As I have come to find out, I don't typically like sharing personal things with people unless they are in my very small circle. However, I saw a video on YouTube and got intrigued so I took the assessment and it said I was an infj. Immediately i watched more videos and read up on what that meant. And I just have to say, for me it made me instantly feel....... Lighter! For a long time I felt very disconnected or alone almost, I felt like i was so right that I was wrong, if that makes sense. That's not to say I think I'm awesome or right about everything, I just felt like I was making the right choices for the right reasons but always found myself alone in the way that I thought. It was just great to see that I'm not alone and that I'm not a narcissist lol. I always felt very confident with myself and my approach at life, but lately through a relationship and just everyday life I felt very much like I had been doing everything wrong. I guess I just feel better knowing that I am 1% but not 0%. Reading up on this and watching the videos just made me feel better about myself and helped me understand myself a little more I suppose!! Thanks to anyone who takes the time to read this!!

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Mathias says...

Hi , i am new here and i didn t know there could be an explanation of my personality, i also found out on youtube.

well i had as well the feeling of being lighter, as  i always felt disconnected too, though being very well connected.. i always saw most life situations so clearly taht i felt disconnected seeing that most don t see and can t see... well. as i said we should all create a website where our gifts are sold online.. like a service..everything is sold on internet, till the most stupid useless thing, so why not our personalities in order to help who cannot see...

keep in touch

 

Anusha (not verified) says...

Hey,

I get what you're saying. We all want to know where we belong and most of us feel really lost. I did too. Knowing our personality type really helps. But I guess deep down we know who we really are, and just scared if we would be accepted or not, especially if we're different than most. But it's good to know we are not alone in feeling this way. Finding the right group of people is very important though.

Wilson (not verified) says...

This information, and test telling me what I am, has lifted a weight i have been carrying forever. A freak, an alien in a world of blindness, never quite  feeling like i belong anywhere...at least now i know why...its very rare, and i am so relieved to have discovered myself at the age of 55...an infj, didn't even know there was such a term. And my wife has a P.hd in biopsychology...it feels so good to know I am not a freak, just uncommon.💙✌

EpsilonAurigae (not verified) says...

I took the test last week, and I feel an incredible sense of relief that I am not the only one that feels this way. I have always walked this life feeling (for the most part) well-liked and fortunate, but at the same time, so alone and disconnected from others. There are really only a select few people that I feel I can trust to be myself with without judgment. It leaves me feeling like a fraud- to feel so grateful for my life, family, and job on the one hand, but to feel that I am not really worthy of any of it. I so appreciate the honesty on this site so far about how you deal with INFJ's weaknesses and ultra-sensitivity. It has given me hope. Thank you.

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