Hi, this is my first post. Im a 28 yr male who has been a painter and decorator by trade for almost ten years and have now moved on to working for a company with over 200 employees that paint massive high rise construction. In the last 9months I have been asked and I accepted the role of Work Place Health and Safety Officer. I get paid more and the boreing mind numbing workload is over. However this position has forced me outside of my comfort zone big time and the major problem I am facing is talking in a big group (say 10 people or more) mainly people with high authority or people who know more and have been around longer than myself. I've had to really change my personality I feel like I have to pretend to give a f*#% and really take control of my own work load. I can tell though that my INFJ traits work really well in terms of being proactive, problem solving, note taking, one on on consultation ect. I no longer can be quiet and just chill out on my own and work all day but now Im constantly having meetings with people, deals with massive safety issues that cause huge construction shut down, I do get abut nervous if it's with a lot of safety officers and building supervisors with a lot of knowledge and a lot older than I am. I just find it hard sometimes to speak up as I get social anxiety or status anxiety I guess if I'm not confident in what I'm saying against more knowledgable people. I really need to switch on when I'm at work now but it has been good though I don't anxiety as much as I use to as I'm constantly talking with people which helps me out a lot rather than confining myself and just working with my earphones in all day. What are people's opinions on this type of career in relation to being an INFJ? I am really looking at opening some sort of business in the very close future to leave my current job and do something that suits my purpose. At the moment I make very good money so I'm saving and plotting to do something that suits me. My hobbies and interests are boxing, health fitness, bodybuilding, cooking, I'm big coffee connesuir and enjoy eating out a lot, the beach and travel. I am a qualified personal trainer but I'm not into hassling clients and putting on a pretend face every day as I have done this part time years ago.