I am so frustrated, because he wasn't able to fix it, because he has no money. We've had several arguments about getting the rent paid and the car fixed, but the weeks keep passing by, and i feel like i have to constantly remind him and when I do he gets angry :(.
Is there a way we can each communicate to each other without sacrificing who we are? Is there something I can do on my part so I can feel more at peace in my expectations?