I'm a 59 male who just found out that I'm INFJ... One of only 1% of the population, and I am wondering if that might be part of the reason I've had so much difficulty finding a REALLY compatible partner. My marriage of 20 years just ended, and was really an excercise in futilty for a long time. We just could not connect on much of what I thought was important. This, disheartingly, is a repeating pattern for me in most, if not all of my adult relationships.
However, reading on this forum gives me a spark of hope that I have just not met the right person, based on my rare type. I can definitely see myself in a lot of you other INFJ's!
Eventually (not yet), I will want to start dating again, and I wonder if any of you fellow INFJ's (especially those my age) have had any success finding compatibility on a dating site that takes your Myers Briggs type into consideration?