Hi everyone, INFP male here. I have a problem: I recently discovered I have a romantic interest towads an ESFP, but really have no idea how to handle the question. I would like some help, and I thought asking here was a good start :).
We know since a lot of time (4 years to be precise), but never really had any interest in knowing each other until one or two months ago, when we got to talk better. I discovered we had more in common than I actually thought, and after a few days ended up falling in love for her.
What is the best way to make my intentions clear? And what should your man do to conquest you?
Another question: I don't know how to interpret her attitude towards me now anymore.
I don't understand if she is trying to send me signals or if she is just acting kind, like with everyone. For example, last night we were at a party, I was with my friends and she was with hers.
At a moment, she asks me if I wanted to dance with her, and I obviously accept (even if I barely know what a dancer looks like, let alone know how to dance). After half song, however, she backs up and goes to her friends (it was disco music, so we weren't stricly in contact), leaving me as confused as it sounds like.
It seems to be a constant: at some times, she seems to have interest in me, but after a few minutes she cuts it.
What do you honestly think this attitude means? Is she trying to send me an unspoken message, or is it all in my immagination? And in the second case, what am I supposed to do?
Thanks for reading thus far. I know I written a lot, but I am really helpless ^.^