Everything was right, as expected. I was on the path of achieving my goals, my plan was excellent (as always). Boom! Love happened. Saw this girl plenty of times and from her looks i could sense that she liked me. But she was playing the coquette (those who read the art of seduction will understand better). I knew i was fucked, i continued to go thru my plan for a few more weeks but eventually i gave up. My thoughts were exhausted from creating scenes in which i was around her. With her being my dominant thought, every other plan and goal faded away slowly, and she became my ultimate goal. But the irony is that now she was completely ignoring me and to make the matter worse, she was flirting with other guys. From badly fallen in love and having really high hopes and plans with her i went straight to heartbroken. My dreams were crushed, and for the first time i didn't achieve my goal, it was a double stab. The thing is that I still can't get her out of my mind, so it's like a ghost-broken-dream-goal that somehow gives me irational hopes that are against my logical analysis, and this crap is driving me nuts, she trapped me emotionally, and i don't like being played around like this. I've been contemplating in my room for 2 days now, didn't even glimpsed outside the window. After some mental breakdowns and rageful rants i concluded that emotions are a curse for your plans and achievements and psychopaths and sociopaths are blessed for their ability to see matters as they purely are, without being manipulated by the toxic influence of emotions. Feeling are a trap, these last 2 days taught me that, the more you try to understand and put these emotions logically the more you get trapped. Too many loopholes, irational motives and endless confusion that's what you'll find when rationally decomposing an emotion. Maybe other types handle these kinds of situations better, but for my fellow INTJs i got one advice: don't follow skirts, or at least not when following a plan/goal.