Hi I have had bad luck so far in the relationship department. My perfect match according to this site is an INFJ. I am in my early 50's and athletic. I am hoping to meet someone my age to start a friendship with potential for a relationship.

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Jennifer1962 (not verified) says...

Hi I have had bad luck so far in the relationship department. My perfect match according to this site is an INFJ. I am in my early 50's and athletic. I am hoping to meet someone my age to start a friendship with potential for a relationship.

Benanesthesia says...

Sorry to hear about your bad luck in the relationship department, but good for you for remaining true to yourself and respecting your inner compass. I am a INFJ, and I married a INFJ, and of all of the blessings in my life, I am most thankful for being with an INFJ who so completely gets where I am coming from. While we are both INFJs, we do have variances in our hobbies, interests, and temperaments which keeps  things interesting. Our communication is effortless and we share common goals and ideals. I truly believe that the best match for the INFJ is another INFJ, and it is so worth the trouble of finding another one! 

There are many places you may find another INFJ including creative writing classes, art classes, etc. I honestly thought that I would never find someone who I could be myself with before I met my INFJ wife, and I wish that everyone could have this kind of genuine happiness. 

Best of luck on your journey! 

-Ben 

"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible." -Carl Jung

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