I fit this profile to a "T"; I own an insurance agency and I am presently studying for my realtor's license. I have always been in sales and sales management and have had (an overall) highly successful career.
Here's my "problem" and I want to know if other ENFJs experience this; toxic personalities and work environments make me almost physically ill. I cannot let negative human interaction or bullying or mistreatment of people fall by the wayside; in other words, I have to stand up for the meek or I must get out of the situation as quickly as possible. No matter how hard I try, I cannot ignore dysfunctional situations and just let things roll off me; when in such a situation, I need to make a change as quickly as possible or I will just EXPLODE!
I have considered seeing a therapist about this (I have had a ton of therapy in my life and am pretty together overall) but I really think this trait of mine is just an integral part of my personality. When I worked for corporations, I was a serious job hopper (I changed every 2 years but I was a top notch sales person) but I have had my own business for 5+ years now so I know that the job hopping was due to my intolerance for corporate B-S. One thing about me though, if I am stuck in a toxic situation I ALWAYS make sure I get out of it!!!!!!!
Can anyone else relate to the way I feel and should I just accept myself for who I am and avoid these situations at all costs?