I'm an INTJ, and from what I can tell, my teacher is an ISFJ. I like her and am interested in her class, but I don't know what to expect from her. Sometimes, she insists on "looking for the details" in our literature readings when I'm still trying to understand the big picture, which makes me confused. When preparing for quizzes or tests, I feel like I'm just memorizing isolated facts that are unrelated to one another. She also has a habit of saying "you should do ___." This makes me overwhelmed and I feel like I can't meet her high standards! I don't want to be disrespectful, and I know she wants the best for me, but she's driving me crazy and I'm starting to dread walking into her class.
How should I respond? Is there a respectful way to let her know how frustrated I am?